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Blackpincel

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I have openly admitted being Incel to my family and even explained the concept of the Red/Blackpill.

I also made it clear that I can't "get a girlfriend" (I don't really want one, I just wish I was attractive enough to get laid) because I'm not considered attractive by Foids, who has exponentially growing standards these days.

It's quite satisfying, because: 1- They stop asking about getting a girlfriend and 2 - It makes aspects about my life very clear if the day of The Rope ever comes, so no one would wonder why I did it.

Of course they reply me with the most obvious bluepilled stuff, they are "happy as I am" or that "it's just that I have high standards", JFL.

Their complete lack of empathy or help/support actually makes me angrier and not feeling like roping at all. Why should I rope if there are scumbags like them still around?

I used to see a therapist years ago and admitted being Incel and liking hanging around with Incels, all I got told is that "it's a toxic community" and that "I wouldn't help myself being around this kind of people", while in fact, this entire community is a Lifefuel for me because it's pretty much the only place I can find like-minded people facing the same issues as I do, yes it's one big cope, but it's actually fun (at least for me) reading and dropping blackpills. Lookism is so ingrained in my soul that I decided to take gymcelling more seriously than I used to do before seeing those bluepilled "therapists", and I'm now even considering to surgerymaxx, something I would never consider if I hadn't been around Incel communities and kept seeing those worthless "professionals".

I think we shouldn't hide the fact that we are Incels sometimes IRL (except when it's related to job stuff) because our face and lack of socialization already gives it away, and it helps to give more light/exposure to the 80/20 rule and hypergamy; A minority of men are getting laid frequently with the majority of women, not because undesirable men "have no game", but simply because they weren't born attractive enough. The more normies are aware of it, the better for us because they will realize that the rage Incels feel is not a senseless one. And then, it would force them to come out of their virtue signalling and they would fully unleash their Cacophobia, proving once again we've been right all along. Normies won't help us, their hypocrisy and lies will be exposed, and it's our duty to shame them for it and bring that up every single time they try to act as a moral compass or Social Justice Warriors.
 
No, but people can sense it from my t0xic personality.
 
i have some blackpilled friends, the others are redpilled and don't mind me being incel, just take the piss out of me occasionally for it
 
i have some blackpilled friends, the others are redpilled and don't mind me being incel, just take the piss out of me occasionally for it

That angers me the most about normies, they have the "power" to set up foids for their Chadlite friends because they are socialmaxxed, but they won't even dare to try to help an Incel friend.
 
No, normies will think fag or something. Best to ghost because it’s difficult to find like-minded ppl IRL. I wish my remaining family die in oven chamber or fall off cliff, so your lucky having them. Also, therapy a waste of monies.
 
That angers me the most about normies, they have the "power" to set up foids for their Chadlite friends because they are socialmaxxed, but they won't even dare to try to help an Incel friend.
my friends aren't normies, 2 are incel, 4 aren't blackpilled but are incel and one is a straight up chadlite
 
my friends aren't normies, 2 are incel, 4 aren't blackpilled but are incel and one is a straight up chadlite

I used to hang out with normies and Chadlites since the High School days, they would always help themselves, but not me.
It was ERfuel back then.
 
Only in very niche situations when I know my audience well, and because of my caution I have only received agreement on the subtle blackpills I dropped.
 
Yes bro I admitted and people around me know it
 
2 guys know that I hate women. 1 guy agrees with my hatred for women, the other guy thinks I hate feminists ONLY not women.
 
If you're male it's always your fault in normies eyes.
 
No. They see me as blackpilled.
 
Sorry but no sympathy for degenerates.

Anyway I never did but a friend told my oneitis whom luckily I only knew online so it doesn't really affect my real life.
 
I've never explicitly said to anyone "I'm an incel", but I'm open about my situation. If anyone asks me if I have a girlfriend, I tell them the truth - I can't get one. I'm not embarrassed about it and I don't try to hide behind lies.

I drop subtle blackpills concerning lookism from time to time. For example, I was watching an Azerbaijan football game on TV and my mum was in the room, and when the camera showed a close up of one of their players, she made a comment along the lines of "he looks like an unscrupulous character". The player was ugly, and being from that part of the world didn't help. I told her about the halo effect and that people assume ugly people to have worse personality traits. She admitted it made sense and was probably unfair.

this entire community is a Lifefuel for me because it's pretty much the only place I can find like-minded people facing the same issues as I do
I feel the same way. I don't know anyone who can relate to my position in real life, so that's why this place is good for me.
 
