"go to an event" and "try to make friends"

[turbocuckcel_7000]

how this goes
- if you make an approach to chat with someone it's never reciprocated, maybe one out of ten
- the ugly, punkish foids ignore you at all costs, then again they're always too ugly anyway (4+ women do not hang out in autist/tech/nerd/"off" circles)
- some weird stoned older guy strikes up a convo with you where he tries poorly to make you look like an idiot
- the 2-3 people you know are mostly too busy to babysit your ass and constantly leave and you have to force yourself not to follow them like a lost puppy
- the weird self-deprecating fat guy totally bamboozles you by yelling 2 year old memes endlessly without inhibition and reciting 3 minute long "funny songs", while others laugh nervously but basically approve (path of least resistance to not ignore or blow off someone who puts in that much effort)
- the host is interested and loves to talk to you but other more important people don't let you get more than 10 seconds with him at a time
- just get blown away at how supposed "normies" vastly prefer to let a conversation thread die and sit there awkwardly staring straight ahead leaning against something, rather than reconnect or bring up something new themselves. just to avoid talking to someone they don't already know well.
- everyone you connected with or knew has left before you and you're left sitting alone in a mob of people all talking to themselves, making it extremely awkward to leave / say goodbye unless you're going to just slink out of there

 

[ldargoblin]

- some weird stoned older guy strikes up a convo with you where he tries poorly to make you look like an idiot

Fuck this happened to me several times. One time some old cuck called me a faggot for no reason.

 

[IronMike]

Described going to house parties perfectly.

 

[Gokugetem]

Making friends as a man is tough, especially after college. The only way I found that works is if you always foot the bill or if they can use you to meet/hookup with women, and even then the former is very iffy. Most guys these days seem to either spend time exclusively with their gfs/family or spend time orbiting women or hooking up.

 

[Cuyen]

Events are for Chads and foids unless it is a event Incels going ER together

 

[StaroRavager]

- the weird self-deprecating fat guy totally bamboozles you by yelling 2 year old memes endlessly without inhibition and reciting 3 minute long "funny songs", while others laugh nervously but basically approve (path of least resistance to not ignore or blow off someone who puts in that much effort)

Those are among the worst kinds of people

 

[Words2_live_bye]

Yeah, i go to events ...
*cries in corner as even going to the store makes me want death

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

Those are among the worst kinds of people

i think i've figured out what makes them tick though. if you're just some guy saying something or trying to start a discussion in brief then it's very easy to ignore you. but if some guy makes that big of a deal then it's literally the path of least resistance to tell that guy that yes he is funny.
(also helps to be some giant fat guy instead of a framelet)

maybe something could be learned from this

 

[Deleted member 14577]

Everybody that goes to events already has friends. You rarely see someone alone there, it's always in groups.

 

[Rice Cel]

What kind of event is this

 

[Blacktarpill]

I like my existing friends.

 

[acnescarcel]

whenever i rarely go to social events i don't even try anymore i just sit in the corner glaring and getting as fucked up as i can

 

[Deleted member 126]

I've been going to concerts by myself for years and I've never made any friends doing this.

 

[Unzöl]

 

[Ritalincel]

tbh

 

[Bronzehawkattack]

I've never been invited to a party, even when I had friends they just wouldn't invite me anywhere

 

[ShadowMonk]

some weird stoned older guy strikes up a convo with you where he tries poorly to make you look like an idiot

Made many friends this way. Sorry if you found me belittling.

 

[kekboi]

- the 2-3 people you know are mostly too busy to babysit your ass and constantly leave and you have to force yourself not to follow them like a lost puppy

This is the worst feeling at events like this. Your mates just walk over to someone you don't know and you are left to talk to the other weirdos at the party. Which in turn makes you even more unattractive to the girls there.

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

tbh

Made many friends this way. Sorry if you found me belittling.

too next level technique for me.

What kind of event is this

it doesn't really matter. a thing where people go to present stuff they've worked on, talk bs and drink beer. mostly the latter

 

[StaroRavager]

i think i've figured out what makes them tick though. if you're just some guy saying something or trying to start a discussion in brief then it's very easy to ignore you. but if some guy makes that big of a deal then it's literally the path of least resistance to tell that guy that yes he is funny.
(also helps to be some giant fat guy instead of a framelet)

maybe something could be learned from this

Possibly, though I don’t think this tactic will get us very far. Most of the time those kinds of people are barely tolerated. They can hang on the outskirts when others are forced to be around them, but he won’t be invited to any outings by his group

 

[Mainländer]

Making friends is not hard, but you have to already have some to begin with.

 

[RageAgainstTDL]

I am always blown away reading the stories of good looking people who say, "Just go out to a club alone. I just stand by the bar and then someone talks to me and I'm part of their group." I have even heard this from "incels" on this site who claim to be autistic but handsome.

It's really insane. I half believe it's true. I mean it's hard to believe completely because it's so different from anything I could ever experience in life. Imagine that.

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

I am always blown away reading the stories of good looking people who say, "Just go out to a club alone. I just stand by the bar and then someone talks to me and I'm part of their group." I have even heard this from "incels" on this site who claim to be autistic but handsome.

