It's Over Having sex with a girl seems scary to me

[nolifecel]

The more I imagine myself actually being in a room with a girl naked, the more vulnerable and insecure I feel. I mean how do you even not make it awkward? Like how do you even kiss her? And then like you get hard but like could I even get hard? I watch porn all day but if I imagine myself in this scenario it feels like I couldn't even get an erection cuz I'd feel too insecure and vulnerable being naked next to someone else. I feel like it would be disrespectful to myself to let someone see my naked body and have that image in their head. However if I was better looking, taller and just had a bigger penis I'd easily have sex with her. It's so hard for me to imagine actually holding a girls hand or touching her at all, or kissing or even basic shows of affection. I fear it. I know I won't even get it but even imagining it makes me feel insecure

 

[WastedPotential]

Maybe try with a sex doll at first, then progress to escort?

 

[The Wolf]

The more I imagine myself actually being in a room with a girl naked, the more vulnerable and insecure I feel. I mean how do you even not make it awkward? Like how do you even kiss her? And then like you get hard but like could I even get hard? I watch porn all day but if I imagine myself in this scenario it feels like I couldn't even get an erection cuz I'd feel too insecure and vulnerable being naked next to someone else. I feel like it would be disrespectful to myself to let someone see my naked body and have that image in their head.

Smart thinking, man. You seem very self-aware.

However if I was better looking, taller and just had a bigger penis I'd easily have sex with her. It's so hard for me to imagine actually holding a girls hand or touching her at all, or kissing or even basic shows of affection. I fear it. I know I won't even get it but even imagining it makes me feel insecure

Same here, I've been having these thoughts. I'm 1.62/5'4" and very skinny, like a boy. I'm 28 though. I also have my whole torso covered in small brown dots, not contagious but looks like it. I have phimosis (can't pull back foreskin when hard) and my dick is only 6 inches. I also am facially deformed (people/strangers always give me strange looks or make comments about me).

 

[NoNameMan3789]

Same

 

[blackpillednigga]

you dont have to worry because foids dont want to get near you anyways

 

[LastGerman]

The more I imagine myself actually being in a room with a girl naked, the more vulnerable and insecure I feel. I mean how do you even not make it awkward? Like how do you even kiss her? And then like you get hard but like could I even get hard? I watch porn all day but if I imagine myself in this scenario it feels like I couldn't even get an erection cuz I'd feel too insecure and vulnerable being naked next to someone else. I feel like it would be disrespectful to myself to let someone see my naked body and have that image in their head. However if I was better looking, taller and just had a bigger penis I'd easily have sex with her. It's so hard for me to imagine actually holding a girls hand or touching her at all, or kissing or even basic shows of affection. I fear it. I know I won't even get it but even imagining it makes me feel insecure

Coitus is only possible with a big penis.

 

[starystulejarz]

and my dick is only 6 inches

giga mog

 

[Hope repellent]

Coitus is only possible with a big penis.

Money copers on suicide watch
10 inches>10 million dollars

 

[Vector2800]

Doesn’t matter you aren’t going to experience it anyway.

 

[retardfuel30]

no need to worry about that bro. No girl will ever want to be near us anyway

 

[Runt171]

I mean how do you even not make it awkward?

Have good enough genes and be NT

Not having lived a life that turns you into an absolute social reject mentally and decays your brain from the inside

 

[The Wolf]

giga mog

maybe but I'm also only 1.62m short and have facial deformity. I'm 28 1/2, girls wre always disgusted by me. maybe my dick is genetic, my dad is 1.88m tall. and I have phimosis (can't pull back foreskin, you can't have sex with that condition. I'd need partial circumsision)

 

[Hope repellent]

maybe but I'm also only 1.62m short and have facial deformity. I'm 28 1/2, girls wre always disgusted by me. maybe my dick is genetic, my dad is 1.88m tall. and I have phimosis (can't pull back foreskin, you can't have sex with that condition. I'd need partial circumsision)

Brutal man
That's actually sad as shit
Is your deformity inherited by mom or dad or you just got unlucky

 

[The Wolf]

Brutal man
That's actually sad as shit

yeah :/

Is your deformity inherited by mom or dad or you just got unlucky

Inherited.

Kind of ironically, it's from my dad -- but he was/is only carrier of it. I was good looking until around age 10 though, then my face/facial bones and skull started to change. Without this disorder, I'd be around 1.80m/5'11 and probably chadlite (I'd look completely differently, like a different person. Not just more symmetric or something. So I'm not like some "deformed" chad if that makes sense, but overall very ugly). My mom was also very attractive when she had me, and so is my sister, who did not inherit the disorder. The chance of inheriting it is literally 50%. A flip of the coin...

