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SuicideFuel Having interests in common with a foid as an ugly man is just salt on the wound

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Q. H. Cooks

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It's rare that I have interests in common with foids, but since I work in an area where I have to talk to many people and some are women, sometimes it happens, like today. Same favorite band, lots of anime we both like, same score in personality tests, same favorite color and food, yay, it goes nowhere as an ugly man and just reminds you that THE SINGLE REASON you're an incel is your looks. At least I was spared of the infamous "I wish my boyfriend was more like you".
 
It's rare that I have interests in common with foids, but since I work in an area where I have to talk to many people and some are women, sometimes it happens, like today. Same favorite band, lots of anime we both like, same score in personality tests, same favorite color and food, yay, it goes nowhere as an ugly man and just reminds you that THE SINGLE REASON you're an incel is your looks. At least I was spared of the infamous "I wish my boyfriend was more like you".
Foids can't have interests. They posses no individuality; they only consume and process information at the most superfical level.
 
Foids can't have interests. They posses no individuality; they only consume and process information at the most superfical level.
It's true that foids are extreme conformists who just follow the group like that, but there's not just one group, there are many. You'll get the goth foid, the basic foid, the hippie foid and stuff like that. They'll find some subgroup to follow (but just follow it, not having individuality or nuance to the degree men have).
 
It's true that foids are extreme conformists who just follow the group like that, but there's not just one group, there are many. You'll get the goth foid, the basic foid, the hippie foid and stuff like that. They'll find some subgroup to follow (but just follow it, not having individuality or nuance to the degree men have).
No, there is only one group, and that is the female group. They will only do whatever the female group says. There is no reason to spilt it off into sub-groups. All women are the same, they all push the same ideas, and hold the same beliefs... There is no individuality or self-expression within them. They will follow one and another. You can delude yourself into thinking that you can delineate further; but its just an losing game at that point, because naturally the goth foid, the basic foid, the hippie foid and stuff like that are still foids, and still hold the same beliefs, and ideas, and rationale as each other, with only superfical differences seperating them.
 
foids personalities are based off of whatever aesthetic they find the most appealing
 
If we were attractive enough, women would come to us and say they enjoy what we do even if it's a lie.
 
No, there is only one group, and that is the female group. They will only do whatever the female group says. There is no reason to spilt it off into sub-groups. All women are the same, they all push the same ideas, and hold the same beliefs... There is no individuality or self-expression within them. They will follow one and another.
I think foids' conformity is better seen in some dimensions, like politics, for instance. Pretty much all young women are libtards, with some odd ones pretending to be trad to try and snatch right-wing Chad or, more commonly, to get attention from right-wing simps.

But like @minimaltz said, they do possess minor aesthetic preference variation. Some will prefer a goth good-looking man, others will prefer a basic good-looking man, others a hippie good-looking man and so on.
 
But like @minimaltz said, they do possess aesthetic preference variation. Some will prefer a both good-looking man, others will prefer an basic, others a hippie good-looking man and so on.
They all want Chad. All of them; no matter what. There is only the minutest, if not the tiniest of differences between women. Compare two woman and tell me what differences you find.
 
They all want Chad. All of them; no matter what. There is only the minutest, if not the tiniest of differences between women. Compare two woman and tell me what differences you find.
That's true, but the goth girl will pick goth Chad over a basic Chad. But of course, a basic Chad over an ugly or even normie goth.
 
That's true, but the goth girl will pick goth Chad over a basic Chad. But of course, a basic Chad over an ugly or even normie goth.
Yeah. I agree. But there is virtually no differences between women, if you just swap one out for another, you wouldn't see a single change.
 
They don't actually like those things tho, they either only like them on a surface level or they just like them because a previous HTN/chad they dated introduced it to them
 
I hate when I search up something and then I see foids liking it. it makes me want to not like it anymore. I know they’re going to ruin the community.
 
Yeah. I agree. But there is virtually no differences between women, if you just swap one out for another, you wouldn't see a single change.
Not to mention changing styles is easy, unlike changing looks.
 
Agreed. Met a girl that liked some of the same games I did. Even had a pleasant chat about it.

Whoops her BF came and he's taller and better looking than I am. I might as well have died since she didn't so much as utter a word.
 
They don't actually like those things tho, they either only like them on a surface level or they just like them because a previous HTN/chad they dated introduced it to them
High IQ observation. Women will commonly mirror the tastes of the men they have relationships with.
 
