Has any incel here genuienly tried self improvement?

[Cam The Angel]

i run every day and i have a pretty good diet and i got a decent job right now but yet no girl has ever said yes to me

 

[The Purifier]

tried runcelling, gymcelling, carcelling and healthy dietcelling nothing works because i am a genetic abomination.

 

[Murdoch89]

I would never bother doing any of them I suffer from anhedonia and low self esteem,would not do me any good and it will certainly not get me laid

 

[MarriedAndLookin4Fun]

I have tried gymceling, fashionceling, personalitymaxing and all that kind of shit and nothing changed

 

[Deleted member 6470]

The difference between us and Chad/Stacy they didn't grew up with couch potatoes parents and microwave foods.
You can cope all the way you want, "eat clean" and other bs. At the end of the day, the result is the same.
You are here forever, there is only one way out.

 

[asgoodasitgets]

- diet: eat healthy and shit so you aren't fat and greasy and have nice enough skin
- exercise: you don't need be a tanked Rambo but can need passable tone in your muscles
- being interesting: having hobbies that aren't Anime and waifus and fapping
- fashionmaxxing: don't need to be Gucci, but dress fine
- career: having a decent job. You don't need to be a CEO, but don't be a fucking NEET either.

Go watch Jordan Peterson, lurk /fit/ and go back to reddit faggot. I don't mind that you're retarded enough to think any of this applies to a real incel, but you're clearly not experienced enough to be here.
>22
Bro I'm 22 and you sound like me when I was still in high school. How are you still in the oblivious stage?

To give you a less abusive response...
>diet, exercise
these are good just in terms of general health and if you can get inner motivation from it, all power to you. But if you're able to get a girlfriend from this you're not an incel, you're a fat faggot.
>fashion
>being interesting: having hobbies that aren't Anime and waifus and fapping
I don't watch anime because I'm not a faggot but if having a fake passion gets you a girlfriend, see above, lazy fat faggot. I hope most incels are beyond denying what they are , if you're weird and like anime just embrace it. Don't become a fake person unless you have the skills to pull it off.
>You don't need to be a CEO, but don't be a fucking NEET either.
Stop doing this. Stop speaking from experience when you have none. It's disrespectful and more importantly makes you look like an oblivious retard. Go back to 4chan, that's failed normalfag central. /fit/, /pol/, /adv/, etc. try any of them. Honestly it's less irritating hearing this advice from a real normalfag than a failed normal with a desperate need to be an internet sage.

 

[rotting-alone]

I'm all for banning threads like this.

I am so fucking tired of people acting like I've never tried this shit, along with 99% of incels.

This isn't some stupid-ass redpill thread. Sheesh why does everyone think this is a "self-improvement, bro! just lift bro!" thread. It's not.

I wanted to compare and analyze different incels and what they tried and see how it went. Simple as that.

Jesus Christ you guys took this thread and made it waaay too fucking dramatic.

Go watch Jordan Peterson, lurk /fit/ and go back to reddit faggot. I don't mind that you're retarded enough to think any of this applies to a real incel, but you're clearly not experienced enough to be here.

Says the guy who joined last week and has 2 posts. Lmao. Fuck off.

I have done all those except careermaxing, and also all those esoteric self-improvements such as nofap and cold showers. Tbh I think self improvement is one of my biggest hobbies and I do it even though I know my chances of romance are slim.

I never understand why people equate NoFap = self improvement. NoFap just seems like a bunch of psychological cope and shit.

 

[logixxx2]

I have, on certain aspects of my life and its helped but the underlying issue of years and years of feeling like a loser (even if in real life you display a facade of arrogance and confidence) make you feel like youre still not enough. I recall wanting to go to the gym working on my social skills etc but it only helped to an extent, i feel my mind and crippling depression stopped me more than those circumstances, but working on me did help

 

[lesbianwalrus]

If you're weird and like anime just embrace it. Don't become a fake person unless you have the skills to pull it off.

 

[ordinaryotaku]

A lot of it. It only made me more enraged when I didn't accomplish anything. Don't self improve.

 

[KingOfRome]

I'm all for banning threads like this.

I am so fucking tired of people acting like I've never tried this shit, along with 99% of incels.

 

[ProudIncelistani]

Many, including me.

 

[KingOfRome]

A lot of it. It only made me more enraged when I didn't accomplish anything. Don't self improve.

Social capital is worth more than any 3plate 1RM. Nobody wants to associate with an incel no matter how much he improved himself because he's still incel.

 

[incel4life]

My friend was an ugly 48 year old 5'2 Indian guy and he was having trouble finding a woman who wanted to be with him. Do you think he just sat around and complained about it all day? Fuck no. He improved himself and now he's a tall handsome 20 year old white guy and he can get any girl he wants.

