Has anybody here tried to immerse themselves in daydreaming? Particularly about starting a life with your crush in your head?

[geromecel]

I mean, reality is just as temporary and real/fake as imagination so why not live in an alternative reality? This is not a cope but an attempt to fully immerse myself in the life that I desire. I kinda need tips on how to perfect this method. I want the daydreaming to feel really solid and for the character of my crush to be realistic and stay consistent. I don't intend to have it in a sexual manner so physical contact is of much lesser importance as long as I get the realistic feeling of affection to the extent it is achievable with imagination, I'm trying to simulate a romantic relationship with a girl that I like who is way above my league (the prettiest woman I've ever seen in my entire life, in contrast to me a KHHV incel)

 

[tired as fuck]

I used to do it in HS to derealize from the shitty classes, it's all bout focus and precise details. Not sure it can be explained and made into a tutorial, you just have to try it out for yourself.

 

[AutismKing]

I daydream a lot, including with a girl. But it is just sad.
It can cope a bit but it is not a solution. It just makes me feel worse in the end

 

[Doomed4ever]

Used to do that in my teens and felt hopeful thinking I'll get a gf in my 20s...im almost 31 now hahahah...

 

[DigitalWombat]

Smoke some weed and the daydreams will feel more immersive dawg

 

[Slut_Annihilator298]

Daydreaming is literally what got me through high school and I guess it's still my biggest cope besides watching movies and Doordash kek. I usually daydream about being in a quiet charming small town up north, like in Montana, Colorado, or somewhere in northern New England. I imagine myself having some coffee, reading a book, maybe also having a ciggy, and just chilling about and enjoying life. And at night, I look up at the night sky filled with stars, and enjoy the view.

 

[nihilum]

I dream of having a girlfriend.

 

[RopingSoon]

Used to do this. But honestly it made me want to rope more, knowing its something ill never have

 

[mysoginymaxxer]

Yh I'm married and have 2 kids 1 boy 1 girl (older). Life is so good. Some times the scenarios change but generally it's me and her and 2 kids spending time together. Btw she's a robot and so is our daughter (I hate bio women), but our son is half human

There is no limit to schizomaxxing

 

[Freixel]

It worked somehow when i was younger, now i'm too desensitized

 

[ROCKZ D. XEBEC]

Some times I turn psychotic and pretend I have a beautiful caring gf and lot of friends, but when the night comes, the reality is there: Im alone.

 

[GloomyGhoul]

Used to daydream a lot in elementary and middle school. Kinda got old when i reached high school because nonsense. It’s not even a fulfilling cope. All it does is waste time. There are hundreds of other more productive and rewarding copes

 

[GloomyGhoul]

Yh I'm married and have 2 kids 1 boy 1 girl (older). Life is so good. Some times the scenarios change but generally it's me and her and 2 kids spending time together. Btw she's a robot and so is our daughter (I hate bio women), but our son is half human

There is no limit to schizomaxxing

Schizomaxxing is fun, until you become medicated. I used to have this one delusion where I telepathically knew that every foid was secretly in love with me

 

[Defetivecuckachu]

Don't do that. That's how having a oneitis starts.