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Serious Help I think I’m falling out of favor at work

Ellsworth

Ellsworth

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So a few weeks ago I started a new job. It is pretty good and the people were shockingly nice to me. I’m very introverted so the last week or so I just kind of sit at my desk working. I know that is my job but I feel I should get up more often and engage in small talk.

Problem is that incels such as myself are socially awkward and have trouble thinking of things to say to people. Especially those I don’t know well.

What do?
 
Stay in your line if you don't want to be hit with a sexual harrassment charge for breathing the same air as a foid dirty inkwell.
 
If you tried to barge in and initiate conversations you will only be regardes as a nuisance and treated with contempt tbh.Jfl at normies saying 'just approach bro'.

Are you in an open space office or something?
 
You don't need people to like you, you just need people not to dislike you. Everything went wrong at my job once I started to realize certain bosses didn't like me. The coworkers liked me but honestly that doesn't matter as much.
 
CHOose to betray them before they betray you
 
If you tried to barge in and initiate conversations you will only be regardes as a nuisance and treated with contempt tbh.Jfl at normies saying 'just approach bro'.

Are you in an open space office or something?
It’s a semi open office with cubicles. My cubicle is nice because walls are high so nobody can see me.
 
Oh no what if they bully you so you'd be forced to quit
Happened to my uncle
 
Whatever you will do in the end just remember that if female coworker is nice to you that doesn't mean she likes you, she just feels obligated to be nice since you work in the same company.
 
Apply for NEETBUX and LDAR.
 
I don't know I dont talk with anyone
 
If you have anxiety and you don't want to talk to them that's your brain telling you, you are to ugly for social interaction. Every time I've went against my social anxiety and put my self out there I get treated like shit.
 
You can't win either way, so just be as neutral as possible.

I didn't talk to roastie coworkers, they got me fired for "lack of enthusiasm". I did talk to them, they got me fired anyway for "lacking team spirit". You can't win. Just be as neutral as possible.
 
Sounds like I’m screwed either way.
 

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