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Now I know plenty of you would've been happy with having a girlfriend you could fuck and care for, but that would've just added a new set of problems to your life. Some of you still live up to this delusion where a gf would've made things easier and worth living, but all I just see it as more problems to add on top of this shitty ass life.

First off, the family.

Do you think that's worth it?

At some point you'll have to introduce yourself to her family , unless they're dead or she has disdain for them. And if you do, you'll be prepared for endless convos nagging her about her preference in men, trying to convince her to ditch you and pick someone better. They'll also trust you less and every mistake, every smallest thing or argument could blow out of the proportion and make you look like a totally irremediable monster.

Second, her friends.

If she has friends, which every woman on this God forsaken earth does, you will be faced with the same issues that persisted with family. Women are social creatures, remember that. Even if they like the guy who society deems unconventional, they'll be soon convinced by her fellow foid friends to ditch you and take up a better looking man. I also cannot imagine what kind of horrible, passive aggressive jokes and comments they would've made in your presence so it's not worth it

And finally…

Keeping her with you will be hell. She will nag you, she will annoy you, she will complain, she will argue. Every bullshit that woman comes with, everything you learned from the blackpill about women will come in the one package standing right before your eyes, so good luck trying to deal with her on a day to day basis. Eventually, she will lose interest in you and begin to crumble your relationship in pursuit of chasing another Chad, leaving you alone for the second time in your life again, but in a worse state, as you've experienced everything life has so offer so unlike other brocels you have seen the heaven's gate, only to be sent back to hell forever.
 
Or you're Chad and your GF wants to fuck all day and all her friends want to fuck you.
 
Now I know plenty of you would've been happy with having a girlfriend you could fuck and care for, but that would've just added a new set of problems to your life. Some of you still live up to this delusion where a gf would've made things easier and worth living, but all I just see it as more problems to add on top of this shitty ass life.

First off, the family.

Do you think that's worth it?

At some point you'll have to introduce yourself to her family , unless they're dead or she has disdain for them. And if you do, you'll be prepared for endless convos nagging her about her preference in men, trying to convince her to ditch you and pick someone better. They'll also trust you less and every mistake, every smallest thing or argument could blow out of the proportion and make you look like a totally irremediable monster.

Second, her friends.

If she has friends, which every woman on this God forsaken earth does, you will be faced with the same issues that persisted with family. Women are social creatures, remember that. Even if they like the guy who society deems unconventional, they'll be soon convinced by her fellow foid friends to ditch you and take up a better looking man. I also cannot imagine what kind of horrible, passive aggressive jokes and comments they would've made in your presence so it's not worth it

And finally…

Keeping her with you will be hell. She will nag you, she will annoy you, she will complain, she will argue. Every bullshit that woman comes with, everything you learned from the blackpill about women will come in the one package standing right before your eyes, so good luck trying to deal with her on a day to day basis. Eventually, she will lose interest in you and begin to crumble your relationship in pursuit of chasing another Chad, leaving you alone for the second time in your life again, but in a worse state, as you've experienced everything life has so offer so unlike other brocels you have seen the heaven's gate, only to be sent back to hell forever.
I'd be paranoid about her cheating, would prob have to monitor her somehow
 
I'd be paranoid about her cheating, would prob have to monitor her somehow
She would've called you insecure or some shit and started another argument over it
There truly isn't no victory as a sub 5
 
Technology is making it too easy to make being single the obvious choice. only governments will be forced to incentivize breeding. Hence why we have all the scientific research of sociology and biology. Constructing startup cities.
 
This is why I want to date a blind girl ideally. Her family and friends would think I am such a good guy for helping her always and she would never see my face. Win win.
 
That is why I could never go to an escort. Going to heavens gate and go back to hell an hour later. Not worth it.
 
This is why I want to date a blind girl ideally. Her family and friends would think I am such a good guy for helping her always and she would never see my face. Win win.
Blind women are the same as other women. They flock to whoever has status.
 
Now I know plenty of you would've been happy with having a girlfriend you could fuck and care for, but that would've just added a new set of problems to your life. Some of you still live up to this delusion where a gf would've made things easier and worth living, but all I just see it as more problems to add on top of this shitty ass life.

First off, the family.

Do you think that's worth it?

