Of course, this is void if you only have one premarital sex partner, and you end up marrying. Otherwise, I see premarital sex as an insult to a future spouse.
Honestly think about it: A woman says to her husband "Yeah, I had sex with 14 other guys before you."
That is immensely disturbing for a number of reasons. For one, she has given her body, which should solely be yours and hers, to other random men. Secondly, she has experienced with other men what she should only experience with you. Thirdly, she will always have those memories in her mind and potentially (And probably) compare you to them. Finally, she may still even be in contact with those men. How vile to think about.
The same applies to men, too, of course, which is why I am unworthy of marriage.
Some people are weaker, and would get married regardless. They can do what they want and I sincerely hope that they can cultivate a genuine love from a relationship with someone with past partners. I just don't think it's likely. I don't plan on getting married, as I have better things to do with my time, but if I did the only non-virgin I would marry is a girl whose only sex experience was being raped (Actual rape, not going to parties 80% naked and drinking yourself into a oblivion around a bunch of drunken horny men).
Honestly think about it: A woman says to her husband "Yeah, I had sex with 14 other guys before you."
That is immensely disturbing for a number of reasons. For one, she has given her body, which should solely be yours and hers, to other random men. Secondly, she has experienced with other men what she should only experience with you. Thirdly, she will always have those memories in her mind and potentially (And probably) compare you to them. Finally, she may still even be in contact with those men. How vile to think about.
The same applies to men, too, of course, which is why I am unworthy of marriage.
Some people are weaker, and would get married regardless. They can do what they want and I sincerely hope that they can cultivate a genuine love from a relationship with someone with past partners. I just don't think it's likely. I don't plan on getting married, as I have better things to do with my time, but if I did the only non-virgin I would marry is a girl whose only sex experience was being raped (Actual rape, not going to parties 80% naked and drinking yourself into a oblivion around a bunch of drunken horny men).