Even when I was like 10-11 pediatricians predicted I'll be around 5'11-6 foot once I grow up.

I don't want to disclose it (yet), out of fear of getting doxxed. However even if you'd know you'd have no idea how I look like, it can manifest itself in so many different ways and there is no one "oh yeah he has that disease" tell.

I was unlucky in 2 ways: I got it, AND I was physically impacted by it. These overall odds are about 10%.

 

[Hope repellent]

yeah :/


Inherited.

Kind of ironically, it's from my dad -- but he was/is only carrier of it. I was good looking until around age 10 though, then my face/facial bones and skull started to change. Without this disorder, I'd be around 1.80m/5'11 and probably chadlite (I'd look completely differently, like a different person. Not just more symmetric or something. So I'm not like some "deformed" chad if that makes sense, but overall very ugly). My mom was also very attractive when she had me, and so is my sister, who did not inherit the disorder. The chance of inheriting it is literally 50%. A flip of the coin...

Even when I was like 10-11 pediatricians predicted I'll be around 5'11-6 foot once I grow up.

I don't want to disclose it (yet), out of fear of getting doxxed. However even if you'd know you'd have no idea how I look like, it can manifest itself in so many different ways and there is no one "oh yeah he has that disease" tell.

I was unlucky in 2 ways: I got it, AND I was physically impacted by it. These overall odds are about 10%.

Absolutelly fucking brutal
You got your whole life screwed by a 10% coin toss
I'M starting to think God or whoever is above the skies is a massive comedian and finds comedy in such suffering
That's the only way I can comprehend this level of unluckiness

 

[The Wolf]

Absolutelly fucking brutal
You got your whole life screwed by a 10% coin toss

Yeah bro, I've thought about that a lot. Thank you for understanding

I'M starting to think God or whoever is above the skies is a massive comedian and finds comedy in such suffering
That's the only way I can comprehend this level of unluckiness

That's a smart way of putting it

 

[Hope repellent]

Yeah bro, I've thought about that a lot. Thank you for understanding


That's a smart way of putting it

I do kinda understand your point of view as my lower jaw is slightly tilted to the right. I think it's from sleeping on my side. It's not too noticable but still bad.

Yeah bro, I've thought about that a lot. Thank you for understanding


That's a smart way of putting it

Hope you find some kind of peace one way or another
I understand that even small gesture of kindness helps us just make it pass the next day
I cant even imagine the bullying you get for being 162cms

 

[The Wolf]

I do kinda understand your point of view as my lower jaw is slightly tilted to the right. I think it's from sleeping on my side. It's not too noticable but still bad.

I see. That does sound annoying

Hope you find some kind of peace one way or another
I understand that even small gesture of kindness helps us just make it pass the next day

Thank you

I cant even imagine the bullying you get for being 162cms

Yeah sometimes it's kids or even grown ups, though my face also gets lots of attention (they never say it directly to me, so I can never really "react"). Many people are just assholes, they show me oh you're so small or oh you are so strange looking. A kid once asked his parents, why does does this man look so strange (the parents seemed embarrassed), another asked "what" I am.

 

[Hope repellent]

I see. That does sound annoying


Thank you


Yeah sometimes it's kids or even grown ups, though my face also gets lots of attention (they never say it directly to me, so I can never really "react"). Many people are just assholes, they show me oh you're so small or oh you are so strange looking. A kid once asked his parents, why does does this man look so strange (the parents seemed embarrassed), another asked "what" I am.

Im 11 cms taller yet get called a girl and not a real man for my height. My dad keeps telling me i need 10 more centimeters to be considered a real man
Jfl. We aren't even humans to them. We're essentially plants that they expect us to grow simply bc they fed us enough food and water
Even worse when it's your own family telling you so
People don't even consider you on the same level,not just looks wise but also intelligence too
If you try to be confident they tell us we got napoleon complex. We do nothing and we get called weirdos and creeps.

 

[The Wolf]

Im 11 cms taller yet get called a girl and not a real man for my height. My dad keeps telling me i need 10 more centimeters to be considered a real man
Jfl. We aren't even humans to them. We're essentially plants that they expect us to grow simply bc they fed us enough food and water
Even worse when it's your own family telling you so
People don't even consider you on the same level,not just looks wise but also intelligence too
If you try to be confident they tell us we got napoleon complex. We do nothing and we get called weirdos and creeps.

