It's Over Got called ugly again and I don’t know what to do

[Celasius]

Soooooooo…… this just happened.

My very extended family (my mother’s second cousins), who I’ve had no contact with prior to this moment in my life and who apparently had COVID BY THE WAY, dropped by unannounced all the way from a fucking western country in the middle of the day, and so naturally, my first instinct was to panic because I was like oh shit, it’s probably the glowies, it’s over, but my mom knew them, so I was in the clear, or so I thought.

5 minutes after our first chitchat, this 6’4” fat fuck looks at me, and completely, out of FUCKING nowhere, unsarcastically says something between these lines:

So, Celasius, what’s up with the nose? Why did it have to be so big? And did you have to not shave those you patchy beards of yours? It reminds me of [insert a super stereotypical group of middle-eastern people who are well-known for being ugly] honestly.

I responded, politely:

I’m not the best-looking guy there is and had it not been for you unexpectedly visiting us, I’d have made an effort to my looks and might just have shaved my facial hair too.

And then they laughed it off.

I didn’t speak a single word afterwards.

Jesus fuck man. What would I have to give for people to stop commenting on it? Holy shit dude, like HOLY FUCK. What the fuck do you want of me??? I’ve cut every single connection with every human being I’ve known outside of my immediate family and yet, these fucking people come out of nowhere and just keep pulling me back into that hell I try to escape everyday. I swear to fucking God, I’m manically typing this out and am contemplating some VERY disturbing thoughts and I feel like exploding.

At this point, no matter how hard I try to avoid them, they’ll do their best to somehow find another way to humiliate me. Why can’t they just leave me alone?

Why can’t you just leave me alone????

 

[Celasius]

@Epedaphic @PLA1092 blackpill is all fun and memes UNTIL you see it unfold right before your eyes and it’s only then that it’s at its maximum effect.

 

[8CbZA-kHFu6pFgE*]

Put laxatives in his drink

 

[Mortis]

what’s up with the nose?

 

[Nate Higgers]

moneymaxx move out and cut off contact with rest of the family that's what I'm planning to do, sand nigger families are a menace

 

[Celasius]

Put laxatives in his drink

They’re gone.

I’m having a very, VERY bad day.

 

[GhostedPhantom]

Brutal. I hope someone breaks his nose so he gets an answer to his "what's up with the nose" dumbass question (in video game)

Put laxatives in his drink

They’re gone.

 

[Celasius]

Yeah, must be nice being a fakecel born with the wrong amount of disproportionate on your face. Wonder what that’s like.

moneymaxx move out and cut off contact with rest of the family that's what I'm planning to do, sand nigger families are a menace

They are evil. They are literally fucking evil. At first I hesitated on jumping on this but now I am absolutely positive that they’re not good people.

The ONLY REASON THEY VISIT YOU IS TO JUST SEE HOW LOW YOU HAVE FALLEN AS AN INDIVIDUAL.

They just probably wanted to look at our poorfag life and feel good about themselves just like the rest of the normie world.

 

[NonNTFailure]

Holy shit, at least my family copes by calling me "handsome", it would've taken me all my power not to tell that bloatmaxxer to fuck off, blood or not.

 

[Mortis]

Yeah, must be nice being a fakecel born with the wrong amount of disproportionate on your face. Wonder what that’s like.

I have a big ugly nigger nose (as a north african LOL) so we definitely share the same problems. I just thought it was funny that a family member would casually say something like that.

 

[zeekcel]

brutal

 

[Cletus Longthing]

Put rat poison in their food

 

[Celasius]

Brutal. I hope someone breaks his nose so he gets an answer to his "what's up with the nose" dumbass question (in video game)

I hope they just fucking die. I don’t usually wish this upon anyone, but I don’t get it. Why would they do this? I’m already as suicidal as I can get because of how ugly I am. Why do you gotta go remind me of it and push my buttons too?

Why are normies literally so fucking shitty? I don’t get it. I genuinely have a hard time understanding this.

 

[weaselbomber]

This also happened to me, in a similar situation. Loved to play L4D2 with my cousins in my Xbox 360, then as we grew older they started to dislike me more and more and kept up the facade.
It took an outsider to put them on the spot and ask them to tell me how they "really feel" about me. He said "tell him what you were saying earlier". They were embarrassed and tried to pretend it was nothing, but I got the message. That same outsider fucking hated me. Called me a fag in front of everyone and said no one likes me. And I didn't say a word back.

 

[Robb97]

At least they call you ugly to your face. I don't think that ever happened to me. People always say it under their breath or when talking to each other behind my back.

 

[Potential Rapist]

At least you responded well, I was left speechless after a visiting relative randomly called me a midget.

 

[Celasius]

I have a big ugly nigger nose (as a north african LOL) so we definitely share the same problems. I just thought it was funny that a family member would casually say something like that.

Again, extended family member. I didn’t even know who the fuck they were and one of them could barely speak our language.

At least they call you ugly to your face. I don't think that ever happened to me.

