crew2
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This is one of the things that damages me the most. Girls aren't just picky about which guys they have a relationship/sex with they are picky about who they will even LOOK AT on the street, in the club, in the workplace, on the train etc.
The way social interaction works is if someone sees someone that they find attractive enough, they will LOOK AT THEM and then if that person looks back and smiles or holds eye contact then they know that person is interested and some sort of approach will be welcomed OR the returned look will give them validation and boost their confidence and self worth. If they don't give this look then that means they think the person isn't worth looking at or they don't want to give the person the impression that they are interested in them.
The problem with this is that women will not even look at a man unless he looks great no matter how shit the girl looks herself. I've see it countless times every single day - unattractive, fat and old females only looking at great looking guys and completely ignoring all others whether they be ugly average or even decent looking.
This causes the vast majority of men to feel like they are even more disgusting and worthless than they actually are. If girls looked and smiled at me on a regular basis I honestly don't think I' even give a shit about being alone because I would know that I was WORTH SOMETHING. At the moment I have no idea if I'm a 5 or a fucking 1 in women's eyes.
The way social interaction works is if someone sees someone that they find attractive enough, they will LOOK AT THEM and then if that person looks back and smiles or holds eye contact then they know that person is interested and some sort of approach will be welcomed OR the returned look will give them validation and boost their confidence and self worth. If they don't give this look then that means they think the person isn't worth looking at or they don't want to give the person the impression that they are interested in them.
The problem with this is that women will not even look at a man unless he looks great no matter how shit the girl looks herself. I've see it countless times every single day - unattractive, fat and old females only looking at great looking guys and completely ignoring all others whether they be ugly average or even decent looking.
This causes the vast majority of men to feel like they are even more disgusting and worthless than they actually are. If girls looked and smiled at me on a regular basis I honestly don't think I' even give a shit about being alone because I would know that I was WORTH SOMETHING. At the moment I have no idea if I'm a 5 or a fucking 1 in women's eyes.