Aribaa
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I dont get normie banter, small talk etc. I'm socially retarded af. I normally have no input in normie conversations because i dont know what to say. It truly is over.
NT normies think you can just pretend to be NT and that you will eventually become NT.
This couldn't be further from the truth. If anything, you will actually snap and have a mental breakdown if you continue to brute force yourself into trying to become NT when your brain is simply not programmed to be NT.
Most non-NT's usually mentally snap by age 30 or 35 after spending their teens and 20s trying to become NT by faking it, even if they have success. This is the type of person who is there one day, you assume is normie as fuck, but then one day just falls off the face of the planet, that is the time they finally snap and breakdown and become incapable of pretending anymore.
Autist ethnostate now
Autist ethnostate now
Sounds autistic.I'm not entirely sure if I'm NT or not, but I know years of bullying has made me VERY High Inhib and introverted, and due to that I can't really engage in normie conversations. If people are talking about stuff I'm interested in, I might be able to chime in, other than that, I just keep to myself. I really hate how the world is structured to force you to engage with others, when you just don't know what to say or anything of the sort.
Pepiple abuse our non NT kindness and social disability then wonder why we suddenly snap and become violent or go ER. They behave like they were entitled to use and abuse usI dont get normie banter, small talk etc. I'm socially retarded af. I normally have no input in normie conversations because i dont know what to say. It truly is over.
It's more because we are neurologically different and NTs are ultra-conformists who are turned off by all kinds of differences. As you said some autists can learn social skills with a lot of effort, but nt's will still dislike us because much of communication is non-verbal and subconscious which means that even when the right things are said, our wiring is different causing them to notice something is off , making them want to avoid.So we lack the skill & are discriminated against for that reason