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Serious Have you ever approached a girl?

NearEnd

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I pretty much never in my life approached a foid, I always understood that they should approach me and that it is over if they don't. What are your thoghts on this, is this true? And have you ever approached a girl, if yes how did it go?
 
Fuck no. Approaching is for NT chads only.
 
i don't even have friends
 
Over 100 times in my PUA days.
 
I pretty much never in my life approached a foid, I always understood that they should approach me and that it is over if they don't. What are your thoghts on this, is this true? And have you ever approached a girl, if yes how did it go?
Yes numerous times.

In social circles, in clubs, at holiday and in university clubs. Never worked, best I got was a 'friendship' status but not even that tbh.
 
yeah plenty of times

some peaceful rejections, some fucking brutal
 
You gotta be a fucking full blown retard to think PUA works for anyone other than chad/tyrone.

You don't just say words confidently in the right order and get a girl lmao.

So many people are delusionalmaxxed
 
A girl will never approach you. Maybe if you were Chad. In any case, I tried to approach girls several times and obviously they always rejected me.
 
When I was in school, I tried to be friendly and talk to the foids around me, but I have never approached a foid with the intention of asking her out
 
Were the rejections from noodles generally peaceful or brutal?
only approached a noodle once

i started stuttering real bad and she eventually just kinda walked off :fuk:
 
only approached a noodle once

i started stuttering real bad and she eventually just kinda walked off :fuk:
That's brutal
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Fuck no. Approaching is for NT chads only.
approaching doesnt mean u have to approach random people on the street, you can do it in places like clubs or work etc
 
only approached a noodle once

i started stuttering real bad and she eventually just kinda walked off :fuk:
I tried talking to an attractive noodle that worked at a restaurant and the same thing happened to me plus I could tell she was terrified. My mind just froze
 
11 times back in middle school, haven't gone up to any foid since then
 
I pretty much never in my life approached a foid, I always understood that they should approach me and that it is over if they don't. What are your thoghts on this, is this true? And have you ever approached a girl, if yes how did it go?
I usually write to girls and later try to date them but few times I did approach them, even Asian foids and they were always so nice to me. Foids will never approach you, unless you look like Jeremy Meeks.

If you are talkative and not awkward, you should approach foids. If you don't, then you are doomed and will be forever alone.
 
Approaching Girls = Simping

Second: Approaching Girls was early 2000s era
 
I've tried making conversations with women I was already interacting with such as a cashier, but they always give one word answers and you can tell they want nothing to do with you. That's why I spared myself the pain of asking them out. No reason to ask them out when you already know you lost. If you have to try and put in effort to get a gf, you already lost!
 
Imagine a 45 ear old, hunchbacked, balding, hideous woman coming up to you trying to ask you for your number.

That's what a foid sees when you're sub 5 approaching them.
 
Should've made this a poll I'm curious about how many people on here have. I've cold approached while drunk a couple times and I've warm approached one foid I knew.
 
have you ever approached a girl?

Yes. During my bluepilled days (late 2000s), when I believed in "just be confident".

I approached a cute intern at my office naively thinking I had a chance with her.

At first she looked startled. And then throughout the entirety of our "interaction", she had this nervous and stressed look on her face. She acted as if she was being interrogated and gave me extremely brief responses, mostly just one word replies.

When it hit me that things weren't going as I had hoped, I just said "ok see you later" and left.
 
I usually write to girls and later try to date them but few times I did approach them, even Asian foids and they were always so nice to me. Foids will never approach you, unless you look like Jeremy Meeks.

If you are talkative and not awkward, you should approach foids. If you don't, then you are doomed and will be forever alone.
Im unfortunately extremely awkward but I often feel an urge to talk to girls. I never act on that urge though
 
A girl will never approach you. Maybe if you were Chad. In any case, I tried to approach girls several times and obviously they always rejected me.
No a girl NEVER approches, not even Chad. A women always gives signals, the man has to response OR the man approches.

No other ways are realistic.
 
I pretty much never in my life approached a foid, I always understood that they should approach me and that it is over if they don't. What are your thoghts on this, is this true? And have you ever approached a girl, if yes how did it go?
Never approached, because too high inhib and autistic.

I have never seen foids approaching chads however, so i dont think that its over if foids dont approach you.
 
No a girl NEVER approches, not even Chad. A women always gives signals, the man has to response OR the man approches.

No other ways are realistic.
Nah I've seen guys get approached before only in bars and clubs though.
 
@NearEnd

Yes ive done it a lot in my teenage years, also with girls I was in a friendship with, but nothing ever happened.

In university sadly there were no available girls in my class.

Then Corona hit and ive became quite socially introverted.

In 2022 and 2023 I was still quite Bluepilled, i tried several Dating Apps and never got a single Date out of it.

I was going to shopping malls and supermarkets and tried approches but only got rejections.

I was going to bars a few times but there were always only dudes or really old women.

I also went to the church a few times, despite being atheist, but theres quite literally only Boomers and Silent Generation people lol

Islam is surprisingly the only Religion in Europe thats attractive for Gen Z.

Never had social media besides Snap and Snap is weird and the few girls i tried to get closer over Snap ghosted me, blocked me or clowned on me.
 
I have never seen foids approaching chads however, so i dont think that its over if foids dont approach you.
You are kind of right tbh, I have never seen that happen either now that I think about it. Still though, I think if I was attractive enough I would catch foids staring at me and giving me signals to approach
 
In Clubs maybe if hes looking rich and tall.
People only go to clubs for hookups so it's not like wealth matters when it comes to that. Height matters a lot in clubs but alcohol makes foids way more low inhib and I've seen legit high mid tier normies get approached before.
 
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Many times
But as many times as I tried I was rejected
 
Im unfortunately extremely awkward but I often feel an urge to talk to girls. I never act on that urge though
Unfortunately I'm also. If you are talkative you can still surpass it sometimes. Best would be in a club or some other party and getting a bit drunk before. Things get easier after few drinks.
 
No. I haven't even talked to any girl at my age in last 8 years.
 
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Unfortunately I'm also. If you are talkative you can still surpass it sometimes. Best would be in a club or some other party and getting a bit drunk before. Things get easier after few drinks.
Maybe I should try going to a bar and hookup with a drunk foid. Its not really the way I intended to lose my virginity but it might be my only option before trying escortmaxxing
 
Yeah a few times, they went well but never went any further because of my face
 
No a girl NEVER approches, not even Chad. A women always gives signals, the man has to response OR the man approches.

No other ways are realistic.
:yes:
 
approaching doesnt mean u have to approach random people on the street, you can do it in places like clubs or work etc
you generally shouldn't approach at work in the modern west tbh
 
Maybe I should try going to a bar and hookup with a drunk foid. Its not really the way I intended to lose my virginity but it might be my only option before trying escortmaxxing
currently foids are trying to stigmatize being approached outside of bars and clubs (where they're drunk)

so you might as well do that if you're not teetotal ig

but be careful so that you don't pick up a rape charge after
 
currently foids are trying to stigmatize being approached outside of bars and clubs (where they're drunk)

so you might as well do that if you're not teetotal ig

but be careful so that you don't pick up a rape charge after
Im not sure if it is worth the risk tbh. I don't like drinking and I don't want to get myself into unnecessary trouble in exchange for some used up pussy. Im gonna think about it tbh
 

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