 

[Deleted member 7573]

My friend was an ugly 48 year old 5'2 Indian guy and he was having trouble finding a woman who wanted to be with him. Do you think he just sat around and complained about it all day? Fuck no. He improved himself and now he's a tall handsome 20 year old white guy and he can get any girl he wants.

Kek, I was almost, what the fuck is this bullshit

 

[VST]

Yeah, passively.

 

[starystulejarz]

NO ATTRACTIVE FACE

NO CASE

 

[Grotesque]

This isn't some stupid-ass redpill thread. Sheesh why does everyone think this is a "self-improvement, bro! just lift bro!" thread. It's not.

I wanted to compare and analyze different incels and what they tried and see how it went. Simple as that.

Jesus Christ you guys took this thread and made it waaay too fucking dramatic.

I know, but do understand the frustration of hearing this 'self-improvement' shit a countless amount of times from people that hate you whom are only attempting to de-humanize you.

There's nothing to compare, anyway. All of us have or had education for a career, we all have hobbies, we all shower, we know how to dress. Some just lifted bro and most agree that it does little if any value improvement.

 

[balkancel]

Self improvement will make you feel better but, in the long run, it won't make you more attractive to women.

Some guys are helped by self-improvement in that it helps them realize women wanted them all along.

So sure, try it, but don't expect romantic success just for imitating a normie.

I'd say staying as fit as possible and having good hygiene will at least help you in other social areas.

 

[InebriatedIrish]

Diet- Only ate breakfast, lunch, supper, and all foods were healthy (eggs, ham sandwich, pork). Gave up after no results
Exercise- running/walking, biking, weight-lifting. Tried it for a year when I was bluepilled, and showed minimal improvement
Interesting- craftsmanship is the only hobby I have, and I don’t think Stacie’s would be interested in my knowledge of military and politics
Career- working in an office with good paying job

I’ve done it all. Went from bluepill to red, then to black. There’s no turning back.

 

[smith]

Many, including me. Won't do shit if you're sub 5.

 

[kantero]

You can't change your frame, you can't change your face. You maybe can earn money but it won't really change shit.

 

[Itsoverboyos]

Kek, I was almost, what the fuck is this bullshit

It's a pretty old meme here, around from the time of r/incels. A bot used to respond with it whenever some normie came on the sub to spout the "self-improvement" meme

 

[Indari]

fuck the anime shit. "just be interested in stuff you arent 2 get girls bruh"

 

[tiredofthisshit]

I do for myself but unless a female approaches you, its over.

 

[thePhantom]

- diet: Rarely eat fast food and never candy (some dark chocolate and occasionally pastries though). Eat my veggies and think about my macros.
- exercise: Not in as good shape as before health problems, but exercise a few times a week and am still somewhat toned with semi-visible abs.
- being interesting: Loads of hobbies including a nonprofit, extracurricular courses in various subjects and some Chad-y extreme sports. 140-150 IQ.
- fashionmaxxing: Think about what I wear and dress rather stylishly. Get compliments every now and then.
- career: Will soon have a STEM PhD and have about 100k $ in savings.

I'm 27. You would think this would be enough.

 

[SuperPerfectCel]

None of that shit fixes your face/height/race or teaches you how to approach women like a non-autist would.

Look at the tech nerds guys who can't get laid. Look at the gym rats who can't get laid. Money and muscle aren't enough.

 

[ArtoriasWolf]

@PM_ME_STRIPPERS has the best signature for this

 

[Izayacel]

"diet: eat healthy and shit so you aren't fat and greasy and have nice enough skin"
I'm 5'9" 130lbs, you tell me if i'm at a good weight homie.

"exercise: you don't need be a tanked Rambo but can need passable tone in your muscles"
gymcelled for awhile, stopped, but my body still looks good in muscle definition.

"having hobbies that aren't Anime and waifus and fapping"
I box, does that count?

"fashionmaxxing: don't need to be Gucci, but dress fine"
I think I dress well enough. Not Gucci, but like, I don't look like a bum.

"career: having a decent job. You don't need to be a CEO, but don't be a fucking NEET either."
I'm a NEET right now, was minimum wage worker at a grocery store before a couple of weeks though.

Nothing works. Also career is an irrelevant blue pill measurement, no one should be fooled into careermaxing. We already have a term for that, it's called betabuxing.
All in all VERY blue pill thread @rotting-alone. None of these things matter if you don't have the right face or race.

or a fuckign sixpack youz jsut flash around, with a okish height and a okish face,

 

[Felix97]

I am self improving on all of those things u listed since about 3 years now. It maybe put me from 3/10 to a weak 5/10.

You'll need to surgerycel if you want significant changes on ur appearance. If you're a manlet or framecel tho, save up that money and effort

 

[GeneticDysfunction]

Many, including me. Won't do shit if you're sub 5.

Lmao this, op wants hope to avoid the rope so bad, all we can do is cope.