That’s because you’re NOT fucking ugly. This just gave me highschool PTSD. Nothing new. It only hurts because I’ve done my best to cut ties with everyone and everything only to avoid this and yet, they keep finding a way to hate me because of something outside of my control.

People always say it under their breath or when talking to each other behind my back.

That’s also true.

 

[Celasius]

At least you responded well, I was left speechless after a visiting relative randomly called me a midget.

Oh my heart skipped a beat for a second (cause again, it was out of nowhere and shit like this hurts when all your miseries revolve around it) but surprisingly, despite probably being autistic, I’m very socially calibrated and can somewhat manage small conflicts / quarrels without making a complete fool out of myself.

 

[Incedel]

Oh my heart skipped a beat for a second (cause again, it was out of nowhere and shit like this hurts when all your miseries revolve around it) but surprisingly, despite probably being autistic, I’m very socially calibrated and can somewhat manage small conflicts / quarrels without making a complete fool out of myself.

You gotta go, if even your family does that then its ovER, people intrinsic hate for uggos makes it impossible for them to function properly

 

[Celasius]

This also happened to me, in a similar situation. Loved to play L4D2 with my cousins in my Xbox 360, then as we grew older they started to dislike me more and more and kept up the facade.
It took an outsider to put them on the spot and ask them to tell me how they "really feel" about me. He said "tell him what you were saying earlier". They were embarrassed and tried to pretend it was nothing, but I got the message. That same outsider fucking hated me. Called me a fag in front of everyone and said no one likes me. And I didn't say a word back.

I’m used to “friends” treating me like this that’s why I don’t mind being lonely anymore. What puts salt on my wound is how this one was just out of the blue. These fuckers of whom I have no idea who they were came out of nowhere, most likely gave me Covid, told me I’m ugly, laughed it off for how low my family has stooped and then called it a day and I feel powerless because of it. It’s boiling me like nothing else right now.

people intrinsic hate for uggos makes it impossible for them to function properly

Yup, yup, yup. They can’t NOT comment on it. They just HAVE to let you know. I felt like the guy wanted to come for me at every second. Like there was some tension from the very beginning. It’s like he wanted to kill me and I barely even spoke any words.

Fuck this life.

 

[Incedel]

Yup, yup, yup. They can’t NOT comment on it. They just HAVE to let you know. I felt like the guy wanted to come after me. Like there was some tension from the very beginning. It’s like he wanted to kill me and I barely even spoke any words.

Fuck this life.

It really is strange, I was bullied for having a fucked up lazy eye in middle school and I always thought to myself why are THEY mad because I am ugly, normoids are fucking retarded mang

 

[Black Soul]

Just fuck her

 

[psyop]

I’ve been called a pussy, gay, short, black, retarded, autistic, yet nothing compares to the anger/despair of being called ugly. I’ve been called it 1000+ times in my 18 years of living and I still haven’t become desensitised to it.

The worst bit about being called ugly is when it happens randomly. A few times I’ve been having arguments with my friends and in the back of my mind I’m always waiting for it, one of the few insults that there are zero comebacks for and you just have to take it in the chin. But someone’s they’ll blurt it out randomly because they knew I wouldn’t do anything.

Unfortunately it was unavoidable for you but I get the privilege of being able to avoid family members like this. Only contacting you because it’s a form of entertainment in their eyes to see how bad you’re doing. This is why I’ve blocked most of my family and relatives.

 

[ZomoZawk]

Soooooooo…… this just happened.

My very extended family (my mother’s second cousins), who I’ve had no contact with prior to this moment in my life and who apparently had COVID BY THE WAY, dropped by unannounced all the way from a fucking western country in the middle of the day, and so naturally, my first instinct was to panic because I was like oh shit, it’s probably the glowies, it’s over, but my mom knew them, so I was in the clear, or so I thought.

5 minutes after our first chitchat, this 6’4” fat fuck looks at me, and completely, out of FUCKING nowhere, unsarcastically says something between these lines:

So, Celasius, what’s up with the nose? Why did it have to be so big? And did you have to not shave those you patchy beards of yours? It reminds me of [insert a super stereotypical group of middle-eastern people who are well-known for being ugly] honestly.

I responded, politely:

I’m not the best-looking guy there is and had it not been for you unexpectedly visiting us, I’d have made an effort to my looks and might just have shaved my facial hair too.

And then they laughed it off.

I didn’t speak a single word afterwards.

Jesus fuck man. What would I have to give for people to stop commenting on it? Holy shit dude, like HOLY FUCK. What the fuck do you want of me??? I’ve cut every single connection with every human being I’ve known outside of my immediate family and yet, these fucking people come out of nowhere and just keep pulling me back into that hell I try to escape everyday. I swear to fucking God, I’m manically typing this out and am contemplating some VERY disturbing thoughts and I feel like exploding.

At this point, no matter how hard I try to avoid them, they’ll do their best to somehow find another way to humiliate me. Why can’t they just leave me alone?

