I don't know enough about being a promoter to judge whether or not you're a fakecel, and I tend to not like to gatekeep like that anyway.
HOWEVER... how exactly did you even get a job as a promoter? I've seen a lot of promoter Instagrams and those guys, if I had anything those guys had I think I'd do a lot better with women. In order to even be hired as a promoter, you have to have something going for you, right?
I believe you when you say you feel invisible. But you feel invisible. Are you putting in any effort? As the dude, you have to do the initiating, most likely. Women tend to not approach unless their minds and vaginas are broken by the sheer studliness of a man.