Venting Giving up on improving

[Visionary]

I used to think I could escape the fate of being an incel by “improving myself”. No matter how much better i eat it won’t improve how i look, no matter how i try to style my hair it won’t improve my looks, and no matter how hard i try to clear my skin it won’t improve my looks. It’s gotten to the point where i genuinely avoid looking at mirrors and i get insanely jealous and anyone who looks attractive. I don’t know why i was cursed like this. and i hate when people say “just give it time bro. it takes time to improve” I HAVE BEEN TRYING FOR ONE AND A HALF YEARS NOW i still have acne and a chubby face. because of the way i was predestined to look and because of how isolated i am my social skills are horrible and any hope of talking to girls is gone. there’s no point of trying anymore i give up and i accept my fate

 

[Esoteric7]

Your existence here is faster than the blink of an eye

 

[FastBlast]

Based. Give up on real women and embrace the cunny

 

[Xul]

Yea its a waste of time

 

[craniofacialcel]

You failed the heightcheck

 

[Visionary]

Based. Give up on real women and embrace the cunny

cunny is life

 

[anon65]

I have had acne since age 14 and it has never left me. This shit is a curse, as bad as going bald. Maybe worse because there are some attractive bald guys but zero attractive guys with acne.

 

[glutty]

Based. Give up on real women and embrace the cunny

 

[Epedaphic]

Only reason I improve is to feel and be healthier. That way I can have more time to experience things like touhou and blue archive, and I can feel better (more focused, more present) while doing so.

 

[Visionary]

I have had acne since age 14 and it has never left me. This shit is a curse, as bad as going bald. Maybe worse because there are some attractive bald guys but zero attractive guys with acne.

right and it dosent help that every treatment for acne just ends up worsening my skin

 

[Sewer Stomper]

I don't even comb my hair anymore lol
Btw i colonize your thread for the sewers

 

[theanty]

 

[Visionary]

Only reason I improve is to feel and be healthier. That way I can have more time to experience things like touhou and blue archive, and I can feel better (more focused, more present) while doing so.

good reasoning, the only thing that really motivates me each day is spending more time on anime/games that i like so i can see where your coming from

 

[TooSomething]

One and a half years is NOTHING, you fool.

For every cell in your body it takes between five to seven years to be replaced.
As for the skeleton, it takes 17, afaik.

So, yes, you will have to have A LOT OF patience.

Eat right, mild workouts, eat chewy meat to help your Jaw to ddevelop, for example.

To work on your posture I'd recommend sleeping on the floor with a cushion under your knees.

Anyway, there is way more, but honestly, you seem too lazy and you sound like a kid.

 

[ApocalypticKrieg666]

To work on your posture I'd recommend sleeping on the floor with a cushion under your knees.

You have to be trolling

 

[Failed Pullout]

"Self Improvement" Is mostly just a cope even if a dude who's genuinely attractive has skin issues or whatever foids will just ignore them. It's just softmaxxing not really significant.

 

[TooSomething]

You have to be trolling

No, you have to be trolling.

Sleeping on the floor is actually very good for active recovery also, as you can lay on the same side for hours.

Just like a dog that sleeps on the floor and moves in different positions several times, so will you move in different positions during sleep to avoid pain.

I have been doing this for a while now and I need less sleep, which is always good.

 

[ApocalypticKrieg666]

No, you have to be trolling.

Sleeping on the floor is actually very good for active recovery also, as you can lay on the same side for hours.

Just like a dog that sleeps on the floor and moves in different positions several times, so will you move in different positions during sleep to avoid pain.

I have been doing this for a while now and I need less sleep, which is always good.

Self improvement makes no sense to me, I just do the bare minimum to survive in life anything more is pointless

 

[TooSomething]

Self improvement makes no sense to me, I just do the bare minimum to survive in life anything more is pointless

I do it for myself. So, I don't do it to look good for foids. Health is the main goal.

 

[Super Nigger Boy]

no improvement for your face

 

[ApocalypticKrieg666]

I do it for myself. So, I don't do it to look good for foids. Health is the main goal.

Well if it makes you happy that's cool. I have nothing against self improvement if it helps people cope, my only issue is when self improvers believe their lifestyle and mindset is superior and that everyone needs to follow it while criticizing other people's copes

 

[Overmaxxer]

I gave up a while ago

 

[lifeisfucked215]

Yeah I pretty much stopped trying too. Pretty hard to keep going when you get zero rewards out of it

 

[sadlemon]

You just have to shower more... oh, and also get a haircut.

Looks don't matter anyway, no wonder women don't give you chances if you think like that. You should work on your personality, sweetie.

 

[sub5_]

Self improvement won’t help you ascend but being healthy and exercising can make you happier overall so it may be worth doing