Brutal Got rejected via warm approaching method

[Rasama]

I met this foid in trade school, back in December of 2025. She's an architecture student and i'm an EV car student

I met her at her classroom, at the architecture floor. I went there because my friends are architecture students

I sat next to her, doing my homework. Then we chatted, next time we met we traded IGs

We became friends, i had feelings for her. I just got rejected by her via chat

@Monikak

 

[Rasama]

She was really surprised how i've never had a GF ever, well into my early 20s

 

[MoroccanFarmer]

She was really surprised how i've never had a GF ever, well into my early 20s

Why do you told foid that u never had any GF? Thats one of the biggest redflags for foids.

 

[ihatelife2]

Fuck that's brutal, I'm sorry the bitch was so shallow

 

[GmeOvr]

No warm approach for your face

 

[Caichan]

I’m beyond discouraged

 

[Karlicel]

Why do you told foid that u never had any GF? Thats one of the biggest redflags for foids.

what can he do though

 

[Rasama]

Why do you told foid that u never had any GF? Thats one of the biggest redflags for foids.

I had to because i was flopping so hard trying to woo her, or something

And at one point she asked why the fuck do not understand some concepts and aspects of getting into a relationship or something

 

[The Death Devil]

Why were you even bothering to try? You should have known better.

 

[Rasama]

No warm approach for your face

Not only my face, well i actually kinda mog her overall

Since this is like my first warm approach ever, i don't know what to do

Red pill is actually needed to woo foids as a sub5 or normies

I have bad rizz, zero text game, don't understand social relationship aspects and etc.

 

[Rasama]

Fuck that's brutal, I'm sorry the bitch was so shallow

The bitch got turned off by my behaviors JFL

 

[Rasama]

I’m beyond discouraged

Atleast you gotta try

 

[ihatelife2]

The bitch got turned off by my behaviors JFL

What behavior?

 

[Calamari Sun]

Atleast you gotta try

 

[Rasama]

Why were you even bothering to try? You should have known better.

I will keep trying till i'm an oji-san who isn't socially acceptable to flirt with JBs anymore

 

[The Death Devil]

I will keep trying till i'm an oji-san who isn't socially acceptable to flirt with JBs anymore

Suit yourself, but I will warn you, you can only be rejected so many times before it begins to take its toll on your mind.

 

[Rasama]

What behavior?

Just no RIZZ in general. I never organized a date, no gifts, don't know what she was on about

Foids don't tell you directly what's wrong with her, you gotta figure it out JFL

Just red-pill in general i guess

 

[PolnischeKartoffel]

Ngl I always saw that as risky

Btw I'm rejection resistant recently

 

[GigaL0ser]

Brutal

 

[Gilgamesh]

Why do you told foid that u never had any GF? Thats one of the biggest redflags for foids.

Especially when the BP has evidence that women see a guy photoshopped in with other women as more attractive than that same guy without in a photo without other women. Mate choice copying is a lot stronger than a lot of people think, including us.

 

[Rasama]

I told her to give me a chance 2 times on the same day

1st time i asked she instantly said "no" coldly, turned around and left the room

I cried

 

[Obanchito]

Not only my face, well i actually kinda mog her overall

Since this is like my first warm approach ever, i don't know what to do

Red pill is actually needed to woo foids as a sub5 or normies

I have bad rizz, zero text game, don't understand social relationship aspects and etc.

Retards like you claim to be blackpilled is what gets under my skin

 

[AdolfRizzler]

She was really surprised how i've never had a GF ever, well into my early 20s

big mistake, this is probably a death mistake if u tell this to a foid, try to atleast somehow find a lie or change the subject

I told her to give me a chance 2 times on the same day

1st time i asked she instantly said "no" coldly, turned around and left the room

I cried

its over

 

[Rasama]

Especially when the BP has evidence that women see a guy photoshopped in with other women as more attractive than that same guy without in a photo without other women. Mate choice copying is a lot stronger than a lot of people think, including us.

I actually lied to her when we were getting to know each other, that i had 6-7 partners in the past

Atlas, i had to reveal my quirk to the normies. They were stunted

 

[Gilgamesh]

I actually lied to her when we were getting to know each other, that i had 6-7 partners in the past

Atlas, i had to reveal my quirk to the normies. They were stunted

6-7 is a lot. Try like 2-3 if you ever get the chance again. Depending on how long the "relationships" were, she might see it as a red flag that you moved on from "them" so quickly

 

[Rasama]

Retards like you claim to be blackpilled is what gets under my skin

I am black pilled, but social abilities, NTness experience, social-circles etc. are also important

 

[Izayacel]

Not only my face, well i actually kinda mog her overall

Since this is like my first warm approach ever, i don't know what to do

Red pill is actually needed to woo foids as a sub5 or normies

I have bad rizz, zero text game, don't understand social relationship aspects and etc.

No rizz for your height and face . She will make it known if shes into you or not .

Relationsihps just happen if they want to happen .

Breathing just happens .

 

[Monikak]

I hope you move on quick, you did your best and that’s what matters brocel

But imagine if she only accepted you out of pity or something. That could be worse for you in the long run — you’d lose your incel status, while there’s a high chance you’d get cheated on by that foid anyway. People often forget about the quality of a relationship (Just giving you some cope ofc).

