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Serious Have you accepted that you'll never be loved?

OmniVoid

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I really haven't. I'm in a state of constant panic and depression. I'll never be loved and I'll never have children. I can't stand this shit.
 
No. Life without cute loli waifu is sad. Just need loliwaifusearcmaxing
 
I've tried to accept that many times.

I think the reason why we can't is because deep inside we know we are decent enough to be loved by someone. And not a land whale with 5 kids. But our equal.
 
That's a mixed bag for me ngl.

On one hand I feel like I pretty much accepted that I will be loved, on the other hand I am enraged that I will never be loved, and during my mood swings, on the OTHER hand, I can't accept that I'll never be loved.
 
Fuck yes I have.
 
Kinda, bec. of my toxic personaliteehee
There is no love if you are not attractive.
Btw change your avi OP, you cannot use a NSFW image for your avi.
 
Yeah. no amount of gymaxxing, looksmaxxing, or coping is going to make me feel better. Sometimes I envy MGTOWcels because they have the courage to give up chasing women.
 
Yeah. no amount of gymaxxing, looksmaxxing, or coping is going to make me feel better. Sometimes I envy MGTOWcels because they have the courage to give up chasing women.
most of MGTOW's are just copers thinking that they are excercising their illusion of choice, normal incels at least acknowledge the reality and that they have no choice in the matters
 
Growing older has made me realize that no foid will ever really love me and I have no intentions on becoming a betabux. Now I just want to earn more money so I could spend all my free time coping alone.
 
Sometimes.
But it is hard to hold that feeling
 
Don't think it's possible to accept it completely.

However i've been slowly embracing my own depression fueled insanity and the key is to forge your own meaning and live by it.

Life is a pointless cope whether you're a normie or not, do something or do nothing the result is the same.
 
Yes, it's just a dream now.
 
Yup, if I have any hope it’s only a small collection of dying embers
 
Yes tbh. It becomes much easier to cope with your inceldom when you accept that fact.
 
There is no such thing as 'love'. Only pleasure, lust, infatuation and entertainment. Don't expect a woman to love you, provide for you, fulfill your needs, and make sacrifices for you. Just don't! Relationships are transactions and conditional. You must give more to receive less.
This, the only thing that will ever love us is the rope.
 
This hits near home and cuts to the bone, there is always false hope but yes, i have accepted that...:feelsmage::feelsmage::feelsmage:
 
I accepted it more than a decade ago.
 
Love doesnt exist, this cope is so deluded. Love is fake. They only want to fuck chad because of his body, they dont love him.

Lol @ this cope ahah
 
I somehow accepted it, I just need a real good cope for the rest of my life which i havent found yet.
 
Love doesnt exist, this cope is so deluded. Love is fake. They only want to fuck chad because of his body, they dont love him.
sadly this must be repeated almost every day on this forum.
the amount of bluepilled thinking is concerning lately
 
I don't believe that I'm entitled to love. So I don't feel bad about it.
sadly this must be repeated almost every day on this forum.
the amount of bluepilled thinking is concerning lately
Chad isn't separated from the body. I hate this notion of thinking. It suggests that we're something more than our current lifeforms. Like souls or some shit. Well prove it...

Chad and the body are one. We're nothing but cells. So theoretically they do love him.
 
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It was not so hard to accept. What makes me sad is that love itself is some abstract thing which belong to fiction.
 
Yeah, I've accepted it. There is nothing I can do about it. I see no point in struggling against it.
 
Chad isn't separated from the body. I hate this notion of thinking. It suggests that we're something more than our current lifeforms. Like souls or some shit. Well prove it...
Chad and the body are one. We're nothing but cells. So theoretically they do love him.
of course I don't believe in souls. but Chad has his own personality(he is an idividual) and women don't feel attracted to that, so from my point of view is legit to say that femoids don't love Chad.
but the main issue here is that love is an economic transaction like every other social interaction.
and it's clear that a lot of u guys who say "I want to be loved" don't understand this.
 