It's really insane. I half believe it's true. I mean it's hard to believe completely because it's so different from anything I could ever experience in life. Imagine that.

Yeah, no... people will constantly drift away from you if you have any one weakness...whether it's looks/sociability/familiarity

The only good thing about going to this event is i'm getting a little better at knowing what to bring up, it seems like discussing anything even remotely critical/negative with normies is a nonstarter. and anything that invites comparison is also deadly, as you're likely to find out the raggily-dressed guy you're talking to about jobs/etc actually mogs you into another solar system, ruining the interaction

 

[Actually Autistic]

how this goes
- if you make an approach to chat with someone it's never reciprocated, maybe one out of ten
- the ugly, punkish foids ignore you at all costs, then again they're always too ugly anyway (4+ women do not hang out in autist/tech/nerd/"off" circles)
- some weird stoned older guy strikes up a convo with you where he tries poorly to make you look like an idiot
- the 2-3 people you know are mostly too busy to babysit your ass and constantly leave and you have to force yourself not to follow them like a lost puppy
- the weird self-deprecating fat guy totally bamboozles you by yelling 2 year old memes endlessly without inhibition and reciting 3 minute long "funny songs", while others laugh nervously but basically approve (path of least resistance to not ignore or blow off someone who puts in that much effort)
- the host is interested and loves to talk to you but other more important people don't let you get more than 10 seconds with him at a time
- just get blown away at how supposed "normies" vastly prefer to let a conversation thread die and sit there awkwardly staring straight ahead leaning against something, rather than reconnect or bring up something new themselves. just to avoid talking to someone they don't already know well.
- everyone you connected with or knew has left before you and you're left sitting alone in a mob of people all talking to themselves, making it extremely awkward to leave / say goodbye unless you're going to just slink out of there

Describes my experiences fairly accturately. I sense that I’m not that welcomed on this forum but I can share some tips on how to “get out there” for those curious

1. Meetup.com groups: simplest way to meet new people (including jap and korean girls) if that’s your thing. The major disadvantage to this is getting cockblocked by the equal or greater number of men in that group. Another disadvantage to meetup is if you go too often you’ll bump into the same people over and over.

2. RSD inner circle Facebook groups: They desperatelu hand out guest list to nighttime event attenders

3. WhatsApp groups: You find this by meeting people from the RSD inner circle

4. Festivals such as pride parade and other summer happenings

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

Describes my experiences fairly accturately. I sense that I’m not that welcomed on this forum but I can share some tips on how to “get out there” for those curious

1. Meetup.com groups: simplest way to meet new people (including jap and korean girls) if that’s your thing. The major disadvantage to this is getting cockblocked by the equal or greater number of men in that group. Another disadvantage to meetup is if you go too often you’ll bump into the same people over and over.

2. RSD inner circle Facebook groups: They desperatelu hand out guest list to nighttime event attenders

3. WhatsApp groups: You find this by meeting people from the RSD inner circle

4. Festivals such as pride parade and other summer happenings

thanks, every little bit helps

 

[RREEEEEEEEE]

What kind of events are you talking about?

 

[Deleted member 60]

yeah I've been there. It worked out eventually.
You might realize that friends are overrated though.

whenever i rarely go to social events i don't even try anymore i just sit in the corner glaring and getting as fucked up as i can

legit advice.

 

[SA incel life]

Yep you go to that social event then you see that girl then you strike up a conersation. Her friends will stare and comment on that situation(black girls are super aggresive and vocal with this) the girls will start to gossip and giggle and as soon as the word "creepy" enters any conversation about you then your entire social reputation in the entire social circle will be ruined

 

[Izayacel]

how this goes
- if you make an approach to chat with someone it's never reciprocated, maybe one out of ten
- the ugly, punkish foids ignore you at all costs, then again they're always too ugly anyway (4+ women do not hang out in autist/tech/nerd/"off" circles)
- some weird stoned older guy strikes up a convo with you where he tries poorly to make you look like an idiot
- the 2-3 people you know are mostly too busy to babysit your ass and constantly leave and you have to force yourself not to follow them like a lost puppy
- the weird self-deprecating fat guy totally bamboozles you by yelling 2 year old memes endlessly without inhibition and reciting 3 minute long "funny songs", while others laugh nervously but basically approve (path of least resistance to not ignore or blow off someone who puts in that much effort)
- the host is interested and loves to talk to you but other more important people don't let you get more than 10 seconds with him at a time
- just get blown away at how supposed "normies" vastly prefer to let a conversation thread die and sit there awkwardly staring straight ahead leaning against something, rather than reconnect or bring up something new themselves. just to avoid talking to someone they don't already know well.
- everyone you connected with or knew has left before you and you're left sitting alone in a mob of people all talking to themselves, making it extremely awkward to leave / say goodbye unless you're going to just slink out of there

societal game is bullshit nonsence

 

[randomloli]

If you're not attractive or have insane charisma you're gonna be invisible/ignored at any "event".