 

[PM_ME_STRIPPERS]

@PM_ME_STRIPPERS has the best signature for this

agreed

 

[Ritalincel]

You can polish a turd as much as you want, but at the end of the day its still a turd.
There is no gym for your face.
Your quality and quantity of life depends on your looks.

 

[shortcel]

I hate this thread. I tried man. I tried so fucking much. I spent hours at the gym. Not just random workouts either I followed careful regimens to increase muscle mass and lower body fat. I dieted carefully, high protein low cards no fast food, I'm talking shit like chicken breasts with quinoa for dinner every night. I took up learning guitar, reading more, drawing, learning more about different subjects so that I could hold better conversations. The only time I ever drank alcohol was when I went out somewhere where I would look out of place if I wasn't drinking and even then I would sip on a single beer all night because I didn't want the calories or alcohol to add up. I did various fitness-related hobbies too, like bicycle and even CrossFit. I went to meetups and generally tried to be as social as I could. I took care of my face with acne washes. It felt like it was helping. My shoulders got a little broader, my face was clear, overall I felt I had more energy. You know what the end result of all that was?

No matches on tinder
Getting height mogged everywhere I went to the point that a femoid bartender laughed at me
2/10 landwhales cringing just when I tried to make polite small talk
Actually, now that I think about it I eventually did get a match on tinder : An overweight 33 year old with 2 kids who's first line on her profile was " I'm 5'8 if you aren't taller don't bother messaging me".

So please fuck off with this "did you try" shit. It's over

 

[Izayacel]

let grow your armpit hairs, if they long enough wear something where your arms are free, and then weave them in public, trololol its over so why not do the dumb shit

 

[Hunter]

i lifemaxx for myself

 

[blackoutwhitein3]

Depression held me back from improving myself.

 

[Alone75]

I did do those things for a while, looking better physically only increased attention from fags and working for years didn't help either.

Now I'm embracing being a lonely virgin oldcel, living with parents, no friends, no job, no future, no worries!

 

[Short Straw]

I hate this thread. I tried man. I tried so fucking much. I spent hours at the gym. Not just random workouts either I followed careful regimens to increase muscle mass and lower body fat. I dieted carefully, high protein low cards no fast food, I'm talking shit like chicken breasts with quinoa for dinner every night. I took up learning guitar, reading more, drawing, learning more about different subjects so that I could hold better conversations. The only time I ever drank alcohol was when I went out somewhere where I would look out of place if I wasn't drinking and even then I would sip on a single beer all night because I didn't want the calories or alcohol to add up. I did various fitness-related hobbies too, like bicycle and even CrossFit. I went to meetups and generally tried to be as social as I could. I took care of my face with acne washes. It felt like it was helping. My shoulders got a little broader, my face was clear, overall I felt I had more energy. You know what the end result of all that was?

No matches on tinder
Getting height mogged everywhere I went to the point that a femoid bartender laughed at me
2/10 landwhales cringing just when I tried to make polite small talk
Actually, now that I think about it I eventually did get a match on tinder : An overweight 33 year old with 2 kids who's first line on her profile was " I'm 5'8 if you aren't taller don't bother messaging me".

So please fuck off with this "did you try" shit. It's over

I believe you, shit’s rough out here. Damn.

 

[RoyalOcean]

- diet: Currently fasting this month, and when I do eat I try and stay true to a keto diet
- exercise: quit gym but will return after exams
- being interesting: Im a musician (fretless bass) so i play many shows in many bands for 4 years
- fashionmaxxing: smart wear,wear shirts mainly, skinny jeans/ cropped trousers, fur coats, light makeup
- career: Going to med school in few months, currently work in large supermarket

 

[Wot1994]

I looksmaxxed pretty intensely

 

[duck2]

Dude wtf are you kidding me? I got multiple plastic surgeries for over $10k and completely changed my life and the place where I lived.
It resulted to absolutely nothing..

 

[theultimate341]

im still trying

 

[kekboi]

Dude wtf are you kidding me? I got multiple plastic surgeries for over $10k and completely changed my life and the place where I lived.
It resulted to absolutely nothing..

surgeriemaxx is scam?

 

[Reborn]

I'm talking full-on lifemaxxing. And I don't mean that TRP bullshit where you have to be PERFECT and godlike...just gotta be passable.

- diet: eat healthy and shit so you aren't fat and greasy and have nice enough skin
- exercise: you don't need be a tanked Rambo but can need passable tone in your muscles
- being interesting: having hobbies that aren't Anime and waifus and fapping
- fashionmaxxing: don't need to be Gucci, but dress fine
- career: having a decent job. You don't need to be a CEO, but don't be a fucking NEET either.

Stuff like that? Any incels tried this? I haven't...but I'm going to try it out and see how shit goes.

Tried all of it. None helped.