Why can’t you just leave me alone????

Kill him

Also same thing happens to me I got told I look homeless

 

[IncelsNeverCry]

The solution is to never talk to the fuckface ever again in the future

 

[Epedaphic]

Helicopter_backpack.jpg, every single fucking time

My first instinct reading your post is that he knew about you and he’s somehow jealous of you (maybe education?), or wanted to put you down to feel better about his own situation that has something wrong with it, and wanted to take a jab at you where he knew he could hurt you.

Even though they’re distant relatives, since they knew roughly where your mother lived, it makes me think they also know something about you and your situation. What I’ve learned from my own family (not from the west) is that family talks a LOT of shit. Even extended family that I have seen once or twice in my life, if I run into them every 10 years or something they’ll start asking me about this and that as if they’re caught up on my life. So I’m guessing that even though you’ve cut a lot of family out of your life, they still know about you. Just none of them are pieces of shit (or big enough pieces of shit?) to do what this guy did.

The ONLY REASON THEY VISIT YOU IS TO JUST SEE HOW LOW YOU HAVE FALLEN AS AN INDIVIDUAL.

They just probably wanted to look at our poorfag life and feel good about themselves just like the rest of the normie world.

This is a big possibility. Honestly, fuck that guy. He sounds like a piece of human trash. I don’t know what kind of adult holds onto a grudge like that and takes it out on a family member no less, what a fucking child.

 

[der_komische]

Helicopter_backpack.jpg, every single fucking time

My first instinct reading your post is that he knew about you and he’s somehow jealous of you (maybe education?), or wanted to put you down to feel better about his own situation that has something wrong with it, and wanted to take a jab at you where he knew he could hurt you.

Even though they’re distant relatives, since they knew roughly where your mother lived, it makes me think they also know something about you and your situation. What I’ve learned from my own family (not from the west) is that family talks a LOT of shit. Even extended family that I have seen once or twice in my life, if I run into them every 10 years or something they’ll start asking me about this and that as if they’re caught up on my life. So I’m guessing that even though you’ve cut a lot of family out of your life, they still know about you. Just none of them are pieces of shit (or big enough pieces of shit?) to do what this guy did.



This is a big possibility. Honestly, fuck that guy. He sounds like a piece of human trash. I don’t know what kind of adult holds onto a grudge like that and takes it out on a family member no less, what a fucking child.

 

[MillionBashStream97]

Making them realize and feel that you aren't invested in that interaction, would have been better then replying at all.

Not criticizing you here, because I would have dealt with that situation in a really bad, not polite at all way.
You did, so genuine props to you for being better and more mature then that fucking scumbag.

But again, saying a really apathetic "Okay" and going back to doing your thing, would have made them feel awful, even if they didn't show it.

Is like a bully pushing around in a hallway at school, and you just keep walking, not even acknowledging his existence.
The person who will come off pathetic in that interaction, is them. They are invested, you are not. Bullies HATE being ignored more then anything.

Of course, stabbing that bully in the mouth, or stepping on that cunts tongue until it pops would have been what they deserved.

But as we all know, the dogs are not allowed to bite back.

 

[greggymex7]

you know what you must do...

 

[GhostedPhantom]

I don’t usually wish this upon anyone

And you shouldn't. If they just die, they won't have time to feel the suffering they've caused.

 

[Celasius]

Helicopter_backpack.jpg, every single fucking time

It’s such an effortless way to break you too. No matter how hard you cope by telling yourself “maybe looks aren’t truly everything, maybe I can survive for just being ugly,” you’re gonna get whipped and sent straight back to that mental hellhole in a matter of time.

My first instinct reading your post is that he knew about you and he’s somehow jealous of you (maybe education?), or wanted to put you down to feel better about his own situation that has something wrong with it, and wanted to take a jab at you where he knew he could hurt you.

Even though they’re distant relatives, since they knew roughly where your mother lived, it makes me think they also know something about you and your situation.

That’s true, but I had never met them eye to eye. I don’t have a lot to show for compared to them obviously, so I can’t really imagine why they’d be envious of someone like me but nonetheless, very good observation and thank you for taking the time to write this, you didn’t have to.

This is a big possibility. Honestly, fuck that guy. He sounds like a piece of human trash.

The thing is though, many people have implied that I’m ugly one way or another and if I go around and call them all garbage human beings then might as well put that on everyone in the world but regardless, the guy was immature to say the least for someone of his age.

Making them realize and feel that you aren't invested in that interaction, would have been better than replying at all.

I don’t let people hurt me like that anymore but I was being the host in this one, so I didn’t really have any other option than to take it and try handling it professionally.

You did, so genuine props to you for being better and more mature than that fucking scumbag.

Thanks man.

But again, saying a really apathetic "Okay" and going back to doing your thing, would have made them feel awful, even if they didn't show it.

The panic took in and I felt the need to respond back immediately but you’re absolutely right. Should’ve treated them more fairly.