Blackpill HANDSOME, CUTE and HOT ... Decoding women's compliments, what they REALLY mean

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Let's settle this once and for all. In almost three decades I lived in majority women spaces, observing them various habitats: home, middle school, high school, college, work... When it came seeing them compliment various men, this pattern emerges as a empirical certainty.

HANDSOME -- no woman under the age of 40 uses this one to describe a man she finds attractive, not even my own mother. Far less flattery than cute when one considers that this is the kind of worthless compliment you'd still get from your grandmother if you showed up for your communion looking like this...


CUTE -- controversial when it shouldn't be. The most socially acceptable way for a woman to hint "I'd let him lick my pussy," while at the same time still retaining the right to back off if confronted with a backlash from her friends. Xers, millenials and zoomers use cute to denote sexually attractive that is often times of a boyish/androgynous slant making it short lived. Many incels will insist that since women refer to certain animals as cute this should make cute a bad compliment. They couldn't be more wrong. A girl will call a dog cute, but never a unattractive man.



HOT
-- there is an increased blood flow in the vaginal walls. Hot happens immediately, within a split second, it's love on first sight. Unlike cute, it will be rare to hear this one come out of a girls mouth irl. But when it does, hot will be reserved for the striking and the unique that involves a combination of physical attractiveness complimented by cultural signifiers; biker, rock star, athlete, thug, upper class. For the girl, hot is a whole package.
 
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Getting any form of compliment from a foid is normalfag tier tbh. If not higher.
 
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goydivision said:
Getting any form of compliment from a foid is normalfag tier tbh. If not higher.
cope

even oreo man said women often called him handsome. Women are full of lies
 
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Kind of discredited your whole post by implying Bob Dylan was in any way good looking
 
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Tenshi said:
cope

even oreo man said women often called him handsome. Women are full of lies
only compliments i get is my mom saying im very smart (which I am tbh but its not going to get me pussy, innit?)
 
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Tenshi said:
cope

even oreo man said women often called him handsome. Women are full of lies
yeah, "handsome" is an insult

I'd put from worst to best hot > pretty > cute

But if a foid ever calls you handsome, then it's over
goydivision said:
only compliments i get is my mom saying im very smart (which I am tbh but its not going to get me pussy, innit?)
Mogs me at getting compliments from women :chad: my mom only ever called me a dumb failure
 
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So basically foids lie all the time. I dont get compliments tbh
 
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goydivision said:
only compliments i get is my mom saying im very smart (which I am tbh but its not going to get me pussy, innit?)
tbh I rarely get one, and when I do it's usually from an older woman, like grannies
 
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tbh I rarely get one, and when I do it's usually from an older woman, like grannies
exactly. Mostly its them being nice or familial to you.

Also over for milfcels who realize they arent getting all that pussy.
 
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"cute" can change a lot depending on the context tbh. you said that a woman can easily back off from a statement like that and I think that requires more emphasis. she can easily call one of her orbiters or whatever "cute" just to keep him interested, without giving him the idea that she finds him sexually attractive.

otherwise I agree with the post
 
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ionlycopenow said:
yeah, "handsome" is an insult

I'd put from worst to best hot > pretty > cute

But if a foid ever calls you handsome, then it's over

Mogs me at getting compliments from women :chad: my mom only ever called me a dumb failure
I remember oreo man 10 years ago making videos about women calling him handsome but wanting nothing to do with him. That word specifically

He was so ahead of the curve.

View: https://youtu.be/NZeMyHNAFZY
 
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sometimes foids will call friendzone sort of guys, or nice unfuckable ricecels "cute."

When bitches say you're "hot" that means something
 
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ionlycopenow said:
Kind of discredited your whole post by implying Bob Dylan was in any way good looking
I'm an empiricist, a incel saying he's ugly doesn't outweigh all the groupies that thought Dylan was hot shit, including my mother.
 
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B.O.G.A.R.T. said:
I'm an empiricist, a incel saying he's ugly doesn't outweigh all the groupies that thought Dylan was hot shit, including my mother.
Your dumb roastie cunt mother, probably a whore hippie during that era, thought an extremely rich and famous folk musician was "hot" and you think this has anything to do with his looks?
 
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SlayerSlayer said:
sometimes foids will call friendzone sort of guys, or nice unfuckable ricecels "cute."
yeah. I didn't really want to mention this but last year a person I sort of knew told me I was "cute". a week later I asked if she wanted to go on a date and I got rejected and publicly humiliated. you should have seen her face, she literally recoiled in disgust and anger just at being asked by me
 
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SlayerSlayer said:
sometimes foids will call friendzone sort of guys, or nice unfuckable ricecels "cute."

When bitches say you're "hot" that means something
Heard it in high school and from a 15 year old girl refering to a 19 year old former dropout who enrolled in our class. Pure undiluted lust.

ionlycopenow said:
Your dumb roastie cunt mother, probably a whore hippie during that era, thought an extremely rich and famous folk musician was "hot" and you think this has anything to do with his looks?
thousands of prime jb's entering a collective catharsis whenever he sang >>>>>>> your kvetching

lmao, stay mad.

