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any time i see an aunt/uncle, grandparent or similar relative after a while of not seeing them i get the “any girlfriends?” question every time and i stand there awkwardly in silence, i wonder when they’re just going to stop asking entirely
 
i dont interact with any of my family other than my mother
 
They still ask me. They'll start asking if I'm gay soon most likely
 
They never bothered asking, sitting alone playing video games for years already gave them the answer.
 
They haven't asked in about a year now
 
marriage in my case and no i'm still relatively young
 
They indeed stopped asking
 
No. At every family function, whether it's my birthday, Christmas, Thanksgiving, or anything else, they ask. It started when I was pre-pubescent, back when it was just a way to tease me. Now they ask seriously, as if I've been holding out. And every time, I sit there thinking: look at me. Look at the face you're asking. Look at the way people respond to it. Do you think I haven't noticed? Do you think I haven't tried? It isn't as easy now for men as it was for them in the 80s.
 
They still ask me. They'll start asking if I'm gay soon most likely
my dad asked me if i was gay twice, wanted to shoot myself on the spot, why are guns illegal in Ireland :cryfeels:
 
They think I have a chance with asian woman
 
No. At every family function, whether it's my birthday, Christmas, Thanksgiving, or anything else, they ask. It started when I was pre-pubescent, back when it was just a way to tease me. Now they ask seriously, as if I've been holding out. And every time, I sit there thinking: look at me. Look at the face you're asking. Look at the way people respond to it. Do you think I haven't noticed? Do you think I haven't tried? It isn't as easy now for men as it was for them in the 80s.
it usually comes up after they ask my sister or wtv talks about her bf and then they shift the question onto me
 
Yes. Since 12.
 
I’ve already told my parents that women don’t like me and that they will never have grandkids
 
They don't try to ask because they know I'll speak harshly to them if they ask such a question.
 
I am not asked much but I am expected to have children in the future
 
it usually comes up after they ask my sister or wtv talks about her bf and then they shift the question onto me

Likewise (even though my sister is only 14). Nothing like having a better-looking sibling and getting compared to them for everything, dating life and all!
 
They know it's over
 
They never gave a shit. I remember once when i was much younger in uni i told my cunt of a father there was a girl i like and he told me to be careful not to make her pregnant because i have no money. Imagine telling your son not to procreate lmao.
 
My dad has never explicitly asked me where my girlfriend is, but he has on 2 separate occasions asked if I was gay or trans. The answer to which is an astounding fuck no, although I honestly wouldn't mind being gay at this point.

My grandfather, on the other hand, would constantly pester me about getting a girlfriend. Literally anytime I spoke to him the first thing he would say is "got a girlfriend yet, handsome?" Well anyway he died a few years back and will never see me find love. Actually, all of my grandparents except 1 will never see me find love, and at this rate I'm probably gonna disappoint my grandmother too. Fucking brootal
 
any time i see an aunt/uncle, grandparent or similar relative after a while of not seeing them i get the “any girlfriends?” question every time and i stand there awkwardly in silence, i wonder when they’re just going to stop asking entirely
My brother thinks I’m gay because I can’t get a gf :feelsclown::feelsclown:

It doesn’t even occur to him maybe I’m single because I’m a shitskin manlet
 
Yes, they stopped asking around 2020/2021
 
They never gave a shit. I remember once when i was much younger in uni i told my cunt of a father there was a girl i like and he told me to be careful not to make her pregnant because i have no money. Imagine telling your son not to procreate lmao.
My dad would tell me similar shit when I just hit ouberty and started gaining interrest in foids.
He told me that I shouldn't occupy my mind with foids but with my studies.
I should do my homework, study hard and get a good job and then think about foids.

Jfl

I am self sufficient now. Still no foids. He dad, how's that working out?
 
They never gave a shit. I remember once when i was much younger in uni i told my cunt of a father there was a girl i like and he told me to be careful not to make her pregnant because i have no money. Imagine telling your son not to procreate lmao.
i once told my dad around ~12 or 13 y/o that i hated that i can’t find a girlfriend, he now uses that insecurity to belittle my every time i upset or disappoint him
 
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Yes, they stopped asking around 2020/2021
How old are you?

