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Cope "girlfriends or sex arent the big thing"

Rapistcel

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"I had my first girlfriend at 12 and lost my virginity at 14 but thats a coincidence :chad: "
 
"I had my first girlfriend at 12 and lost my virginity at 14 but thats a confidence :chad: "
Spoken like a man drowning in water, while others succumb to dehydration around him.
 
Spoken like a man drowning in water, while others succumb to dehydration around him.
Rich telling a homeless that the poor is poor because he wants to and that money doesnt matter .
 
It's very easy for them to tell us that when they do not know the depths of deprivation we do; they experience what we could only dream of as something ordinary, for they have access to affection and validation in abundance. In the same manner water is not something you direct much attention toward, they do not concern themselves with love as much, though, ironically, it still remains a central and pleasurable part of their lives.

People usually tell you "it's not a big thing" because they are accustomed to experiencing it, or are simply trying to shut you up, as no one is interested in watching the subhuman complain about the injustices he faces — he is a slave that deserves nothing, has no needs, and must not complain as he labors for society and suffers while others around him lead great lives.

The truth is that this need is fundamental, and one of the most basic ones past the basic physiological needs; it is a biological imperative — and when it is not fulfilled, your mind realizes that you have failed as a biological being. You have been rejected, invalidated, and deemed unworthy of the human experience; now it's time to die.
 
A desire for a partner who you find to be attractive is literally biologically wired into your brain. Failure to actualise this desire will lead to an internal discontent, the same way a child feels discontented when they are refused sweets. A child cannot cope with it due to their immaturity, but an adult can repress this desire into the unconscious, which in the long run will not turn out well for their psyche, leading to depression or internalised hatred of females and males who can get a partner (the fox proclaimed the grapes to be sour after failing to reach them).
So yeah, saying that getting a girlfriend is not important, is nonsensical cope and a lie.
 
"It's not that deep" they would implode within seconds, the depths some of us have had to endure for years.
 
It's a shame we can't force them to experience a year of our life. Just give them a taste of misery and sear it into their brain.
 
People who say that are also the type of person to say "looks dont matter"
 
"Money doesn't bring happiness" ahh sentence
 
“love’s not required for a good life”
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The problem isn't really involuntary celibacy. The problem is involuntary childlessness. It can get confusing because you need to have sex to reproduce, but that's the only reason sex matters. This is why legalizing prostitution isn't really the solution. The actual solution is to legalize commercial surrogacy, which is the only way we can reproduce. The focus obviously shouldn't be marriage either. Banning commercial surrogacy hurts incels because it prevents them from reproducing. Banning commercial surrogacy is a form of eugenics because it prevents ugly men from reproducing. Banning commercial surrogacy is immoral because it labels the God-given duty to reproduce as immoral. Even if you're against IVF, which I'm not, you can still support commercial surrogacy because it doesn't necessarily involve IVF.

The only reason research shows that marriage is good is because it produces offspring.

I also think banning abortion can be part of the solution in various ways. For starters, if people have more children, other people will want to have more to be normal. And if they want more, they'll have more reason to marry - to marry even incels. I also think that the idea behind banning abortion, the idea that children are blessings, when we change the culture, it will also make women want to reproduce more and give them reason to marry and reproduce - perhaps even with incels. If all the good men are taken, yet women want to reproduce so much, they might resort to marrying an incel.
 
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"I had my first girlfriend at 12 and lost my virginity at 14 but thats a coincidence :chad: "
I see this as a bell curve with normies and copers in the low IQ bracket and then - the enlightened incels at the opposite edge (talking about "sex isn't a big thing" phrase).
I am, as I can't cope or be wise about my situation, stuck in a midwit middleground, lonely and misguided by the world surrounding me. Not sure if I'd learn to accept this or ascend eventually
 
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The well fed will never understand the hungry.
 
People who say that are also the type of person to say "looks dont matter"
This is like stuff the rich say that money has no meaning to a person who is dying of hunger.
 
Water is a big deal to those that are dying of thirst
 
Never forget that 90% of the music that normoids listen to is about love or sex.
 
"I had my first girlfriend at 12 and lost my virginity at 14 but thats a coincidence :chad: "
It's all fornication anyway.
To hell with it
 

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