You’re actually completely wrong. Women enjoy hobbies for different reasons than men. For example, women like anime for the social aspects like cosplaying meanwhile men like anime for the stories.

I can’t imagine why you would pay enough attention to a female to the point you know her favorite band, personality, etc. you sound like a fakecel
 
I can’t imagine why you would pay enough attention to a female to the point you know her favorite band, personality, etc. you sound like a fakecel
Because acting like a retard with no social skills on top of being ugly would kill any work prospects whatsoever and I have bills to pay.
 
Because acting like a retard with no social skills on top of being ugly would kill any work prospects whatsoever and I have bills to pay.
You don’t have to socialize with your coworkers past really basic stuff like “the weather looks nice”.
I would never get to know a coworker on a personal level unless said coworker is a fellow ugly guy that’s not bluepilled. Then i might

it sounds like you’re still coping and trying to date your coworkers
 
You don’t have to socialize with your coworkers past really basic stuff like “the weather looks nice”.
It depends heavily on the type of job. I'm not getting into detail but in my job I do have to do more than just the minimum like that.

it sounds like you’re still coping and trying to date your coworkers
I concede to that partially though. I still haven't fully accepted it's over, although I know it is.
 
I hate when I search up something and then I see foids liking it. it makes me want to not like it anymore. I know they’re going to ruin the community.
Agreed. Met a girl that liked some of the same games I did. Even had a pleasant chat about it.

Whoops her BF came and he's taller and better looking than I am. I might as well have died since she didn't so much as utter a word.
 
It's rare that I have interests in common with foids, but since I work in an area where I have to talk to many people and some are women, sometimes it happens, like today. Same favorite band, lots of anime we both like, same score in personality tests, same favorite color and food, yay, it goes nowhere as an ugly man and just reminds you that THE SINGLE REASON you're an incel is your looks. At least I was spared of the infamous "I wish my boyfriend was more like you".

I've been through something similar.

During my cringe bluepilled days, I knew a foid who had the same tastes in music and movies as me. We even got along pretty well. But since I was too ugly for her, I was nothing more than a "friend" to her -- a friend among many friends.

Her boyfriend at that time had nothing in common with her. But he still got to date/fuck her because he had the looks and height.
 
I've been through something similar.

During my cringe bluepilled days, I knew a foid who had the same tastes in music and movies as me. We even got along pretty well. But since I was too ugly for her, I was nothing more than a "friend" to her -- a friend among many friends.

Her boyfriend at that time had nothing in common with her. But he still got to date/fuck her because he had the looks and height.
People should really stop gaslighting ugly men. Tastes, personality, hygiene, etc etc, only matter IF THE MINIMUM ATTRACTIVENESS THRESHOLD IS MET. This is so obvious, imagine a 90 yo decrepit men who had the most awesome and pleasant personality ever and exactly the same tastes as you. Would you want to fuck or date him? Lol.

If you're below the minimum looks threshold, which is like 3-4/10 for men outside of betabuxx (even for that much is questionable depending on your rating) and illegal options, it's over.
 
With 99 percent of guys, if a woman has interests in common with him, it makes him more attracted to her. Most guys would rather date a 4/10 that shares his hobbies over a 8/10 that doesn't. And this isn't even accounting for the juggernaut law factor.

But with women, they don't seem to care if a guy has anything in common with them or not. Maybe it's a tiny plus, but they'd rather date a 8/10 they have nothing in common with over even a 7/10 they have a lot in common with. It really is just looks, looks, looks.

Yeah yeah, "water is wet".
 
With 99 percent of guys, if a woman has interests in common with him, it makes him more attracted to her. Most guys would rather date a 4/10 that shares his hobbies over a 8/10 that doesn't. And this isn't even accounting for the juggernaut law factor.

But with women, they don't seem to care if a guy has anything in common with them or not. Maybe it's a tiny plus, but they'd rather date a 8/10 they have nothing in common with over even a 7/10 they have a lot in common with. It really is just looks, looks, looks.

Yeah yeah, "water is wet".
True. Compatibility, just like personality as a whole, serves as a tie-breaker between two men of similar ratings at best. A foid will never choose a 4/10 over an 8/10 if she can get the 8/10 and personality won't ever cause attraction if bare minimum looks aren't there.
 

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