I told my mother who frequently comments on my good looks that I've been called ugly on numerous occasions and that I likely wont find a sexual partner anytime soon. She responded by saying that I shouldn't let a few bad experiences get me down and that I have to move on, like a typical NPC. I told her that what she's asking of me in essence is to not learn anything or derive any sort of wisdom from my own experiences but instead blindly trust what she's saying even though it doesn't correspond to any previous moment of my life at all, to which she said something along the lines of "those aren't good experiences and can therefore not teach you anything about life". Foids really are illogical beings
 
Yeah, Blackpilled to my redpilled friend
 
Incel revolution
 
I dont say blackpill but they can tell. I complain and vent my problems which align with blackpill to people often
 
We are up against social norms, moral assumptions, and possibly natural instincts that are so deeply ingrained in most people that they aren't even aware of them. Everyone around you expects you to passively accept grievous deprivation, inequality, and unhappiness without so much as a complaint. They think their notion that men aren't "entitled" to sex is somehow supposed to make the whole issue go away, as though men were Swiper the Fox. It doesn't compute for them that they've got a serious fucking problem on their hands if large numbers of men in their society are chronically sexually dissatisfied and socially excluded and humiliated. That is how low-value and disposable you instinctively are to other people if you are a male who isn't attractive or rich. They don't think there is a soul behind your eyes and can't comprehend how you could possibly refuse to essentially sacrifice yourself for the perceived collective good and keep your worthless mouth shut.
 
no, i avoid talking to my parents and other then them i dont have anyone else irl to tell, not a good idea to admit imo
 
I'm very low inhib with my family. They all know I'm a incel. For example when my brother and I was discussing about dick size (no homo) I would say that I got a decent peaker but I would never get to use it anyway.
 
No. I'm good at hiding my powerlevel.
 
I have openly admitted being Incel to my family and even explained the concept of the Red/Blackpill.

I also made it clear that I can't "get a girlfriend" (I don't really want one, I just wish I was attractive enough to get laid) because I'm not considered attractive by Foids, who has exponentially growing standards these days.

It's quite satisfying, because: 1- They stop asking about getting a girlfriend and 2 - It makes aspects about my life very clear if the day of The Rope ever comes, so no one would wonder why I did it.

Of course they reply me with the most obvious bluepilled stuff, they are "happy as I am" or that "it's just that I have high standards", JFL.

Their complete lack of empathy or help/support actually makes me angrier and not feeling like roping at all. Why should I rope if there are scumbags like them still around?

I used to see a therapist years ago and admitted being Incel and liking hanging around with Incels, all I got told is that "it's a toxic community" and that "I wouldn't help myself being around this kind of people", while in fact, this entire community is a Lifefuel for me because it's pretty much the only place I can find like-minded people facing the same issues as I do, yes it's one big cope, but it's actually fun (at least for me) reading and dropping blackpills. Lookism is so ingrained in my soul that I decided to take gymcelling more seriously than I used to do before seeing those bluepilled "therapists", and I'm now even considering to surgerymaxx, something I would never consider if I hadn't been around Incel communities and kept seeing those worthless "professionals".

I think we shouldn't hide the fact that we are Incels sometimes IRL (except when it's related to job stuff) because our face and lack of socialization already gives it away, and it helps to give more light/exposure to the 80/20 rule and hypergamy; A minority of men are getting laid frequently with the majority of women, not because undesirable men "have no game", but simply because they weren't born attractive enough. The more normies are aware of it, the better for us because they will realize that the rage Incels feel is not a senseless one. And then, it would force them to come out of their virtue signalling and they would fully unleash their Cacophobia, proving once again we've been right all along. Normies won't help us, their hypocrisy and lies will be exposed, and it's our duty to shame them for it and bring that up every single time they try to act as a moral compass or Social Justice Warriors.
Ye I say it to my friends all the time but I haven't said it to my family yet too high inhib, I hinted at it to my parents when I was drunk once but didn't go all out.
 
Not outright but sometimes I use Incel lingo in hopes that someone will pick up on it.
 
I will make slight remarks about how the only thing that matters to foids is looks and how everyone is treated. But its a risk thing to admit to being an incel IRL most people are brainwashed bluepilled morons so there is nothing you can do to change their minds. Its like talking to a brick wall.
 
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I have not admitted of labeling myself incel, but I have mentioned that my disorders will absolutely impact negatively my chances of succeeding in social interactions and finding love. It's a pretty easy way to earn cheap sympathy as no one can really argue with that. It also has the advantage that I can say things I don't think would be accepted of other people. I guess people forgive you easier when you already look a bit abnormal.
 
2 guys know that I hate women. 1 guy agrees with my hatred for women, the other guy thinks I hate feminists ONLY not women.

tbh all women now are obnoxious feminists gas em all i say
 

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