Discussion Have you ever had a female friend?

[Deep.Nest]

Female friends are something I’d never actively seek out and tbh it doesn’t sound appealing, but I guess it could work theoretically.

I just don’t like the idea of being close to a foid I can’t have sex with or be intimate with. It’d be even worse if she had a boyfriend and I’d have to listen to her bitch about her shitty relationship issues.

I highly doubt anyone on this forum has a female friend(s) but are you fundamentally opposed to it?

 

[Mohamedömar]

No, never ever

 

[AutistSupremacist]

hmmm. Maybe in my very young years but as I've aged I have found it very difficult to form friendships with anyone, especially women. I follow some women who I've known irl but we certainly aren't besties or friends.

 

[Fo4idhater]

No, I've never been able to interact with foids

 

[GigaL0ser]

No

 

[Dolls & Gor]

No, because I never had a sibling sister and had no girls around in the neighborhood, hence I never learned what normal people are doing. My parents just repeat the same lies to me.

 

[Animecel2D]

No I haven’t. Even if I could get one I don’t see anything appealing about listening to some bitch moan and grumble that she can’t get Chad while treating me like some brick wall she goes to only to complain

 

[Deep.Nest]

hmmm. Maybe in my very young years but as I've aged I have found it very difficult to form friendships with anyone, especially women. I follow some women who I've known irl but we certainly aren't besties or friends.

Do you think some of the women you follow would ever be interested in you?

 

[SociallyStunted]

yes in 6th grade, except it was terrible and I only got treated as an emotional tampon

 

[Deep.Nest]

No I haven’t. Even if I could get one I don’t see anything appealing about listening to some bitch moan and grumble that she can’t get Chad while treating me like some brick wall she goes to only to complain

That’s fair. That’s kinda why the idea of it disinterests me

 

[Ozymandias]

Plenty.

They all were worthless in the end.

The lesson to be learned here is if you don’t look like Clav or greater don’t even waste your time.

 

[Deep.Nest]

yes in 6th grade, except it was terrible and I only got treated as an emotional tampon

Brutal

 

[AutistSupremacist]

Do you think some of the women you follow would ever be interested in you?

I've attempted with one of them but it didn't go anywhere and as for the other... I mean, she has her own life and has been in numerous relations already. she used to post on insta about going on dates and feeling down about not having anyone. How could she be doing all of this already while I've yet to even get a girls number? Seems pretty fucked up to me.

 

[Renegade#1]

No, never ever

 

[ToBurble&Pine]

no

 

[PLS HALP ME]

I've never had one, I'm completely alone.

 

[LeFrenchCel]

Yes

When I asked her out she rejected me and we never talked again

 

[Grodd]

No

 

[AutistKing]

Female friends are something I’d never actively seek out and tbh it doesn’t sound appealing, but I guess it could work theoretically.

I just don’t like the idea of being close to a foid I can’t have sex with or be intimate with. It’d be even worse if she had a boyfriend and I’d have to listen to her bitch about her shitty relationship issues.

I highly doubt anyone on this forum has a female friend(s) but are you fundamentally opposed to it?

Yes probably less than 5 throughout my lifetime though

Never liked them

 

[jakcel]

I haven't. I'd say it's usually a very one-sided relationship. The guy has to listen to the girl vomiting out all of their personal worries and problems. Every time I've actually had a more "profound" conversation with a woman it has always turned into a bitching session. They don't even ask anything about me and when I get bored of the conversation they say stuff like "This is why you don't have a boyfriend" or "Men are such bad listeners".

 

[sirlancelot]

What do you think?

 

[sirlancelot]

They seem to all flock around the loudest most annoying insufferable men to satiate the fact that they are ALWAYS BORED. I'm quiet and introverted we would never be compatible
Ive observed that the men foids date seem to not be as loud or as obnoxious as their boy best friends for example. Foids just use boy best friends as emotional tampons that they can laugh at or sit back and watch their desperate attempts at flirting with them. Its fucking catastrophic

 

[hirohitomaxxing]

Female friends are something I’d never actively seek out and tbh it doesn’t sound appealing, but I guess it could work theoretically.

I just don’t like the idea of being close to a foid I can’t have sex with or be intimate with. It’d be even worse if she had a boyfriend and I’d have to listen to her bitch about her shitty relationship issues.

I highly doubt anyone on this forum has a female friend(s) but are you fundamentally opposed to it?

i had some female friends they just will bitch about you don t try they are boring and can t handle conversation about any good topic

 

[Lo3e]

If my cousin counts then yes

 

[ColderManTruce]

No, never ever

 

[garfield]

Every female friend I've had I end up developing feelings for them. Men and women shouldn't be friends, every guy who's friends with a woman is just trying to fuck

 

[plam]

it always end up being awkward

 

[shyloser]

No

 

[OverLoner]

A long time ago. I believe I was 11 years old so it was before my sex drive kicked in. I think she was a year or two younger than me and we would play in her backyard sometimes. She didn't really seem to care for video games much but I recall her showing me the old ski game with the yeti called SkiFree on her Windows 98 I think. I remember us being close and for some reason some boys liked bullying her. Maybe they had a crush on her idk but I just remember them trying to bully her one day and I stood up for her. Then they chased me on bikes and I lost them in some shrubs. I remember my father bringing me to school the next day feeling rather humiliated. Other than that I remember the day her father died. She was in tears and I wasn't sure what to do so my mom told me to hug her so I did though it felt a bit awkward. Wasn't familiar with death really beyond what you see in media yet. Not too long after they moved and I don't even remember getting to say goodbye.