I told her to give me a chance 2 times on the same day

1st time i asked she instantly said "no" coldly, turned around and left the room

I cried

Nigga asking a foid out for the 2nd time is just a humiliation ritual.

 

[Caichan]

Atleast you gotta try

I’ll try later

 

[Rasama]

Yea boyos, i had to put up with a few times of her outbursts aswell

She'd blocked me or cut me off irl if there was a misunderstanding in our conversations

I was the one who's always repairing the relationship

 

[Rasama]

Nigga asking a foid out for the 2nd time is just a humiliation ritual.

TBH, I should've just rode my bike home and rope

 

[xrbr]

I met this foid in trade school, back in December of 2025. She's an architecture student and i'm an EV car student

I met her at her classroom, at the architecture floor. I went there because my friends are architecture students

I sat next to her, doing my homework. Then we chatted, next time we met we traded IGs

We became friends, i had feelings for her. I just got rejected by her via chat

@Monikak

How did you get "rejected" specifically though? What did you say and what did she say?

 

[Rasama]

How did you get "rejected" specifically though? What did you say and what did she say?

Well, i have been rejected prior via chat box, then i went up to her and said asked to give me a chance irl

I said "Can i talk to you? Can you give me a chan-"

"No." then she turned away fast and left the room

 

[Failed Pullout]

She was really surprised how i've never had a GF ever, well into my early 20s

There's this thing called lying.

 

[xrbr]

Well, i have been rejected prior via chat box, then i went up to her and said asked to give me a chance irl

I said "Can i talk to you? Can you give me a chan-"

"No." then she turned away fast and left the room

What do you mean "rejected via chat box" - did you ask her if she wanted to go out on a date? Like asked to hang out, outside of class?

The fact you got her contact info or she wanted to talk to you at all that way indicates some interest.

Did you act like her friend and listen to her problems all day and then she invited you to chat to talk about the same thing? If so - then yeah, you made the wrong move, lol.

 

[loserinlife411]

ALWAYS lie to foids

 

[LeFrenchCel]

Warm approaches are like cold approaches

Neither work brother

 

[Sex-Starved Beast]

Just no RIZZ in general. I never organized a date, no gifts, don't know what she was on about

Cope. If she cared she would have organized the dates herself. I've seen this happen to my ND HTN acquaitances. Girls make it very easy when they are into you.

 

[Last2025cel]

Why do you told foid that u never had any GF? Thats one of the biggest redflags for foids.

What was he supposed to do? Lie and then risk her finding out later in the relationship?

 

[ANTAGONIST]

ALWAYS lie to foids

 

[cymbeline]

The only warm approach I'll do is with a bucket of Lava. I will pour it onto their head

 

[ogercel]

Why do you told foid that u never had any GF? Thats one of the biggest redflags for foids.

Exactly I've never had a gf but if a foid asks even if its my mum I always say 3 exs

Why were you even bothering to try? You should have known better.

Its called coping and learning the hard way we've all done it

I told her to give me a chance 2 times on the same day

1st time i asked she instantly said "no" coldly, turned around and left the room

I cried

Never ever ask her twice always ask once then if you're interested seduce her or something and wait for her to ask you, now you've inflated her ego and makes you look like a fool.

ALWAYS lie to foids

ALWAYS

Cope. If she cared she would have organized the dates herself. I've seen this happen to my ND HTN acquaitances. Girls make it very easy when they are into you.

Exactly, she'd embarrass herself to hit on you or make it obvious.

 

[itsovER99]

Never began brah

 

[anthonyfantano]

You should have.. cut your ear off and gave it to her.

 

[D. B. Gooner]

I have a question. Do you think this experience has made you less inhibited? Being rejected on a warm approach is way more embarrassing than on a cold approach, do you feel you're more likely to ask girls out again or did it have the opposite effect?

 

[TheIncredibleIncel]

And at one point she asked why the fuck do not understand some concepts and aspects of getting into a relationship or something

What aspects or concepts in particular?

 

[Rasama]

I have a question. Do you think this experience has made you less inhibited? Being rejected on a warm approach is way more embarrassing than on a cold approach, do you feel you're more likely to ask girls out again or did it have the opposite effect?

It hurted me badly, yes. But it depends on how fast i recover, and will i grow resistance to it, i guess

So IDK, this is my first time getting warm approaching rejected

Right now i feel like crap though, i would probably recover in about several months i guess

Keep in mind i have many cold approaches on my belt, so i kinda grew resistance to it

And another thing, 1 failed warm approach hurts more than 20-30 cold approaches

 

[Rasama]

What aspects or concepts in particular?

How to court, how relationship starts, it starts from trust, friendship or whatever she said

I kinda rushed it to be a relationship JFL and it put her off

 

[autistspy1]

What a bitch, if she has family/friends or a cat, threaten them (subtly so you can have legal deniability)

I'm a law student so HMU for more info (you're not in America but laws can be similar between nations depending where you are) so hmu with questions you have. Blackmailing them for sex, even finding out you know where they live and just subtly insinuating that can give you an advantage.

will not confirm or deny here if I've done that because I'm not tryign to attract the FBI