My parents are curry, very conservative and actually prefer me living at home where they can monitor me.
For the first year of college they demanded I travel home on weekends (starting from Friday afternoon and returning Monday morning), which made it a lot harder for me to make friends as my college is 90 miles away from their house. They allowed me to stay on campus on weekends over my next two years there, but it wasn’t much point as you can’t start making good friend circles in your second year.
I moved back in with them for grad school because it was in the same city as where they live. This city is the main city in the country I live in (most other cities are left behind) and almost every successful career goes through this city, so I will likely continue to live with my parents after I graduate. They just won’t allow me moving out to somewhere in the same city because they insist it’s pointless for me to live somewhere other than their home in the same city, given their home is close to a stop on the main subway system so is good for commuting. My only option really to move out is to move to a city in another country like Canada or the United States, but that needs a work visa which you can usually only get after a few years of work in your home country (by which time I will be bald, based on my rapidly receding hairline).
I don’t think this situation is the reason for my incel status though, since I could easily just book an hourly hotel or something if I ever had a chance with a foid, and I have not had any success with women while staying in hotels during several trips across Europe and North America. But it has impacted my looksmaxing since they don’t allow me to make my own diet plans and also don’t want me going to gyms (they see it as a waste of time and suggest I just “run around the park instead”, not understanding the difference between muscle development and cardio).