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"cute" can change a lot depending on the context tbh. you said that a woman can easily back off from a statement like that and I think that requires more emphasis. she can easily call one of her orbiters or whatever "cute" just to keep him interested, without giving him the idea that she finds him sexually attractive.

otherwise I agree with the post
I've only heard girls call these types 'sweet' or 'adorable' which were definetly death sentences. Cute was more of a girl in-group communication when they objectified men 'that new guy, yeah... he's kinda cute' which was followed by a discussion whether the jury agrees on his 'cuteness' or not. The 'cute' status could be taken away.
 
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B.O.G.A.R.T. said:
Heard it in high school and from a 15 year old girl refering to a 19 year old former dropout who enrolled in our class. Pure undiluted lust.


thousands of prime jb's entering a collective catharsis whenever he sang >>>>>>> your kvetching

lmao, stay mad.


I've only heard girls call these types 'sweet' or 'adorable' which were definetly death sentences. Cute was more of a girl in-group communication when they objectified men 'that new guy, yeah... he's kinda cute' which was followed by a discussion whether the jury agrees on his 'cuteness' or not. The 'cute' status could be taken away.
He's still not good looking.
 
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Cope.

Handsome = defined jawline

Cute= nw0 hair

Hot = height over 6’3
 
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Over_this_Life said:
So basically foids lie all the time. I dont get compliments tbh
 
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True for the most part.

I would give on exception: "Cute" is way more complicated than that.

If you ever ask a girl what she thinks of you and says "you are cute," that means "Lol you ain't attractive boi"

Moreover, "cute" can also denote low-t chads that she would fuck repeatedly too.
 
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Never been complimented on my looks, on the contrary...
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He mogs me too, he has fair skin and blonde hair.
 
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goydivision said:
Getting any form of compliment from a foid is normalfag tier tbh. If not higher.
 
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What about ”sexy”
Isnt it better?
 
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Tenshi said:
cope

even oreo man said women often called him handsome. Women are full of lies
Chad has the foids mouth blocked with his thick cock even before she utters a compliment
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Kind of discredited your whole post by implying Bob Dylan was in any way good looking
For brainlet status maxxing=Chaddening. Reminiscent of the lingering redpill in their minds
 
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SuperMario64DS said:
True for the most part.

I would give on exception: "Cute" is way more complicated than that.

If you ever ask a girl what she thinks of you and says "you are cute," that means "Lol you ain't attractive boi"

Moreover, "cute" can also denote low-t chads that she would fuck repeatedly too.
Definetly, there is a difference with the spontaneous 'cute' (referred in my post) and a forced-out one, which is like bad comfort on a suicide prevention lifeline.

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What about ”sexy”
Isnt it better?
I haven't heard 'sexy' uttered irl since 2010, and even then it was a compliment auto mechanics gave to women who looked like porn starlets. As far as value is concerned 'sexy' and 'hot' are on the same level, they undubtedly signify the same concept: strong erotic interest.

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Chad has the foids mouth blocked with his thick cock even before she utters a compliment

I choose Dylan precisely because he is not a robust Chad, yet looks exactly like the jewboys I wen't to school with and who fucked scene girls 3-4 years their junior. I'm basing my theories on decades of real life observations, before tinder even existed. You, on the other hand, talk in exaggerated meme speak like a comment simulator.
 
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Women call you cute if you're good enough to be an orbiter so they can keep you around but suppressed from feeling like you're chad
 
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I'm basing my theories on decades of real life observations, before tinder even existed. You, on the other hand, talk in exaggerated meme speak like a comment simulator.
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Sexy < Hot < Cute < Handsome < "Uh, yeah, you're alright looking"
 
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It’s very simple. If any foid compliments you, but isn’t willing to suck your cock, she’s lying.

Order: Hot > Cute > handsome > he’s ok
B.O.G.A.R.T. @B.O.G.A.R.T. what if a woman over 40 calls you handsome?
 
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BITG said:
It’s very simple. If any foid compliments you, but isn’t willing to suck your cock, she’s lying.

Order: Hot > Cute > handsome > he’s ok
B.O.G.A.R.T. @B.O.G.A.R.T. what if a woman over 40 calls you handsome?
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Sexy < Hot < Cute < Handsome < "Uh, yeah, you're alright looking"
This
Also calling someone cute can mean so many different things. All from "i dont wanna say he is ugly", to finding him somewhat attractive
 
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"Hot" is the only meaningful qualifier that will get you roastie walls.
 
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Cope. Females lie half the time. A femoid will call Dylan the school shooter hot if she wants some work out of him.

The only way femoids show actual interest is by “discreet” physical contact. Like if she holds your hand in a random place or comes close to you and starts touching you slowly but discreet. In a normal everyday situation, this shows true interest.

>tfw you never had this
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Tenshi said:
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even oreo man said women often called him handsome. Women are full of lies

Who the hell is oreo man?
 
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60-70s Bob Dylan would be incel in 2020
 
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BITG said:
It’s very simple. If any foid compliments you, but isn’t willing to suck your cock, she’s lying.

Order: Hot > Cute > handsome > he’s ok
B.O.G.A.R.T. @B.O.G.A.R.T. what if a woman over 40 calls you handsome?

1. You look like you won't mug her on the spot
2. You look just too nice of a betabuxxing material to stay single
3. Her ovaries just shrank and low t geeky boys suddenly appear 'attractive' again
 
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Hot = tall, high T and well-defined jawline
Cute = NW0 hair, but too short or feminine
Handsome = ugly, but rich and thus a potential betabuxx