Autism is a contributing cause to being a socially alienated incel. In fact, it's almost synonymous with it, which is why you should diagnose your issues properly.
You are clearly not so ugly that your looks alone are preventing you from having interpersonal relationships, like others on this forum, so autism is the issue that makes the difference in your case.
The fact that you seek support for your views from @mylifeistrash, someone who is 6'5 and only embittered because he's in his 30s now and too old to slay, confirms that you are being taken for a ride.
It's like Becky being obsessed about her looks because of the mass-suggestion of her peers, and the cult of cosmetics.
By all means, LARP as a Chad and exploit other peoples' partiality for fake, exterior charm, but part of this is social finesse, and as an autist, you lack it.