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i did it once in high school and she laughed
 
i would spit on them, if i see one
 
Why would I embarrass and humiliate myself like that?
 
How do you approach?
The answer is: You don't.

Girls are the ones who initiate contact by sending indicators of interest. That's how it always is.
Yes, the guy is the one who does the 'approach', but he never does it out of the blue. A successful approach is always, I repeat, ALWAYS preceded by an indicator of interest from the girl.

A guy would never approach a girl out of the blue, because that would be creepy, obnoxious and harrassment. It's only an acceptable thing to do when the girl made the first step and gave you the signal that she's interested and that she's okay with you approaching her.
That is the difference between sexual harrassment and a romantic approach.

I came to that realization through many conversations with goodlooking and sexually successful guys. I asked them about girls and dating and it was always the same story. None of these guys were actually coldapproaching, or were randomly going up to girls they didn't know. Shit like that doesn't happen. All their success was based on girls giving them signals and they just picked up on it.


It's perfectly fine to never have approached a girl when no girl has ever given you signals.
 
to be honest. I have never approached a "girl" (also stop using this word already ffs). I was homeschooled for the majority of my school years then went to jewuni and I am completely socially outcast. I have Asperger’s and social anxiety. Although I can talk to older people more comfortably than to peers, I can’t talk to peers at all, can only shake hands when they initiate, but that is a rare occasion. I am very very low status
 
How do you approach?
The answer is: You don't.

Girls are the ones who initiate contact by sending indicators of interest. That's how it always is.
Yes, the guy is the one who does the 'approach', but he never does it out of the blue. A successful approach is always, I repeat, ALWAYS preceded by an indicator of interest from the girl.

A guy would never approach a girl out of the blue, because that would be creepy, obnoxious and harrassment. It's only an acceptable thing to do when the girl made the first step and gave you the signal that she's interested and that she's okay with you approaching her.
That is the difference between sexual harrassment and a romantic approach.

I came to that realization through many conversations with goodlooking and sexually successful guys. I asked them about girls and dating and it was always the same story. None of these guys were actually coldapproaching, or were randomly going up to girls they didn't know. Shit like that doesn't happen. All their success was based on girls giving them signals and they just picked up on it.


It's perfectly fine to never have approached a girl when no girl has ever given you signals.
Good reply. Approaching is quite literally life endangering in 2025. Just don’t jfl. Nothing good can come out of it anyway in our case
 
No, that's retarded
 
How do you approach?
The answer is: You don't.

Girls are the ones who initiate contact by sending indicators of interest. That's how it always is.
Yes, the guy is the one who does the 'approach', but he never does it out of the blue. A successful approach is always, I repeat, ALWAYS preceded by an indicator of interest from the girl.

A guy would never approach a girl out of the blue, because that would be creepy, obnoxious and harrassment. It's only an acceptable thing to do when the girl made the first step and gave you the signal that she's interested and that she's okay with you approaching her.
That is the difference between sexual harrassment and a romantic approach.

I came to that realization through many conversations with goodlooking and sexually successful guys. I asked them about girls and dating and it was always the same story. None of these guys were actually coldapproaching, or were randomly going up to girls they didn't know. Shit like that doesn't happen. All their success was based on girls giving them signals and they just picked up on it.


It's perfectly fine to never have approached a girl when no girl has ever given you signals.
This
 
Yeah, I got her number and then she ghosted me, she would take days to reply and then just stopped texting, she probably blocked my number.
 
Yes

That's why i'm here
 
i did it once in high school and she laughed
same here except she told everyone else. that was it. game over for the next two years. i was just clinging on before that
 
i did it once in high school and she laughed
Multiple times, especially when I was trying my hardest. I talked about my experiences in an old thread before I can link, it's pretty brutal.
 
Yes when I was a bluepilled retard.
 

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