At some point you'll have to introduce yourself to her family , unless they're dead or she has disdain for them. And if you do, you'll be prepared for endless convos nagging her about her preference in men, trying to convince her to ditch you and pick someone better. They'll also trust you less and every mistake, every smallest thing or argument could blow out of the proportion and make you look like a totally irremediable monster.

Second, her friends.

If she has friends, which every woman on this God forsaken earth does, you will be faced with the same issues that persisted with family. Women are social creatures, remember that. Even if they like the guy who society deems unconventional, they'll be soon convinced by her fellow foid friends to ditch you and take up a better looking man. I also cannot imagine what kind of horrible, passive aggressive jokes and comments they would've made in your presence so it's not worth it

And finally…

Keeping her with you will be hell. She will nag you, she will annoy you, she will complain, she will argue. Every bullshit that woman comes with, everything you learned from the blackpill about women will come in the one package standing right before your eyes, so good luck trying to deal with her on a day to day basis. Eventually, she will lose interest in you and begin to crumble your relationship in pursuit of chasing another Chad, leaving you alone for the second time in your life again, but in a worse state, as you've experienced everything life has so offer so unlike other brocels you have seen the heaven's gate, only to be sent back to hell forever.
Solid post.

I'm too lazy to raise kids.

Fact
 
Or you're Chad and your GF wants to fuck all day and all her friends want to fuck you.

This is why I only ever wanted casual hookups, no meeting their fathers and shit, or having to win the approval of her bitch friends.
 
To have or Not to have, there will always be regret, curiosity and lost opportunities rivalling new ones.
That is life!
 
I would like to have a gf.
 
It will. Having a girlfriend as a sub 5 will bring arrays of problems. Almost not even worth it
 
I can't stand this cope, that's like saying that being rich would bring problems like having to invest and manage your money, the risk that it gets stolen from you, etc. Having had a girlfriend at least once would've improved every aspect of my life.
 
Now I know plenty of you would've been happy with having a girlfriend you could fuck and care for, but that would've just added a new set of problems to your life. Some of you still live up to this delusion where a gf would've made things easier and worth living, but all I just see it as more problems to add on top of this shitty ass life.

First off, the family.

Do you think that's worth it?

At some point you'll have to introduce yourself to her family , unless they're dead or she has disdain for them. And if you do, you'll be prepared for endless convos nagging her about her preference in men, trying to convince her to ditch you and pick someone better. They'll also trust you less and every mistake, every smallest thing or argument could blow out of the proportion and make you look like a totally irremediable monster.

Second, her friends.

If she has friends, which every woman on this God forsaken earth does, you will be faced with the same issues that persisted with family. Women are social creatures, remember that. Even if they like the guy who society deems unconventional, they'll be soon convinced by her fellow foid friends to ditch you and take up a better looking man. I also cannot imagine what kind of horrible, passive aggressive jokes and comments they would've made in your presence so it's not worth it

And finally…

Keeping her with you will be hell. She will nag you, she will annoy you, she will complain, she will argue. Every bullshit that woman comes with, everything you learned from the blackpill about women will come in the one package standing right before your eyes, so good luck trying to deal with her on a day to day basis. Eventually, she will lose interest in you and begin to crumble your relationship in pursuit of chasing another Chad, leaving you alone for the second time in your life again, but in a worse state, as you've experienced everything life has so offer so unlike other brocels you have seen the heaven's gate, only to be sent back to hell forever.
Holy fucking trvthnvke. That's what i say, foids should not get even touched. They will do you wrong unless you are chad
 
I can't stand this cope, that's like saying that being rich would bring problems like having to invest and manage your money, the risk that it gets stolen from you, etc. Having had a girlfriend at least once would've improved every aspect of my life.
 
My mom nagged my dad constantly when I was a kid. She was always saying stuff to him like "You can't do anything right" or something like that. One time my dad punched her in the nose and broke her nose.
 
Most acidic grapes post I have ever seen
 
I can't stand this cope, that's like saying that being rich would bring problems like having to invest and manage your money, the risk that it gets stolen from you, etc. Having had a girlfriend at least once would've improved every aspect of my life.
Mine too, absolutely, but what are the risks she cheats? Would you be content with a 4/10 girlfriend?
 
Mine too, absolutely, but what are the risks she cheats? Would you be content with a 4/10 girlfriend?
I'm not denying having a gf would've made us marginally happier than before.

