Got suspended from university because of my crush

[TriumphDoloshite]

They want us dead. Even our male brothers

How did you even find this? I posted this a week ago.

 

[Betrayed]

How did you even find this? I posted this a week ago.

I might be in touch with your FBI agent

 

[Cypher]

brutal

 

[WhyBother]

I know this is late but the only Asian girls I've seen with their own kind were at least 6ft minimum with a decent face while being dripped out(good stylish street wear) and a sportscar to get a decent Asian girl. Or they were a 9/10 in face with with good clothes.

 

[übertard]

You should have told her to fuck off after that “nice job” comment. She has made it clear she was repulsed by you so you should have returned the favor

Right on the money.

I‘d just kill myself if this happened to me, I’ve probably already come close

 

[Asgard]

crushes.is

 

[Splintercel345]

During my second year at university, I developed a crush on a girl in my class. We were friendly with each other and I would try to talk to her whenever I should. I knew that I could never be in a relationship with her, and I wasn't trying to pursue one either, but I still obsessed about trying to be liked by her. I would often wait for her after lessons to try to talk to her. I didn't exactly stalk her and didn't follow her to her flat or anything, but I did hang around her enough for her to tell be one day that she had noticed be looking at her a lot and following her around and that she felt uncomfortable.

I was partly aware of my obsession and I told her that I had mental health issues and that she should tell me if I made her uncomfortable again. This was a few days before a class trip to Milan. During the trip I tried my best to keep my distance, and I didn't follow her that much, but I obsess a bit about taking group photos on my 35mm camera with her in them. After the trip I didn't really speak to her for about two weeks but nevertheless I got an email from the university telling me not to speak to her, and that I will be meeting with the Student Conduct team. During the meeting I was made to sign a "no-contact agreement" where I wasn't to make any contact at all with her. I at I followed it but then one day after a rehearsal (we study music) she smiled and side to me "good job", so I replied thanks, good job to you too" and walked away. Then a few days later there was a performance by the university orchestra and she was leading it (she plays violin very well). Afterwards I said "well done" to her. I also commented "well done" on an Instagram post.

I don't know why I thought that was necessary or why I was still trying to be friendly with her. I should've taken my friend's advice to just ignore her, but saying just a couple words was enough to land me with a one semester's suspension from my course. It's complicated to explain the whole situation right now, but I in order to rejoin, I need to be checked by the medical team, and at the moment I'm not allowed to go onto campus. I did sneak into the building a couple times after my suspension thinking that no one would spot me, but some teachers spotted my in the car park and I later got an email saying that if I continued to go to campus they would get the police involved.

Let me explain why I was attracted to her: I have a strong preference for Asian women, and this girl was Chinese/Singaporean or something. She was pretty good looking, probably around a 6 or 7, and her name was Katherine. She was also one of those people who often leads group activities, and was one of the students selected to show people around on the university open days. After I found out about the suspension I started to hate her and the last time a spoke to her was when I found her alone in one of the rooms at the university looking at her computer. I went in and told her how distressed she made me feel and that I was going to kill myself. I knew that I wasn't actually going to do it, but I wanted to show her how I felt. She looked pretty horrified when I told her that. Now that university is going to be starting again I'm starting to get really annoyed about it all. I'm really starting to hate Katherine; why did she have to complain? She had to start shit, and then giving mixed signals. She's so self-entailed and doesn't care how she affects others. I could slap her in the face right now, I'm so annoyed. But obviously I won't and can't do that, because I don't want to get expelled from the university, and it's not worth it.

Also, I did post the first half of this on a subreddit previously, and copy pasted it here.

The only reason this shit happened is cuz of looks. It's the same way women find me creepy because of my identity as a currycel. Literally the only difference between creepines and non-creepiness is literally your bone structure, race, and height. A chad can literally grab her ass and she'd see that as flirting, and next thing you know those two are making out.

Take this as a lesson brocel. Keep your distance from the women cuz they're nothing but bad luck.

 

[Academiciancel]

You learned your lesson. Never simp

 

[rcnfive]

You must be retarded for not getting legal advice before doing something stupid.

Why didn't you get legal advice? They would've told you to not do something stupid.

No-contacy orders are usually bullshit but you have nothing to gain by violating them. Get an attorney to sort it out if need be.

My god. I have very little sympathy for OP.

Lawyer up right fucking now.

while it depends on the country, from my own experience, colleges usually have preponderance of evidence, they can pretty much do whatever they want.

 

[Glerforpus]

Based currycel

 

[TriumphDoloshite]

The only reason this shit happened is cuz of looks. It's the same way women find me creepy because of my identity as a currycel. Literally the only difference between creepines and non-creepiness is literally your bone structure, race, and height. A chad can literally grab her ass and she'd see that as flirting, and next thing you know those two are making out.

Take this as a lesson brocel. Keep your distance from the women cuz they're nothing but bad luck.

I'm not even that bad looking but I'm definitely not a Chad. A friend told me about someone who was groping girls in one of the societies. He got banned from the society but is still in uni and now has a girlfriend. Because he's (allegedly) a Chad.

 

[Splintercel345]

I'm not even that bad looking but I'm definitely not a Chad. A friend told me about someone who was groping girls in one of the societies. He got banned from the society but is still in uni and now has a girlfriend. Because he's (allegedly) a Chad.

Well still. What you were doing was literally small talk. Nowhere near was that even harassment by the definition. It wasn't like you were breaking into her house or repeatedly sending her gifts or even touching her. Literally all you guys did was just exchange a couple of words.

I bet if that Chad were to do what you did, she'd probably would've hooked up with him and they would've had a relationship and possibly a baby by now.

What I said still stands.

 

[TriumphDoloshite]

Well still. What you were doing was literally small talk. Nowhere near was that even harassment by the definition. It wasn't like you were breaking into her house or repeatedly sending her gifts or even touching her. Literally all you guys did was just exchange a couple of words.

I bet if that Chad were to do what you did, she'd probably would've hooked up with him and they would've had a relationship and possibly a baby by now.

What I said still stands.

But they say that harassment is defined by what the "victim" thinks. Towards the end she was feeling "harassed" by me being in the same room as her. I have seen people cat call her once and she didn't seem to mind that. Crazy woman.

 

[Splintercel345]

But they say that harassment is defined by what the "victim" thinks. Towards the end she was feeling "harassed" by me being in the same room as her. I have seen people cat call her once and she didn't seem to mind that. Crazy woman.

Yeah, all bitches are like that. Sorry you had to put up with that brocel

 

[lifefuel]

er

 

[I want to believe]

Forget about that bitch.

 

[MierableAndIncel]

dumbass