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I agree the many bodily functions are disgusting and inherently just something that is, not something "magical".
But discussing the topic of feelings of limerance and longing to be with a foid, I find it be a very real thing. True I've got a lot of bluepill conditioning that contributes to this but whenever I hear love songs that talk about spending the rest of their lives with a woman it makes me very depressed.
In the thread talking about how not enough sex can kill you I said that
"tbh even if love isn't real and a disney fantasy I can't help but feel a longing for the kinds of feelings it provokes knowing that such feelings have been provoked in me before"
especially for the rare situations when I interacted with girls and it seemed to go okay for a period of time in the past
I also linked two examples of love songs that very easily make me depressed to show what I mean by love songs
I hear those songs and I can't help it, I find myself gasping for air and longing to be with foids that I did not have entirely negative experiences with even if I was their emotional tampon or orbiter at one point.
I've seen this a lot too. Religion is a bluepill with some redpill mixed in but a lot of the fairy tale idea or idealistic version of love and sex is strong in religions like Christianity in the west and new age spirituality.
The concept of romance is built up and anyone who questions whether it really exists instead of being just biology with cultural human courting customs added in it is said to be coping and told by others that "when they meet a special girl all that will change" and they'll see the "magic".
As many incels here can attest, that "special girl" might have been their oneitis and even if they knew beforehand that love is just a chemical reaction it didn't make it any less difficult to get past the feelings of romantic longing for their oneitis because suddenly all the evolutionary biology arguments, nature of women: it didn't matter. There was the potential that a foid was validating you and it was something you had never experienced before. And it was difficult to let go or forget how good that felt.
A lot of guys here may never move past their oneitis or easily catching feelings for women because they are not able to get with enough women to replace the thought of their oneitis and are left wondering if something like a woman taking interest in them like their oneitis appeared to will ever happen again.
It's
af but like you said a lot of normies and weak minded incels that might have previously looked at women more logically seem to experience this. For me it is easier said than done to forget about it and think that the feelings of love you had at the time.
This isn't so much a problem when I'm not reminded of it through movies and love songs, but when I am all the memories longing for the time when I felt close to a foid come back.
But discussing the topic of feelings of limerance and longing to be with a foid, I find it be a very real thing. True I've got a lot of bluepill conditioning that contributes to this but whenever I hear love songs that talk about spending the rest of their lives with a woman it makes me very depressed.
In the thread talking about how not enough sex can kill you I said that
"tbh even if love isn't real and a disney fantasy I can't help but feel a longing for the kinds of feelings it provokes knowing that such feelings have been provoked in me before"
especially for the rare situations when I interacted with girls and it seemed to go okay for a period of time in the past
I also linked two examples of love songs that very easily make me depressed to show what I mean by love songs
I hear those songs and I can't help it, I find myself gasping for air and longing to be with foids that I did not have entirely negative experiences with even if I was their emotional tampon or orbiter at one point.
Those are just two examples I found on short notice, I've seen this A LOT from incels, ESPECIALLY RELIGIOUS INCELS
Who go on and on about SEX BEING SPECIAL "WITHIN THE SANCTITY OF MARRIAGE"
The two of you probably just never pay attention and ITS NO WONDER I IRONICALLY HAVE BOTH OF YOU BLOCKED
You kind of just proved why, you're low IQ idiots who aren't observant, good bye now![]()
I've seen this a lot too. Religion is a bluepill with some redpill mixed in but a lot of the fairy tale idea or idealistic version of love and sex is strong in religions like Christianity in the west and new age spirituality.
The concept of romance is built up and anyone who questions whether it really exists instead of being just biology with cultural human courting customs added in it is said to be coping and told by others that "when they meet a special girl all that will change" and they'll see the "magic".
As many incels here can attest, that "special girl" might have been their oneitis and even if they knew beforehand that love is just a chemical reaction it didn't make it any less difficult to get past the feelings of romantic longing for their oneitis because suddenly all the evolutionary biology arguments, nature of women: it didn't matter. There was the potential that a foid was validating you and it was something you had never experienced before. And it was difficult to let go or forget how good that felt.
A lot of guys here may never move past their oneitis or easily catching feelings for women because they are not able to get with enough women to replace the thought of their oneitis and are left wondering if something like a woman taking interest in them like their oneitis appeared to will ever happen again.
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This isn't so much a problem when I'm not reminded of it through movies and love songs, but when I am all the memories longing for the time when I felt close to a foid come back.