I do agree with the @Sex-Starved Beast on that

I just feel like plenty would've left disappointed and even more scarred by it, especially if they have traits like a small penis. I've read so many suicide fuel stories about it and I just wonder if it would've been worth it for a chance you get brutally cheated on or humiliated by her. Best way I could describe it is that it's a high reward- high risk sorta thing and the uglier you are, higher the chances of it happening are. That is assuming this forum is full of genuine 2-3's and not 4 and 5s larping as sub3's.


But maybe that's just me. This is just my take on it.
 
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I'm not denying having a gf would've made us marginally happier than before.
I just feel like plenty would've left disappointed and even more scarred by it, especially if they have shit like small penis. I've read so many suicide fuel stories and I feel like that's one of those reasons why I feel it's better for some of us to not try.

But maybe that's just me.
I feel both different and the same. I want a gf, and I have this autistic fixation on a 5'2" girl from instagram I will never have. I feel very sad I can never have her, or someone like her but particularly her. I can't help it. Yes, disappointment, I can imagine that often happens. And being scarred too. Often for sure. My mom always told me, relationships are overrated. She probably thinks that, but I also think she wanted me to not even try getting a girlfriend, as rejection hurts and is likely in my case. That happened from when I was 22-26.

I'm 30 soon, have physical/looks issues, and diagnosed with autism several times. I don't think it is lying to ourselves. Having a girlfriend does bring problems with it, including the ones you mentioned. Even if I somehow got a girlfriend -- by the way me winning the lottery is much more likely -- I could not keep her. Either through her cheating or me failing. But I shall not worry. I am deformed and 5'4", it will not happen.
 
The brutal reality is that the OP is right. The grass is always greener on the other side. There’s this idea that if this one thing happens everything will be fixed and we’ll be happy forever. It’s not true. Every situation brings its own problems. Trust issues, annoying habits, wanting space and all that stuff. Holding your tongue and not being yourself for fear of losing them. Most things eventually fall apart anyway and just bring more pain.
 
I can't stand this cope, that's like saying that being rich would bring problems like having to invest and manage your money, the risk that it gets stolen from you, etc. Having had a girlfriend at least once would've improved every aspect of my life.
No it wouldn't have. How is coming home to some nagging, entitled bitch going to "improve" my life? How is me having to hear her inane drivel everyday going to not drive me crazy? How is me having to waste my money on the cunt with food, gifts, traveling, birthdays, clothes, etc not a complete waste of money? How is me being responsible for her fickle happiness not going to drive me up the wall? That's not including the fact that the parasite will eventually leave you because of one argument or disagreement you have with her because the foid knows she'll hav 5 other normie morons at her beck and call in moment's notice after she breaks up with you.

Being rich has tangible benefits to it. Financial stability, investment opportunities, etc. Having a leech foid sucking you dry emotionally, financially, and intellectually is the exact fucking opposite of this.
 
Now I know plenty of you would've been happy with having a girlfriend you could fuck and care for, but that would've just added a new set of problems to your life. Some of you still live up to this delusion where a gf would've made things easier and worth living, but all I just see it as more problems to add on top of this shitty ass life.

First off, the family.

Do you think that's worth it?

At some point you'll have to introduce yourself to her family , unless they're dead or she has disdain for them. And if you do, you'll be prepared for endless convos nagging her about her preference in men, trying to convince her to ditch you and pick someone better. They'll also trust you less and every mistake, every smallest thing or argument could blow out of the proportion and make you look like a totally irremediable monster.

Second, her friends.

If she has friends, which every woman on this God forsaken earth does, you will be faced with the same issues that persisted with family. Women are social creatures, remember that. Even if they like the guy who society deems unconventional, they'll be soon convinced by her fellow foid friends to ditch you and take up a better looking man. I also cannot imagine what kind of horrible, passive aggressive jokes and comments they would've made in your presence so it's not worth it

And finally…

Keeping her with you will be hell. She will nag you, she will annoy you, she will complain, she will argue. Every bullshit that woman comes with, everything you learned from the blackpill about women will come in the one package standing right before your eyes, so good luck trying to deal with her on a day to day basis. Eventually, she will lose interest in you and begin to crumble your relationship in pursuit of chasing another Chad, leaving you alone for the second time in your life again, but in a worse state, as you've experienced everything life has so offer so unlike other brocels you have seen the heaven's gate, only to be sent back to hell forever.
Ok MGTOW lol
 

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