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"Go see a therapist"

Zyros

Zyros

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I fucking HATE this "advice" so much. SO FUCKING MUCH.

So you are ugly  and get bullied for it trough all your formative years, ending socially crippled, and you should then see a therapist because there is something wrong you did right?

I had this manlet short friend with OK normie face but very short. He was treated with less respect than his peers all his life and bullied at several points of his life. Grew up full of insecurities and he was often told to go to therapy to get better at life. 

At around age 18-19 he hit an instanely fast growth spurt, in like 2 months he got to normie around average height. In the 1 month following, I repeat, in the span of 1 SINGLE MONTH I saw how he suddenly got some nice circles of true friends, was suddenly respected, not bullied anymore, and had a girlfriend. He achieved in 1 single month what he couldn't in 15 years just because some inches of height. Its fucking ridiculous how looks dictate your life. So much for "therapy" when his issue for everything in life was looks. Oh and his personality didn't change, he didn't get konfidunt suddenly. Of course at first he was happy he was growing but he still mintained all the rest of his personality traits, since someone who's been incel trough all formative years doesn't recover that fast suddenly.


The only therapy that works is your looks getting better. Anything else is a scam.
 
you are right, but you are a fucking chad
 
Of course you had to fucking join.
 
Why would anyone even bother seeing a therapist? They are only there to limit you, and prevent you from seeing and seeking truths. Just like weed, the true purpose of "therapy" is to keep you docile. 
&
What are the going rates for "therapy" sessions? I'm not for, it just wondering.
 
No, not this guy.

Anyway the purpose of therapy for incels is to diffuse our anger so we don't become a threat to anyone. There is no other purpose.
 
PLEASE PLEASE BAN THIS GUY I BEG YOU
 
Most things considered "mental illness" these days are just the brains natural response to outside stimuli. We aren't the ones who need to change, society is. Therapy is a meme to exploit disenfranchised men and normalfags who broke up with their girlfriend and think they're "depressed". They also try to brainwash you if you don't think like they do. Meds are a meme too, most of the time they just hand them out to make a profit, and if you actually have mental problems they do little to help. They sedate you which slows everything in your head so they can claim it helps stop the unnatural thoughts. The side effects are terrible too. I've been going to therapy and have been taking meds for almost a decade for schizophrenia and the only thing it's done is take away my right to own a gun; don't waste your time and money with them unless you really want someone to talk too
 
Angry_runt said:
No, not this guy.

Anyway the purpose of therapy for incels is to diffuse our anger so we don't become a threat to anyone. There is no other purpose.

Yes but its not about becoming a threat. People don't see incels as a big threat. What is the real threat is society in general (incels and noncels) becoming extremely aware of the true reachs of lookism. Nowadays people think that "looks matter for dating of course" but what people don't see consciously is that they matter for EVERYTHING in life and can mean the difference between a very good life and a very bad one even if your starting point, money and education is exactly the same.
 
In my experience, the average charge of a therapist starts at around $80, per session. They can't solve the outside factors that cause mental stress to begin with. You can spend a decade there, it won't solve a shitty financial situation or a lack of reliable friends.

I've been there If you don't enjoy someone being paid to give you platitudes, you're better off just spending that money on hobbies or good food or whatever will make you happier.
 
It's ridiculous how being taller can make your life better in every way. Look is 40% height.
 
Most shrinks are woemen these days.
 
spergcel said:
It's ridiculous how being taller can make your life better in every way. Look is 40% height.

wouldn't say so. This dude had a pretty OK normie face + truly subhuman height.

If he was uglier height wouldn't save him. If he was goodlooking, below average height woudl be ok.

This dude just was really really really short.


Gunnage said:
In my experience, the average charge of a therapist starts at around $80, per session. They can't solve the outside factors that cause mental stress to begin with. You can spend a decade there, it won't solve a shitty financial situation or a lack of reliable friends.

I've been there If you don't enjoy someone being paid to give you platitudes, you're better off just spending that money on hobbies or good food or whatever will make you happier.

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holy shit what a scam
 
thank god i didnt go and see that psychiatrist bitch i planned, have no more capacity for useless bluepill bullshit
 
Therapy will be used always against you, not to benefit you.
 
Zyros said:
wouldn't say so. This dude had a pretty OK normie face + truly subhuman height.

If he was uglier height wouldn't save him. If he was goodlooking, below average height woudl be ok.

This dude just was really really really short.



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holy shit what a scam



How short are we talking about here?
 
So Zyrros, it's universally agreed upon that you are above average looking and thus you are treated as such in social situations.

So then, when is your head going to get fixed and start becoming NT? You've had sex with a dozen of different girls, but you still don't approach any. You've been approached for a modelling career, but you're still not running major social circle game.

If looks fixes your mental problems, when is it gonna work for u?
 
SlayOrDie said:
So Zyrros, it's universally agreed upon that you are above average looking and thus you are treated as such in social situations.

So then, when is your head going to get fixed and start becoming NT? You've had sex with a dozen of different girls, but you still don't approach any. You've been approached for a modelling career, but you're still not running major social circle game.

If looks fixes your mental problems, when is it gonna work for u?

A phat cawk
 
Zyros is correct. Normalfag's see the world as a contractual agreement where one acts good and receives validation, sex, and friendships. They can't understand that the way you act is a RESULT of how you are treated. They think your insecurities are some weird, in-born thing instead of a result of your environment

Also, all these faggots saying to Ban Zyros can fuck off. He provides good blackpill material. Also, READ THE FUCKING RULES IT SAYS BLACKPILLED NORMIES ARE ALLOWED. jesus christ
 
ER went to therapy, look how it turned out for him.

I underwent YEARS of therapy myself, didn't help since my entire depression is based on a single factor - inceldom.
 
Zyros I was legitimately about to post a thread telling you to get on psych meds LOL.

Per your description you don't try at all, don't give a shit about your appearance, yet you still get approached, by Spanish women we statecels would kill for.

Quit your emo crying and go slay dawg. For your own good. And try some goddamn pills if you haven't yet.
 
I honestly believe life coaching is more effective than therapy for incels since life coaching is actually based on pragmatic approaches to our problems. The life coach can actually help you give the kind of direction you need to help you achieve the goals that are important for you. And you can confide in a life coach as well, let off some steam. A therapist is mostly just for overly emotional middle aged women who just want a shoulder to cry on.
 
Minjaze said:
ER went to therapy, look how it turned out for him.

I underwent YEARS of therapy myself, didn't help since my entire depression is based on a single factor - inceldom.


this..


therapists dont understand the main reason why you're depressed, they have to lie and do so much mental gymnastics.

deep down you cant change genetics. wish i was taller and had a decent frame, but i cant so thats why im rotting away. if i had those characteristics i wouldn't be so fucking depressed in the first place. i know its not my face cause i get dates with girls but once they see my subhuman frame its over, they make up some bullshit excuse to leave early.
 
Therapy is a useless meme. It's filled with dumb femoids who hate you for being a subhuman. It is absolutely useless and designed for the female mind while being utterly ineffective for autistic males like me and many people on this board.
 
ive been to therapy. it was the biggest waste of time ever.
 
Therapy is paying someone to pretend to care about your problems.
 
IF you are told that you are probably ugly. I would rather see an escort even though they are dirty crackwhores with aids.
 
i've been to couple of therapists, can confirm that your problems arent your fault and middle aged women, who grew in different social era wont ever understand your male problems. its that brutal and simple.
 

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