Mine aren't asking because I have black pilled my mother and my father thinks that I hate women.

Instead of asking me whether I have a gf he every once in a while tries to explain to me how it's done.

I am 38, btw.
 
My dad would tell me similar shit when I just hit ouberty and started gaining interrest in foids.
He told me that I shouldn't occupy my mind with foids but with my studies.
I should do my homework, study hard and get a good job and then think about foids.

Jfl

I am self sufficient now. Still no foids. He dad, how's that working out?
What the fuck is wrong with them, seriously? Imagine legit thinking your son should be an incel permanent scholar during his absolute peak and horniest years and wank like a fucking monkey. Probably they were incels too and gave us their shit genes and on top of that they groom us to suffer like them.
 
i once told my dad around ~12 or 13 y/o that i hated that i can’t find a girlfriend, he now uses that insecurity to belittle my every time i upset or disappoint him
What a fucking cunt. One of my first memories of my father is how he hit me in the face as a kid when i accidentally broke a small piece of plastic of a box.
 
What the fuck is wrong with them, seriously? Imagine legit thinking your son should be an incel permanent scholar during his absolute peak and horniest years and wank like a fucking monkey. Probably they were incels too and gave us their shit genes and on top of that they groom us to suffer like them.
He was never a ladies' man. I know for a fact. I once caught him in his lies. My mom wouldn't admit it but I could tell that both were trying to keep a facade, for whatever fucked up reason.

He only ever had my mom and she didn't even want him. She still keeps reminiscing about another boy she fell in love with before she met my dad.

He is a looser. He always claimed to be this sstone cold military man, also.
Turns out he was some kind of officer and literally spending most of his military service in an office.
Yet he has the nerve to tell me that I should have gone to the military.

This guy ks a joke, a fake.

And yes, this is exactly what I ended up doing, especially once we've gotten flatrate internet.
I'd jerk of like an animal several times a day.
That was a close as I'd ever gotten to a pussy in my prime.
 
He was never a ladies' man. I know for a fact. I once caught him in his lies. My mom wouldn't admit it but I could tell that both were trying to keep a facade, for whatever fucked up reason.

He only ever had my mom and she didn't even want him. She still keeps reminiscing about another boy she fell in love with before she met my dad.

He is a looser. He always claimed to be this sstone cold military man, also.
Turns out he was some kind of officer and literally spending most of his military service in an office.
Yet he has the nerve to tell me that I should have gone to the military.

This guy ks a joke, a fake.

And yes, this is exactly what I ended up doing, especially once we've gotten flatrate internet.
I'd jerk of like an animal several times a day.
That was a close as I'd ever gotten to a pussy in my prime.
lmfao my mother didnt want my father either but she was a single mother with 2 other kids trying to escape another abusive ex husband

legit i think our families did their best to turn us into incels
 
lmfao my mother didnt want my father either but she was a single mother with 2 other kids trying to escape another abusive ex husband

legit i think our families did their best to turn us into incels
I am sure that in a saner workd, without mobile internet and without social media most here would have a much better chance.

I mean, I have noticed something similar whilst looking for another car.
There is an abundance of choice, but I am very picky, tbh.
After all, I have actually worked for my money and don't want my investment to become and endless money pit.
 
What a fucking cunt. One of my first memories of my father is how he hit me in the face as a kid when i accidentally broke a small piece of plastic of a box.
i guess some fathers are just universally shit, i tried to kms because no foid wants me, gets taken to A&E and my POS dad makes me pay my own hospital bills so i have to suffer for longer

he also has a little zest for putting his hands on me, so i can relate to you there, when he is in a nursing home with dementia i will make his life a living hell, he will suffer unimaginably
 
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My aunt all the time
 
imagine having a family, imagine...
:feelsaww:
 
they thought im gay
 
any time i see an aunt/uncle, grandparent or similar relative after a while of not seeing them i get the “any girlfriends?” question every time and i stand there awkwardly in silence, i wonder when they’re just going to stop asking entirely
They never asks since my mother told em i have autism
 
They still ask me. They'll start asking if I'm gay soon most likely
Its either that but if they think your gay they will be asking you got a dude yet, Its over

Born too late for a real gf, born too early for a robot gf.
 

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