Hard to fathom that non-losers exist

[daydreamER]

I can't believe that there are actually people out there who have not encountered any barriers in socializing and relationships. It is hard for me to imagine a life where I have people to talk to in real life and where people accept me. When I go outside and see people on the street, I can't believe that a lot of these guys probably have a girlfriend or friends that care about them. I do not know what kind of life it is where people invite you to things and call you up and are happy to see you. I sometimes have to snap myself out of assuming that other people don't just go home and rot all day on incel forums.

 

[lnceI]

It is

 

[Roaring Knight]

how they achieve relationships is confusing

 

[guessthatsit]

I look up pictures of my ex classmates and see that all of them including the autists are doing well in their lives while I rot here. Makes me think im sort of an anomaly who's not supposed to be here. How is it that every person I've ever known lives a completely normal relatively happy life while I go through hell every waking second?

 

[daydreamER]

I look up pictures of my ex classmates and see that all of them including the autists are doing well in their lives while I rot here. Makes me think im sort of an anomaly who's not supposed to be here. How is it that every person I've ever known lives a completely normal relatively happy life while I go through hell every waking second?

I do this as well. Even my most spergy or ugly childhood friends or classmates are living a good life posting pictures of themselves with their friends. I wonder how they do it.

 

[Lust]

I sometimes have to snap myself out of assuming that other people don't just go home and rot all day on incel forums.

 

[The Notorious SLAV]

Same here. My absolute default view of navigating the world is being an outcast whom nobody gives a shit about and who immediately goes back home after being wherever he is required to be (school or work). I cannot fathom being wanted, people approaching me and trying to befriend me, or wanting to be with me and spend time with me in any way.

 

[outerdarkness]

Yes same, I feel like an alien or something not human around others.

I have no idea why I’m alive.

 

[Wrath]

A completely different world

 

[daydreamER]

Same here. My absolute default view of navigating the world is being an outcast whom nobody gives a shit about and who immediately goes back home after being wherever he is required to be (school or work). I cannot fathom being wanted, people approaching me and trying to befriend me, or wanting to be with me and spend time with me in any way.

You formulated it much better than I did. I can’t remember the last time someone genuinely wanted to be near me or hang out with me.

Yes same, I feel like an alien or something not human around others.

Yes, I do not feel like I am part of humanity. I feel like a ghost drifting through the world.

I have no idea why I’m alive.

 

[LonerLothario]

i just can't deal with foids, i cant play along with their little dramas and storylines

 

[erenyeager]

how they achieve relationships is confusing

It’s all luck and space time mechanics. Like does the universe hate you on a specific day

 

[WeirdoDesperado]

Soyciety is like a rollercoaster ride where your height is measured before you could enter it

 

[daydreamER]

Soyciety is like a rollercoaster ride where your height is measured before you could enter it