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It's Over Have you ever tried finding a GF?

epstein

epstein

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Have you ever actively tried getting a GF? Or where you always to insecure to even try approach women?
 
I mean are you really an incel if you never tried?

Then again, tbf I do see the other side of the argument that will say that if one never got choosing signals then he never got a chance to begin with anyway
 
Foids on reddit said to stop thinking about It and that someday It will happen:feelsokman:
Maybe when I get a personality
 
Yes obviously.
 
Yes, and people who didn't try had more success than me.
 
When you are painfully self aware of how chud and below average you are, it saves you the anxiety and embarassment of being denied by not approaching. Only female friend/interaction I ever had I met through language lessons online and I didn't look half bad through a webcam and she liked my "funny" personality I guess.

After meeting up irl a couple of times she texted me saying she wasn't interested in a relationship and was still getting over her last boyfriend. We never talked since. She wasn't that conventionally attractive but cute but I guess even I was below her standards. That was in late 2022 when I was 25. Haven't had any female social interaction outside work since.
 
65g of sugar?
 
When you are painfully self aware of how chud and below average you are, it saves you the anxiety and embarassment of being denied by not approaching. Only female friend/interaction I ever had I met through language lessons online and I didn't look half bad through a webcam and she liked my "funny" personality I guess.

After meeting up irl a couple of times she texted me saying she wasn't interested in a relationship and was still getting over her last boyfriend. We never talked since. She wasn't that conventionally attractive but cute but I guess even I was below her standards. That was in late 2022 when I was 25. Haven't had any female social interaction outside work since.
Damn, hard pillow to swallow. May you tell me how your interactions at work are with women?
 
answer your own question lil nigga

gtfo
 
Damn, hard pillow to swallow. May you tell me how your interactions at work are with women?
I had a female colleague around the same age as me who I talk to daily, strictly work related. She was filipino though so I think they are genuinely nice to everyone and she might've took pity on me. Besides her, the rest were foids and treated me like dust compared to another guy, not chad but better looking than me I guess, a lot better and he and the others went to lunch daily with them while I sat alone in the break room watching youtube.

Funnily enough, the stress and loneliness did take a toll and I spent a lot on certain substances and hookers which made me go broke so I was forced to resign and move back in with my parents which is where I am now. Which is part of the reason I decided to join this site cause I guess now I am a certified incel with too much free time. Life ironically feels worse in a way cause there is no meaning that a job does give oneself, and with no independence, no bitches, no rizz, no money, no hope. It truly feels Joever.

Being back in my small hometown I guess maybe now is the chance to approach a modest girl on the street but to that I would revert back to my first statement on this thread. And that's my life story I guess. Thanks for your attention to this matter.
 
I had a female colleague around the same age as me who I talk to daily, strictly work related. She was filipino though so I think they are genuinely nice to everyone and she might've took pity on me. Besides her, the rest were foids and treated me like dust compared to another guy, not chad but better looking than me I guess, a lot better and he and the others went to lunch daily with them while I sat alone in the break room watching youtube.

Funnily enough, the stress and loneliness did take a toll and I spent a lot on certain substances and hookers which made me go broke so I was forced to resign and move back in with my parents which is where I am now. Which is part of the reason I decided to join this site cause I guess now I am a certified incel with too much free time. Life ironically feels worse in a way cause there is no meaning that a job does give oneself, and with no independence, no bitches, no rizz, no money, no hope. It truly feels Joever.

Being back in my small hometown I guess maybe now is the chance to approach a modest girl on the street but to that I would revert back to my first statement on this thread. And that's my life story I guess. Thanks for your attention to this matter.
Dont worry man things will get better and easier. Focus on yourself and your career. Fuck those foids, genuinely don’t fuck your head with it. There is more to live than foids. If God wills, one day you will get one yourself, might just be cope, take it easy man.
 
Have you ever actively tried getting a GF? Or where you always to insecure to even try approach women?
Always tried Epstein
 
In college I tried, and was brutally rejected each time :feelsbadman: :feelsrope::kys:
 
Have you ever actively tried getting a GF? Or where you always to insecure to even try approach women?
Yes but never succeeding
These days most girls just try to be nice to avoid being attacked
Even went to a party but ended up getting ignored but found out the guy im going with had to beg and bribe her with food just to pretend to be interested in me
 
Dont worry man things will get better and easier. Focus on yourself and your career. Fuck those foids, genuinely don’t fuck your head with it. There is more to live than foids. If God wills, one day you will get one yourself, might just be cope, take it easy man.
Thank you, will do Brother Epstein
 
I don't see the point in approaching women without receiving any IOIs.
 
I tried Jeff

It led me here
 
If you never tried you cannot claim incel status unless there truely is something wrong physically or mentally
 
No, I knew it was pointless from the start. People ignore or shit on you for just existing.
 

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