Years later I decided to go find her. I can't remember how I found her but I lucked out and saw her. Surprise to say we had nothing really in common anymore. You remove kids being kids and we really didn't have much in common. But I recall clinging to the idea and trying to stay over the night but my mom didn't want me to do that. Cucked by my own mother. I mean sure she wasn't perfect considering she liked drinking but financially speaking her family was and probably still is doing better than us. I doubt she liked me anymore. Honestly idk if she ever liked me more than just a friend but I think it's just romanticizing my past on my part as I love the idea of a childhood friendship blooming into a adult relationship. Either way that's long dead. She's got a man and a kid now. Haven't talked to her in a decade I think.


I wouldn't mind a woman as a friend provided I actually enjoy their company like my friends who're are men. The problem is I fear I would just end up as an emotional tampon and/or we would lack similar interests. Also if I have to walk on egg shells around them because they're a woman that would just be annoying. The women who can actually meet that criteria are few since I have yet to find one.

 

[Rapistcel]

Female friends are something I’d never actively seek out and tbh it doesn’t sound appealing, but I guess it could work theoretically.

I just don’t like the idea of being close to a foid I can’t have sex with or be intimate with. It’d be even worse if she had a boyfriend and I’d have to listen to her bitch about her shitty relationship issues.

I highly doubt anyone on this forum has a female friend(s) but are you fundamentally opposed to it?

No

 

[kapri]

I can't even imagine wtf that would look like. The only way I could imagine talking to foids would be if I was talking about other foids I'd want to fuck.

Also I had a friend that was "an incel" until he was like 21 yo, but he always had a few small groups of female friends. And it was so obvious to me his ascension was just a matter of time.

I feel like having female friends is the precursor to ascending (not because you have a good personality but because they aren't completely repulsed by you being in their vicinity). And I mean real female friends, not some bitch you do homework for, but she does shit with you.

 

[fix]

No

 

[iblamemyself_0]

Maybe in my very young years (7-10) but as I've aged I have found it very difficult to form friendships with anyone, especially women.

 

[SubhumanOldcel]

Never, they don’t want truecels in their proximity no matter what, their male friends are usually L-MTNs twinks.

 

[Youthpilled]

I hope i won't get called a fakecel for this, but unironically yes and tbh she was actually single at that time and never used me as an emotional tampon or shit like that and overall i have to say it could have become one of the rare instances where friendship between opposit genders actually progress into a relationship, but I treated her badly and was neglectful, even though it was her who reached out to me first and showed that she actually wanted to know me better. Don't get me wrong, I still do hate most foids, but she was kind to me and yet I ruined everything by being selfish and socially retarded.

 

[clearsmoke]

If you had any female friends you're probably docile as shit. I only had acquaintances and bitches I failed to fuck.

when I get bored of the conversation they say stuff like "This is why you don't have a boyfriend"

fag

 

[The Death Devil]

but I guess it could work theoretically

I don't even think it could work theoretically. I'm fairly certain that every single male gets into a relationship with a uteroid with the intention of it one day growing into something more. When that doesn't happen, the poor guy just orbits her forever if he never grows any self-respect.

 

[The Judge]

In real life? Only in elementary school. Back then, I did not have the faintest idea that my life would turn out this way. (ER also mentioned this in his manifesto).

 

[The Death Devil]

I don't even think it could work theoretically. I'm fairly certain that every single male gets into a relationship with a uteroid with the intention of it one day growing into something more. When that doesn't happen, the poor guy just orbits her forever if he never grows any self-respect.

Just wanted to add onto this with something I coincidentally came across just now—

 

[retardfuel30]

No, never! I don’t wanna be friends with foids. I can’t barely stand them.

 

[Loner94]

Nope never

 

[nihilum]

nevER

 

[nachtlieder]

Not since 6th grade

 

[Mrzimljude]

No

 

[XtremeMax]

no and i havent even had any friend since 11

 

[AutismKing]

I wouldn't call any of them friends, more like acquaintances I talk to.
I have talked to some in college but I am not close to any women.
I just can't talk long enough with them, like, talking is just so difficult. They also seem to hardly have common interests with me.
I am such an autist and not Chad that approaching women has made them uncomfortable in the past. It is brutal.

So yeah, it never went anywhere. I don't think having a female friend makes you a fakecel, and you won't feel attracted to every women you talk to.
I could see myself having a female friend, but women never really befriended me at all. As a man, you are invisible unfortunately.
No woman will come to you, you are invisible

 

[Peroz Shapur]

No, none of them ever wanted to be around me. The only ones who would pretend to tolerate my existence used me as a Lolcow.

 

[Mango]

Never, even when i had more “friends”