Discussion Has being an incel has messed with what you think about daily?

[Qech__]

I think most normies do not spend a huge chunk of their day thinking about relationships. They probably go on with their day without really caring and focus on more important things. Meanwhile, I basically LDAR everyday and cry about not having friends, let alone a girlfriend.

But at the same time, it's like saying "rich people don't care about money." Duh, money is much more of a trivial matter for them. Likewise, normies have their own relationships and can enjoy it whenever they want. So thinking about their relationship itself is probably very low priority for them.

I envy normies in this regard. I wish I could forget about my situation, and just live life normally like they do. I don't want to drown myself in negativity all the time. I think I could be truly happy and live a normal life if I could just forget. Ironically, I think in a world where I didn't really think about human connection all day long, I would finally be able to leave my room and live a normal life and get that human connection I oh so desired before.

Maybe the real answer is trauma. Trauma from being socially excluded all the time. Realizing that whenever I try to reach my hand out to others, they reject me. I wish I could just forget that trauma.

 

[Halloween]

Change your creepy avi and only then I will read a molecule of your text

 

[Giracel]

Change your creepy avi

I hate that shit too man

 

[Giracel]

Look who's talking though, is that a trannified Lanza

 

[Halloween]

Look who's talking though, is that a trannified Lanza

No officer I would never support a mass killer. That’s wrong!

 

[Giracel]

I think most normies do not spend a huge chunk of their day thinking about relationships

Regardless, yes. It has warped what I think about in unnecessary and degrading ways.

 

[ToBurble&Pine]

Inceldom destroyed me

 

[all this time]

I think most normies do not spend a huge chunk of their day thinking about relationships. They probably go on with their day without really caring and focus on more important things. Meanwhile, I basically LDAR everyday and cry about not having friends, let alone a girlfriend.

But at the same time, it's like saying "rich people don't care about money." Duh, money is much more of a trivial matter for them. Likewise, normies have their own relationships and can enjoy it whenever they want. So thinking about their relationship itself is probably very low priority for them.

I envy normies in this regard. I wish I could forget about my situation, and just live life normally like they do. I don't want to drown myself in negativity all the time. I think I could be truly happy and live a normal life if I could just forget. Ironically, I think in a world where I didn't really think about human connection all day long, I would finally be able to leave my room and live a normal life and get that human connection I oh so desired before.

Maybe the real answer is trauma. Trauma from being socially excluded all the time. Realizing that whenever I try to reach my hand out to others, they reject me. I wish I could just forget that trauma.

Tbh money has been stressing me more no bucks no life

 

[Wither]

obv

 

[sirlancelot]

Change your creepy avi and only then I will read a molecule of your text

Thought i was the only one who hated this niggas avi . Holy shit

 

[Qech__]

Thought i was the only one who hated this niggas avi . Holy shit

nigga

 

[OverLoner]

Yup. Even if women at work smile at me I just assume they're being nice and thats it or even ask how I'm doing. I think how I would love something real but deep down I know it's impossible. If I asked out a woman at work it would probably end awkwardly at best and they would keep interactions with me to a minimum. Worst case scenario I get fired for sexual harassment.

 

[INVERTER]

Yes my brain has rotted from loneliness. All I can think of is how far I am behind in life and how I'm powerless to do anything about it