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Discussion Have you ever cold approached a woman?

Have you ever cold approached a woman?


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If you have, how did it go?
 
Too ugly for that
 
She said nothing and walked away
 
Maybe as a kid but now I don't have the balls to ever do it. Maybe if I take some xan but Im not sure
 
Yes and I want to forget it
 
Just get rejected 10.000 times theory
 
Never did that because i already knew that i won't ever get a chance.
And i don't want to have more bad memories too.
 
I followed her as she kept sped walking and asking her questions about music :feelskek:
 
Not really, I started opening up my heart once to my oneitis but immediately knew I should probably keep it sealed so I shut it down before I ruined the friendship. Close, though. I should have followed through with it while I had the chance.
 
1st reason, too ugly. 2nd reason, brutally neurodivergent, anxious and autistic.
 
Yes, she told me she already had a bf (who she broke up with for a better & taller chad a week later)
 
I did A LOT of cold approaching in my late teens and early 20s. Hundreds and hundreds. Needless to say I was always rejected.
 
Cold approach is for chads and retarded socially uncalibrated niggers
 
Imagine cold approaching and getting rejected every single time meanwhile chad get cold approached by females
 
Wrote a note to pass it on. Got smiled at and nothing ever happened after. Now I have to be lightly intoxicated to even try the same stunt.
 
hundreds of times

very poorly
 
Yes I did, she ignored me and walked away
 
No because i never saw myself as a sexual being. I was born to studycuck, that's it.
 
Nope. I envy you guys’ inhibition
 
I can't talk to strangers while knowing nothing
 
No I am too self aware to approach a woman. I can remember how awkward it was when I met up with a girl 14 years ago to buy a concert ticket via Gumtree. That was beyond awkward due to my autism. That was when I was more confident, it would be much worse now.
 
yes and it went horrible




I did this like over 100 times and I kinda just gave up after that
 
I’ve done both hot and cold approaching, had to stop hot approaching because it was at my workplace and after awhile it starts to pile up and managers think that you’re “harassing” women.
 
If you have, how did it go?
A few years ago, when I was still in high school, I cold approached this fat LTB to see if it would be easier to get with an ugly foid (I don't think I knew about juggernaut law back then) and got rejected.

[censored for my own anonymity in case someone recognizes her]
Fat foid
 
I'm too dumb. What does cold approach mean?
 
I'm too dumb. What does cold approach mean?
starting a conversation with a woman you don’t know at all, without any prior connection or introduction and trying to get a date with her
 
starting a conversation with a woman you don’t know at all, without any prior connection or introduction and trying to get a date with her
what an oddly normal and helpful reply, thx :D

With that loaded knowledge. Cold approaching probs only works for burj kalifa chads. Never tried it, and don't think I will ever try it. It would be hard living with the embarrassment and the rejection would kill me.

EDIT: why does this site auto convert to emojis, get that cancer shit out of here.
 
Wanna also add, that I fear cold approaching could escalate. Foids have this power where they can just report u as sexually harassing them, and boom u are in trouble. Have u seen what is happening in the UK? Catcalling can get u fucking arrested. I don't want to participate in a soyciety where merely trying to get a date can get u in trouble with the pigs.

And the fucking normies reading this thinking, oh ur probably just overly weird about it... There are many fucking cases where dudes have done completely normal text book approaches and still getting falsely reported. We live in a clown world.
 
Yes

complete humiliating waste of time

don't bother
 
its a humiliation ritual and is only a concept that works if your above MTN.
 
never high inhib af
 

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