Here's a stupid thought: why is it so hard and why does a man need to put in so much effort for the basic need of affection and sex?

[Deleted member 7448]

This is a stupid thought. We all know why it is so and how cruel reality is.

But think of it from this perspective: a man has to do so many things, learn and achieve so much, work so hard - all for a fundamental need that a human being has. "Love", affection, sex, companionship.

Even above average looking men have to work really hard (not talking about Chad). Get a good job, look good, be interesting, have fun hobbies, be smart, be funny etc...

It shouldn't be this hard. It should only be this hard when going after supermodels and whatnot, not just to cover this very basic need.

 

[Speedloader]

Meanwhile 3/10 lazy jobless hobbyless landwhale has 100 orbiters

 

[Deleted member 1252]

Because the universe is total chaos and the concept of a just or fair world is a human construct.

 

[gigacel123]

Biologically cause women hold a baby for 9 months and men dont have to invest in carrying one. Now the evolution processes have fucked over men ironicaly.

 

[DaveBuster]

We were formed by evolution. A woman wants to bear the child of the most genetically fit and dedicated man. Modern society has drastically expanded the pool of "available" men to women and simultaneously told them to prioritize their career over childbearing. This ends with women thinking they're entitled to a Chad who will make (and care for) children with her starting in her 40s or beyond. Instead, it means Chad pumps and dumps and bitter used up hags with powder for eggs regretting their lives wasted making powerpoints instagramming about the evils of the patriarchy to cope.

 

[The Abyss]

Just look at animals, no difference except we pretend we're not limited how they are, somehow we're something far more advanced apparently. If you're a non competitive inclined male then this life sucks.

 

[Robtical]

Not only are you expected to take care of them, you're forced to by taxes.

 

[seija]

I would say modern feminism is a big contributor.

 

[DaveBuster]

Not only are you expected to take care of them, you're forced to by taxes.

This is the worst part. You cannot escape it. I'm not against taxes as such, I know that parks and roads don't build themselves, but the modern taxation system takes a huge chunk of your income and squanders on bullshit.

 

[BrettyBoy]

It’s over for many men. It just sucks ass, man.

 

[Hate_my_life]

Others have raised the animals point and I think that's the best place for you to turn too tbh.

Other animals in the animal kingdom similarly allow only the genetic best to survive.
It sucks for the inferior animals but that's how it is.
Some of those inferior animals may literally DIE to stand a chance in getting laid, but to no avail in won't happen.

As someone else has pointed above, we believe we've risen above that.
Cucktears believe that foids aren't acting on their natural animal-instincts. Foids want the best possible chance of survival for their child; in today's society that's through breeding with chads.
Being a gentleman or having an amazing personality doesn't signal anything about your genes.

Imagine there was a glitch in the human DNA and whenever a foid has a male child. If that male child doesn't grow to be 6'0 by 18. The child dies.
If that were true @FACEandLMS would be swimming in foids.

What foids favour are the guys that are attractive and tall, those are the traits that will win you the battle against other males. It will ensure her offspring doesn't end up posting on here (if he's a male) and if it's a foid that she'll end up pretty so she lives life on Press any key to win mode.

 

[Speedloader]

Others have raised the animals point and I think that's the best place for you to turn too tbh.

Other animals in the animal kingdom similarly allow only the genetic best to survive.
It sucks for the inferior animals but that's how it is.
Some of those inferior animals may literally DIE to stand a chance in getting laid, but to no avail in won't happen.

As someone else has pointed above, we believe we've risen above that.
Cucktears believe that foids aren't acting on their natural animal-instincts. Foids want the best possible chance of survival for their child; in today's society that's through breeding with chads.
Being a gentleman or having an amazing personality doesn't signal anything about your genes.

Imagine there was a glitch in the human DNA and whenever a foid has a male child. If that male child doesn't grow to be 6'0 by 18. The child dies.
If that were true @FACEandLMS would be swimming in foids.

What foids favour are the guys that are attractive and tall, those are the traits that will win you the battle against other males. It will ensure her offspring doesn't end up posting on here (if he's a male) and if it's a foid that she'll end up pretty so she lives life on Press any key to win mode.

Too bad we can compete only by looks now. Hundreds of years ago ogrecel could just split prettyboy’s skull in half and plant his seed in female by force

 

[Napoleon de Nascar]

This so demotivating. Work hard, when femoid can do nothing. Really nothing, not even working on being not fat

 

[mylifeistrash]

This is a stupid thought. We all know why it is so and how cruel reality is.

But think of it from this perspective: a man has to do so many things, learn and achieve so much, work so hard - all for a fundamental need that a human being has. "Love", affection, sex, companionship.

Even above average looking men have to work really hard (not talking about Chad). Get a good job, look good, be interesting, have fun hobbies, be smart, be funny etc...

It shouldn't be this hard. It should only be this hard when going after supermodels and whatnot, not just to cover this very basic need.

same exact reason men compete for low wage jobs

 

[Robtical]

This is the worst part. You cannot escape it. I'm not against taxes as such, I know that parks and roads don't build themselves, but the modern taxation system takes a huge chunk of your income and squanders on bullshit.

Fuck parks and roads. Plus, with the amount of money the government steals they could've paid for them 1000 times over.

 

[StaroRavager]

Because the universe is total chaos and the concept of a just or fair world is a human construct.

 

[Braincel14w]

the concept of a just or fair world is a human construct

and a massive cope.

