Discussion Getting over your Oneitis

[Villain]

Please start how close you are to your oneitis. Acquaintance? Friend? Classmate? Co-worker? Sister ?
Did you recover? How long did it take for you to recover? are you still thinking about her?
Did ur admiration(obsession for ugly male) move from one to another girl?
Share ways or things that helped you get over your oneitis
it'll be good if you are specific about it like (hobbies : staring at the wall )


Its normal to have oneitis if you are a heterosexual male dont act like you become assexual because you get exposed to blackpilled.
Im sure theres a lot of edgelords and famewhore here who's gonna say "hAvInG oNeITis iS cUCk brO" mostly there are the same people who are against escortcelling and probably gonna leave this site after 2 or 3 years of trying to be famous in this site or just gonna die bitter and resentful because they refused to do anything that will help them cope to the suffering of life itself
(JFL wanting to be famous in an incel site u wont be attractive to girls even if u get to the top of fame hierarchy here if ur face is unattractive to begin with. unless you face mog and exposure mog the fakecel brendioeee )

 

[Angry_runt]

The leading cause of oneitis is hope, once you let go of hope you won't be having oneitis.

 

[Pengwin]

Didn't have one

 

[Words2_live_bye]

Please start how close you are to your oneitis. Acquaintance? Friend? Classmate? Co-worker? Sister

met her on Omegle tbh, not in video chat, text chat, only ever knew her online

Did you recover? How long did it take for you to recover? are you still thinking about her?

i recovered pretty well, met her around 2 years ago, knew her for like 6 months then she ghosted me, i got over it pretty well
but occasionally i think back about her, to how bluepilled i was and how happy i was when i would talk with her. I still have her pics and tbh i sometimes think about how nice it would have been to fuck her. I haven't had a oneitis since lol, she blackpilled me too much and now i will never fall for it again

Did ur admiration(obsession for ugly male) move from one to another girl?

nope, like said earlier, i haven't had one since

Share ways or things that helped you get over your oneitis

tbh even though i kept her pics, i put them in a place that i basically never go to look in. I still keep them, i don't really know why, but i don't really look at them. tbh if you have oneitis just stop looking at her shit online, or stop talking to her irl. Or just delete any pics you have of her. Put your mind on other things, use your copes, anything to get over oneitis. The thing that will make you get over a oneitis the most though is if you are blackpilled directly through her

btw, i'm at least sane enough to admit this. i was the one who's fault this is. Not her's. I was the one who acted like a bluepilled cuck and thought i actually had a chance with her. I don't blame her tbh, she did nothing wrong (other than ghosting me) and i don't really care about what happens to her out there in the world. She was the first female to ever express a friendship (even if digital only, plus she never saw me) to me and that's why i fell for her. I literally never had female attention before, and getting it for the first time in my life made me think she liked me and that i had a chance. I was dead wrong.

btw if any lurking women are reading this, please don't lead on men. you need to be upfront. When you first meet a guy, if you don't like him or find him attractive, just blatantly tell him you are not romantically or sexually interested in him, it will save you a lot of time getting yelled at by him, and will save him from his feelings being crushed. If you don't understand why men do this to girls who never liked them at all, it's because majority of men NEVER get attention from women, so if they FINALLY do get some, even if little and just casual shit like being told "hi", then they think the girl likes them

 

[Deleted member 8353]

I haven't had a oneitis since I was about 14 jfl.

 

[Personalityinkwell]

i dont have oneitises anymore because I realize every girl has a fuck buddy or boyfriend AT ALL TIMES

 

[FastBananaCEO]

How the fuck do people have oneitis when they're blackpilled?

 

[DirtyCurryCell]

ur admiration(obsession for ugly male)

 

[Snowman888]

How the fuck do people have oneitis when they're blackpilled?

FUCKING THIS , oneitis is a fucking joke now for me

 

[vippnor]

The leading cause of oneitis is hope, once you let go of hope you won't be having oneitis.

 

[AnonAutist]

Time and gradually breaking off all communication if she friendzoned you after you tried to woe her. Don't torture yourself by sticking around, or by e-stalking her social media.

 

[Idotms]

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Didn't have one

 

[Coulan]

I never had one

 

[Deleted member 22685]

Too tired to write the full story, i just had a few of them hoped from one to the other after attempting to ask them out and failing. The last oneitis i had was before becoming blackpilled in like the end of 2018.

 

[radishman]

Cut contact immediately. Helps if you don't work/go to school with her. Don't see her or look at her social media she'll fade away.

Outta sight, outta mind.

Problem certain guys like speedloader have is they actively hang out with a foid who has told them straight up you're ugly.

Female friendship. LOL.

 

[FemoidsGTFO]

Sister

 

[shii410]

acquaintance. have been chronically obsessed with her for two years. causes me emotional turmoil on a daily basis, especially since she actually hates me. I've developed mild interests in other girls but my attention never fully "shifted" to anyone else

Im sure theres a lot of edgelords and famewhore here who's gonna say "hAvInG oNeITis iS cUCk brO"

yeah this is the thing. having a oneitis isn't really a conscious decision. it's like having an addiction or disorder

 

[Over_this_Life]

Had a oneitis long ago. Forgot all about her after i overheard her at work asking to suck a chadlite coworkers dick

 

[Atavistic Autist]

It's just a process of realizing that women are all the same, and one prostitute is no different than another.

 

[FrailPaleStaleMale]

Oneitis is brutal tbh. Only real cure is to not see them for a couple years or hear from them and let time sort it.

 

[ChinaCurry]

Mine was very recent. Fell in love with a noodle, even though she straight out told me I was ugly.
Due to recency still not over it, and still haunted she is out fucking white chads all day.

While the shit you all say is correct, it doesn't make it any harder to get over, even though I know it was cucked, it was retarded, and my place is here in the sewers with you guys, not out there having a good life with good relationships like modern media tells us, but it still sucks, and will suck each time it happens to us.