Lv99_BixNood
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View: https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1cxxt61/her_picker_isnt_broken_its_systematic/
So much dating advice for women is about individualizing the fact that she is choosing bad men and to look at herself psychologically and ask what attracts you to these men.
And I agree at a certain level we need to take personal responsibility for our lives and also look at our history.
But systematically we are groomed to be nice and not think of our own needs
And systematically men are taught to see us as property.
The problems in dating are a systematic interpersonal bullying that men learn to subjugate women.
I’m just so sick of the victim blaming that she somehow attracts it by having low self esteem
Low self esteem with men she was raised into and then to individualize her reasons why SO MANY men she meets hurt her.
We can't help choosing 6'5 felons it's men's fault