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Has a "good personality" actually helped anyone in life?

dextercel

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A lot of copecels I see like to say that a good personality and confidence can help you pull any girl you want, even if ur a ltn and shes a stacylite. But the main question is, has personalitymaxxing actually helped anyone irl?
 
A lot of copecels I see like to say that a good personality and confidence can help you pull any girl you want, even if ur a ltn and shes a stacylite. But the main question is, has personalitymaxxing actually helped anyone irl?
its cope.

speaking from experience, most of the guys pulling girls my age(college) seem to be either tall and or facially attractive or thugmaxxers
 
its cope.

speaking from experience, most of the guys pulling girls my age(college) seem to be either tall and or facially attractive or thugmaxxers
yeah okay I figured
 
Nope. I got approached more being thugmaxxed than actually being a good black guy. ironically I was self improving before it was even a thing. I changed the way I walked talk,dress etc and still got nothing.
Nowadays I embrace wearing my owm style. Loose blue jeans and a buttoned up shirt. More conservative.
My mom hates the fact that I don't dress like this
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And I dress more like this now that I'm am adult
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If you have to change yourself for someone to like you then they didn't respect you or like you from the beginning.
I always thought I was weird but no everybody else was focused on trends for approval like npc's and I was doing my own thing until I got brainwashed and started changing my style to "fit in"

Not anymore
It's looks and THEN personality cause foids will judge you by the way you present yourself
 
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I have a bad personality
 
Looks beat personality every time.
 
Let me just tell you there is no personality Chad.
 
A lot of copecels I see like to say that a good personality and confidence can help you pull any girl you want, even if ur a ltn and shes a stacylite. But the main question is, has personalitymaxxing actually helped anyone irl?
It's helped me attain female friendships, ones where I'm an orbiter and "just a friend" albeit, but friendships none the less. I don't value them though now. Sometimes they try to message me, and in my mind I've reached a point where I can't talk to women who don't like me like that. "If you don't wanna be with me then why the fuck are you talking to me?"
A quote from one of my friends.

Personality in essence will help you make male friends, since they typically don't care about how you look. Personality when it comes to foids is only as important as your looks, if you're looking to date.

And you better be looking to date the foids you talk to, cuz they are boring as FUCK when you're "friends" with them.
 
Never has. Never will.
 
Definitely I have a bad pERsonality cuz all that chads say of having good personality it happens to me but backwards
 
Having a "good personality" is just looks and ignoring legitimate societal issues. Even when people don't know what I look like they claim I have a bad personality just because I notice and complain about htings
 
When I say I got approached , I'm merely exaggerating. I only had 1 black foid approach me and that was in ms. She asked me about my 6'3 brother and walked away. If I'm going to be honest thugmaxxing didn't really help me in the slightest and the only time black foids approached me was to help them with there homework or use me to cheat on tests.
 
personality only matters to an extent if you are good looking, you can be a saint and be ugly at the same time no one will care and you will still be treated like shit
 
Never, dark triad always mogs
 
Honestly nearly everyone has a OK personality. A good personality is someone who simply
shows interest in the other person, makes jokes, makes them feel good etc OR shows no
neediness, makes the other person interested in them etc

At the end of the day its EASY to treat women bad it takes no brain cells.

When a unattractive male plays video games its = he is still a kid

When a attractive male plays video games its geeky and cute.

Women re-interpret personality traits depending on your looks level.

My advice: Don't bother with personality. Talk to women in a jokey 'you're weird and silly'' kind of
overtone. It won't work or get you dates. But its better to be like this and at least have the
social higher ground.

Woman: I really don't like men who are shorter than me

You: Why are they more intelligent?

Just keep hammering her. She will eventually ignore you. But this is better
than being a cuckold.

When she talks about her boyfriend tell her you don't want to listen to her
talk about her blow up doll. Piss her off. Its better to do this then just be a unattractive simp.
Be a unattractive 'im better than you' incel.

Women will still ignore you - but at least i choose to annoy them, rather than i failed
because im a ugly autist.

(disclaimer: This is not negging, because a neg is used to gain interest. A incel not caring
attitude is a i dont care about any outcome. It's not pua advice, it's just be annoying rather
than be a cuckold.
 
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