Tbh after having discovered what it is that foids mean when they say "love", I'm not so certain that I want it. When I think about shit like surgerymaxxing, it makes me realize that foids will never love me, they don't even love Chad. Of course this thinking doesn't do anything to mitigate my loneliness, but it does lead me to question myself. This is what I mean when I say that seeing foids gives me incredibly mixed feelings, and none of them are good.

I would be with a deformed girl if she actually cared about me, but it's irrelevant anyway due to AWALT and juggernaut law. I've largely abandoned my longing for a 3D foid.
Chad isn't separated from the body. I hate this notion of thinking. It suggests that we're something more than our current lifeforms. Like souls or some shit. Well prove it...

Chad and the body are one. We're nothing but cells. So theoretically they do love him.
You're not your body, you're the image of consciousness presumably being created by your brain. Having possession over something doesn't mean you are that thing. If you suffered burns all over your body and survived but became severely disfigured, would you be gone? How about after the loss of a limb, would you still remain? I suppose if you want to be technical, you could say that your brain is your true "physical self", if there is such a thing anyway. Following from this, I don't think anyone would find the actual you very attractive.

What I'm getting at is that foids don't love Chad, they love what they perceive to be Chad. Both literally, and in the sense of the preconception of Chad they've created for themselves. They love their own idea of him, but not the person that they're projecting this notion upon. If there is, or could be, such a thing as love between two individuals, it would involve them actually understanding one another, or at least trying their utmost to do so. To bridge the division of awareness, so to speak. But it's clear that I have a different definition of love than that which is used in the modern west.

However, I'm not going to debate about the idea of the soul because I think it's irrelevant to the point I'm trying to make.
 
Yes, I guess so. I don't really mind it since I don't believe in love.
 
Yes but it’s hard to hold the feeling
 
sadly this must be repeated almost every day on this forum.
the amount of bluepilled thinking is concerning lately
i say this every time. i have to make a thread tbh..
 
yes, outside of working im in full rot mode
 
There is no such thing as 'love'. Only pleasure, lust, infatuation and entertainment. Don't expect a woman to love you, provide for you, fulfill your needs, and make sacrifices for you. Just don't! Relationships are transactions and conditional. You must give more to receive less.
True. Not even my mother was ready to provide for me, and to fulfill my needs ngl.
 
I'll never be loved and I'll never have children
This is what makes me the saddest. I've been thinking of renting a womb so I can atleast have my own kid to leave a legacy. On the other hand I don't know if I'd want to doom my kid to inceldom with my shitty genetics.
 
This is what makes me the saddest. I've been thinking of renting a womb so I can atleast have my own kid to leave a legacy. On the other hand I don't know if I'd want to doom my kid to inceldom with my shitty genetics.
Same here. I want evolutionary success plus the experience of raising a child.
 
Yes bro i have accepted my eternal inceldom
 
Yeah my shitty childhood doomed me to be a reclusive loner. My first day of kindergarten I knew it was over for me. People are assholes and I want nothing to do with their shit.
 
I really haven't. I'm in a state of constant panic and depression. I'll never be loved and I'll never have children. I can't stand this shit.

Yes,

There are just certain qualities as a man that I lack that deny me that legitimate feeling of being wanted.

I've gotten to a point where I simply feel like people want to use me or see me as a get out of jail freecard.

I'm starting to discard ideas of wanting a family just so i dont have to pass on my subhuman genes.
 
My family loves me, so at least I have them.

But it hurts knowing I'll never have a true companion to love and raise children with.
 
There’s always trannymaxxing!
 
I accepted everything that I have no control on.
 
I've already accepted it, it's better than fooling yourself.
 
Even chads and stacies can not receive love, what about me???
 
Boy I wish I had, I really do, but the worst is not only never been loved but forever being hated
 
Love doesnt exist, this cope is so deluded. Love is fake. They only want to fuck chad because of his body, they dont love him.

Lol @ this cope ahah

This is so true.

I've seen so many chads on reddit say "she only likes me cause of my looks" again and again..

Even high IQ chad's see past the physical infatuation of foids...
 
Yes, I've found acceptance.
 

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