Yes, it`s over, your looksmatch idiocy that is. People tend to go for people they`re mentally compatibile with, only shallow and sociopathic give a rats ass about their SO`s outside if they`re matched in personalities and passions.
I mean, honestly, why should I be saddled with some asshole I have no interest in but apparently he looks on my level on some particular scale you made up, what we both wish for be damned since it will make you somehow feel better about the world... My husband is easily 9/10 by your own books, strong jaw, kind, patient eyes, lush, long hair and well built and tall to top it off, a Chad if you would. Also faithful and loving as any man could ever be. Funny thing, i never actually thought of him in physical terms till you dum fucks provoked me to do so. He was always my honey who plays vidya with me and watches crappy horrors and delights in my cooking and... you catched my drift by now, I hope?
Also to drive it home even further, I`m flat as fuck and small of frame, my only redeeming feature is my face(ironic for a transgirl) and oh yes I am trans and he knew about it since something like half the year into our relationship. Hear that crashing sounds? It`s made by your creed breaking down like an old tissue paper in the rain...