 

[Deleted member 16390]

The entire system is based on sub 8/10 men to cuckslavewage, and then spending 80% to 90% of his money to win "the affection of foids",entertainment, restaurants, jewelries, gifts, diamonds, cars,trips to fancy resorts, etc...even the clothes on his back is designed to attract foids, not for utilitarian purpose.. While 8/10 Chads get the gifts,clothes, and jewelries from foids.

and the system push this philosophy everywhere, books, schools, TV, commercials,movies, billboards

 

[ihaveno1]

Because the universe is total chaos and the concept of a just or fair world is a human construct.

 

[Deleted member 16455]

It really shouldn’t be this way. Libtards fucked everything up. Females can’t lose now

 

[Robtical]

@MudslimeMo Lol at your username.

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

this is just something that society does whenever it "puts its foot on the pedal" or "tries something new", it shits on men.

asking the question is like asking why men suffer when there's a war

every trial and illness and contortion and fever dream that society goes through, women and children and the wealthy are protected from it, while average men take the full brunt of it.

societal illness making it no longer fashionable to get basic physical touch as a man? just deal with it, bro! just get a kitty!

 

[Ignas]

Jfl @ putting efforts like jobs, money, and achievements to get love. Women's love is tested when the man doesn't have anything

 

[Vorbei]

Men are biologically disposable so they have to "swim upstream" to be a genetic success.

 

[ElliotRodgerGod]

Feminism and hypergamy has caused this

 

[Vermilioncore]

I would say modern feminism is a big contributor.

 

[owly]

Simple.
When normies pay for something expensive its price goes up.

 

[MudslimeMo]

this is just something that society does whenever it "puts its foot on the pedal" or "tries something new", it shits on men.

asking the question is like asking why men suffer when there's a war

every trial and illness and contortion and fever dream that society goes through, women and children and the wealthy are protected from it, while average men take the full brunt of it.

societal illness making it no longer fashionable to get basic physical touch as a man? just deal with it, bro! just get a kitty!

Legal prostitution would solve this, but that would render post prime women looking for a nice guy betabuxer redundant. No man in his right mind would marry a female older than mid 20s, and women innately know they are worthless when they hit their late 20s or early 30s. What ends up happening is them riding the CC all through their fertile years, safe in the knowledge that sex starved men have absolutely no choice but to marry them when their around 30. Otherwise, no pussy at all, because hookercelling is illegal.


I do doubt hookercelling would be satisfying long term though, because you will eventually crave sex bareback.

@MudslimeMo Lol at your username.

I'm just being a self-hating muslim KHHV. Aren't we all depressed losers here?!

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

egal prostitution would solve this, but that would render post prime women looking for a nice guy betabuxer redundant. No man in his right mind would marry a female older than mid 20s, and women innately know they are worthless when they hit their late 20s or early 30s. What ends up happening is them riding the CC all through their fertile years, safe in the knowledge that sex starved men have absolutely no choice but to marry them when their around 30. Otherwise, no pussy at all, because hookercelling is illegal.


I do doubt hookercelling would be satisfying long term though, because you will eventually crave sex bareback.

all women are at a hooker-level of experience and jadedness now, so you're either paying or not paying for the same subpar emotionless experience

 

[MudslimeMo]

all women are at a hooker-level of experience and jadedness now, so you're either paying or not paying for the same subpar emotionless experience

If you are not paying for sex, and the foid isn't expecting marriage, she likes you. If you are paying for sex or jumping through hoops to get it, she doesn't. Crucial difference.

The kind of sex Chad gets is free and passionate. The sex a betabuxer gets isn't. That's why legalizing prostitution would obliterate the marriage market for foids; Beta males know they aren't getting the experience Chads and Chadlites are getting, whether they marry the foid or not. Why not pay for sex directly if it's going to be mediocre anyway, instead of getting married and getting divorce raped?

I used to have a textbook Chad colleague at my last job. The amount of female validation and hookups he gets is surreal. The dichotomy between my life and his was an eye opener. Sex is merely a trivial matter and part of everyday life to him, whereas I am basing my entire life choices on getting sex eventually. He has had an active sex life since his teens. I am a 29 year old virgin.

Once all of this becomes mainstream knowledge ( hypergamy, the blackpill and looks ) you can expect millions upon millions of men clocking out of society, ala Japan. Add legal prostitution to the mix for a few decades and governments might even ban Tinder and actively encourage marriage and monogamy from a very early age.

Chad's monopoly and foids' hypergamy isn't sustainable at all, particularly if more and more men realize they have missed out on young pussy ( 16-23 ).

 

[Deleted member 17997]

Jfl @ putting efforts like jobs, money, and achievements to get love. Women's love is tested when the man doesn't have anything

High iq

 

[Tempus Edax Rerum]

So that only the best reproduce, and the race doesn't degenerate over time.

 

[GeneticDysfunction]

We were formed by evolution. A woman wants to bear the child of the most genetically fit and dedicated man. Modern society has drastically expanded the pool of "available" men to women and simultaneously told them to prioritize their career over childbearing. This ends with women thinking they're entitled to a Chad who will make (and care for) children with her starting in her 40s or beyond. Instead, it means Chad pumps and dumps and bitter used up hags with powder for eggs regretting their lives wasted making powerpoints instagramming about the evils of the patriarchy to cope.

Holy shit lmao