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Has anyone found a philosophy helping with coping?

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Any knowledgeable high IQ people orwhoever here, who xab give me an answer and maybe a quich tldr?

Not necessarily only for dealing with inceldom.

Talking about thinks like, nihilism, stoicism absurdism, buddhism, satanism, epicureanism.

It mostly seems either shallow full of empty phrases and evoking mystical allusions or not helpful at all...

To Ldarmaxxed to start reading something that is possibly not worth it.

@PPEcel @Atavistic Autist @ScornedStoic @ThoughtfulCel prolly forgot many
 
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@Mainländer thoughts?
 
Any knowledgeable high IQ people orwhoever here, who xab give me an answer and maybe a quich tldr?

Not necessarily only talking about incrldom.

Talking about thinks like, nihilism, stoicism absurdism, buddhism, satanism, epicureanism.

It mostly seems either shallow full of empty phrases and evoking mystical allusions or not helpful at all...

To Ldarmaxxed to start reading something that is possibly not worth it.

@PPEcel @Atavistic Autist @ScornedStoic @ThoughtfulCel prolly forgot many
2 simple words: Sanatana dharma
 
Any knowledgeable high IQ people orwhoever here, who xab give me an answer and maybe a quich tldr?

Not necessarily only talking about incrldom.

Talking about thinks like, nihilism, stoicism absurdism, buddhism, satanism, epicureanism.

It mostly seems either shallow full of empty phrases and evoking mystical allusions or not helpful at all...

To Ldarmaxxed to start reading something that is possibly not worth it.

@PPEcel @Atavistic Autist @ScornedStoic @ThoughtfulCel prolly forgot many

I guess I've kinda found one.

I cope with knowing that one day ill be dead, and no matter how shitty this world gets theres nothing the elite, the government, the men in black suits and ties, or whoevers pulling the strings behind the scenes can do to stop that and keep me here.


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@Mainländer thoughts?
I was very much into German pessimistic philosophy by the time I made my account here, as my username suggests. But this only brought me massive suifuel and depression. I own both my soul's salvation and my physical life to Christ, because hadn't I found Him, I'd probably have roped or done some othER thing of the kind by now.

Colossians 2:8 KJV- Beware lest any man spoil you through philosophy and vain deceit, after the tradition of men, after the rudiments of the world, and not after Christ.
 
Maybe watching sadhguru is cope enough. he annoys me tbh but he has a lot of content and its anti-depressant

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Pretty much all of them

choose the one that suits you better
 
stoicism

inb4 @ScornedStoic
 
Buddhism.

Wasn't someone here saying that if they don't reach the 3rd jhana by the end of the year, they would rope?
Wonder how their buddhamaxxxing went?
 
All like what?
just like you said, things like stoicism, confucionism and religions in general

if they're shallow and feel like cope that's because that's what they all are in essence, personally I just it too stupid for my brain to take any of that seriously.
 
I wanna do philosophy degree one day, I know it's useless but It's like the only thing I'd be motivated to study for, plus my parents are rich so student loan debt won't be an issue

I've heard Hegel was the shit.
 
I find restrained hedonism to be good. I emphasize the restrained since if you go too far with it it can get out of hand (drug addiction, obesity,etc.) Plus a part of pleasure is a "release" from "pressure" so to speak so if you try to happymaxx/hedonismmaxx too much you fuck it up in the long run. I find also trying to be productive to help with coping, especially when you can't really fulfill anything relationships wise anyways (no friends or romantic partner). By productive I mean anything where you meet an end goal so I don't necessarily mean it in a "work is the meaning of life" way. So it could be an art project, engineering project, writing project, etc., just as long as its a mid or long term accomplishment. It applies to drugs as well (which you should generally avoid, though some in moderation can be good as well). You should still have long periods of sobriety in order to not over indulge.

ngl I am high rn so I'm sure I'm wording it like shit :feelstastyman:

TL;DR be productive but also pleasuremaxx in moderation.
@Incellectual @builderseed Best philosophy to cope? Only wrong answers please.
Become a Heroin addict
 
Contractualism. Broadly and simplified means that morality is derived from binding agreements and views each individual as equally rational and autonomous. In other words, there is no morality until people agree upon it. It's more "mature" than nihilism or pessimism, but is by no means perfect. However, I'm not sure how this will help you cope...

Here's an article discussing the philosophy more in depth
 
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Any knowledgeable high IQ people orwhoever here, who xab give me an answer and maybe a quich tldr?

Not necessarily only for dealing with inceldom.

Talking about thinks like, nihilism, stoicism absurdism, buddhism, satanism, epicureanism.

It mostly seems either shallow full of empty phrases and evoking mystical allusions or not helpful at all...

To Ldarmaxxed to start reading something that is possibly not worth it.

@PPEcel @Atavistic Autist @ScornedStoic @ThoughtfulCel prolly forgot many
alan watts and his buddhism shit. hinduism is stupid. alan watts is blackpilled but understands the black pill is inherently suicide fuel and explains how to live with the blackpill. way better, more accurate, and more helpful than christianity or any belief involving a magical sky daddy.
I was very much into German pessimistic philosophy by the time I made my account here, as my username suggests. But this only brought me massive suifuel and depression. I own both my soul's salvation and my physical life to Christ, because hadn't I found Him, I'd probably have roped or done some othER thing of the kind by now.

Colossians 2:8 KJV- Beware lest any man spoil you through philosophy and vain deceit, after the tradition of men, after the rudiments of the world, and not after Christ.
believing in the christian god and thinking he loves you and is on your side is one of the most bluepilled beliefs you can have
 
Any knowledgeable high IQ people orwhoever here, who xab give me an answer and maybe a quich tldr?

Not necessarily only for dealing with inceldom.

Talking about thinks like, nihilism, stoicism absurdism, buddhism, satanism, epicureanism.

It mostly seems either shallow full of empty phrases and evoking mystical allusions or not helpful at all...

To Ldarmaxxed to start reading something that is possibly not worth it.

@PPEcel @Atavistic Autist @ScornedStoic @ThoughtfulCel prolly forgot many

Yes it's a worthless good cope just like our lives.
 
thats retarded, thats like saying an answer to a math problem doesn't exist unless argreed upon
Mathematical answers usually have a logical proof behind them. I don't know any philosophy that has proof it's the correct one and all others are wrong (assuming God doesn't exist).

Can there be moral universalism without God? I dislike moral relativism, but it's seems difficult find a perfect and objective philosophy (that isn't gay existentialism). I think Kantianism and Virtue ethics are based, but they have their own flaws.
 
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if what ever is considered good and moral to be god then yes.
That's arbitrary. How does a God that doesn't exist hold more credibility than any other fictional things? Who or what decides what is to be God?
 
At least, Abrahamic religions attribute irl things to being a god, and that any ideals we create in our mind are abstracted things that are represented as Gods and deities and shit.
Fictional things are no different from potentiality, either way fictional things hold truths in them since they come from a reality based place
I see what you mean, but the problem arises when not everybody agrees on what is God (There are countless religions in the world). If people cannot agree on God, how can they agree on morality?
 
Anyone want to cope with me, ROTMG or War Thunder
 

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