 

[DPRKcel]

you dont have to worry because foids dont want to get near you anyways

 

[anon]

I know what you mean, a lot of us feel the same. I think of reciprocal sex as something that doesn't relate to me in any way because I don't even meet the requirements. It's just something I observe in nature and on TV, kind of like flying - only birds do it and that's just how it is, there's no point in thinking about it and when I do think about it, it's like thinking about doing any other impossible activity.

Sex is obviously different because it's something humans commonly do, it's talked about a lot and it's everywhere, I just don't get to participate in it. Kind of like how blind people can't imagine colors and all the other crazy shit we get to experience just by opening our eyes.

It's difficult for me to imagine actual people having sex at home, not just myself. A lot of people do it almost every day and then they just go about their business. It's crazy to think about all the people I interact with every day who have sex, like professors in college, especially women. They're all serious about their job, cordial, professional, but some of them were getting fucked and backshotted by Chad/Tyrone just hours ago, maybe even in a classroom, bathroom or office.

Flying birds, blind or deaf people etc. that's how I like to think of it, it's just something I can't do.

 

[nolifecel]

I know what you mean, a lot of us feel the same. I think of reciprocal sex as something that doesn't relate to me in any way because I don't even meet the requirements. It's just something I observe in nature and on TV, kind of like flying - only birds do it and that's just how it is, there's no point in thinking about it and when I do think about it, it's like thinking about doing any other impossible activity.

Sex is obviously different because it's something humans commonly do, it's talked about a lot and it's everywhere, I just don't get to participate in it. Kind of like how blind people can't imagine colors and all the other crazy shit we get to experience just by opening our eyes.

It's difficult for me to imagine actual people having sex at home, not just myself. A lot of people do it almost every day and then they just go about their business. It's crazy to think about all the people I interact with every day who have sex, like professors in college, especially women. They're all serious about their job, cordial, professional, but some of them were getting fucked and backshotted by Chad/Tyrone just hours ago, maybe even in a classroom, bathroom or office.

I've had that thought. Like I wonder when did this normal looking woman get facial in her face or swallow cum of Chad last time, probably like 3 hours ago, brutal

 

[anon]

I've had that thought. Like I wonder when did this normal looking woman get facial in her face or swallow cum of Chad last time, probably like 3 hours ago, brutal

I think about it a lot. I know that all average and attractive females suck and fuck regularly, get cummed on and turned into submissive little slaves for Chad and Tyrone which is why I can never truly take them seriously, especially in a work environment.

 

[nolifecel]

I think about it a lot. I know that all average and attractive females suck and fuck regularly, get cummed on and turned into submissive little slaves for Chad and Tyrone which is why I can never truly take them seriously, especially in a work environment.

Facts. I thought I was the only person that thought about this. Like how am I supposed to take you seriously.. You swallow cum, literally. Nothing you can say or do makes any difference after I know that you take big veiny dicks into your asshole and pussy and love it. Like imagine coming up to me in my work environment and telling me I'm wrong when you swallow cum.

 

[anon]

Facts. I thought I was the only person that thought about this. Like how am I supposed to take you seriously.. You swallow cum, literally. Nothing you can say or do makes any difference after I know that you take big veiny dicks into your asshole and pussy and love it. Like imagine coming up to me in my work environment and telling me I'm wrong when you swallow cum.

This is why females shouldn't be allowed to teach in universities or have any authority over men. It's how it was prior to WW2.
It was all done on purpose to cuck and feminize men.

 

[nolifecel]

This is why females shouldn't be allowed to teach in universities or have any authority over men. It's how it was prior to WW2.
It was all done on purpose to cuck and feminize men.

Well you could thank the Jews for this misplacement

 

[Solid State]

One issue I can see is not having any idea what to do, and therefore being so laughably bad at sex that she will basically tell me to not even bother halfway through.

It is one thing to be sexually-inept and inexperienced when you are still a teenager, as everybody else is largely in the same boat as you. However, at 41, very few people would have the patience to "show you the ropes" at that age as they expect you to know what you are doing by then and there are also other implications that a lot of people would have on their minds about a 41-year-old virgin; and none of them are good.

 

[ForcedMarriageNow]

I'd need her tied up and blindfolded to relax enough to be able to have sex.

I have phimosis (can't pull back foreskin, you can't have sex with that condition. I'd need partial circumsision)

Do it yourself then, can't be that hard, kikes do it with their teeth, surely you can do it with a blade, have a few drinks to steady your hands

 

[TheRotKing]

you dont have to worry because foids dont want to get near you anyways

 

[TrueGentleman]

I feel you. I think it's way more comfortable if the girl is not moving and you can just cuddle with her, like a big fleshy pillow.