Ok thought about it and it’s 100% not bragging.
So like 4 years ago where I worked there was a friendly 7/10 Ukranian girl. Over 10 years younger than me. She lived on a small farm with her parents and siblings. She invited me to come over for like a home cooked everything from scratch dinner, as that is how they ate. I declined.
The reason I declined is that I am an ugly male and she was not inviting me because I’m Chad but rather because I was like in a supervisory position above her, and it was more along the lines of her inviting the boss over for dinner.
I am socially awkward so I don’t like meeting new people. However if I was good looking I would have went in hopes of eventually trying to ascend with her.
Was I right or wrong not to go?