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Serious Getting A Gf Would Solve Most of my Problems.

What else is on it?
A couple of other stuff but being incel is just another issue on top of others that I’ve faced. However it would fix a bit yea
 
A couple of other stuff but being incel is just another issue on top of others that I’ve faced. However it would fix a bit yea
Yeah I agree

Inceldom isn't the problem, it's another symptom & ties into other stuff or at least correlates strongly with it.
 
You come home to an empty apartment, crack open a soda, and there’s no one to share the little things with. It’s like you're walking through life, but something’s missing, something important.

And then you think about having a wife, like all fucking days. Not just anyone, but someone who’s there for you, who really gets you. Like, imagine waking up next to someone who actually sees you. Someone who looks at you like you're enough...
Exactly. We aren’t the heartless creatures that only want sex IT thinks we are. I want the love and companionship part just as much as I want sex. I’d take one loving long term gf over a new hookup every day all the time. I just want a woman to love me and to love back. I want someone to cuddle with while watching a movie. I want someone to lay in bed next to. I want someone to do fun stuff with
 
Agreed

Not even for someone to fuck, I mean also being able to just cuddle, have someone to talk with, etc.
Yep. It’s not just about the sex. It’s all the other loving little things
 
I've seen guys I know IRL, literally in front of me, talking with each other about how much having GFs had made their lives better, how it feels like they have no problems anymore because, no matter what happens, in the end they now have someone who loves and wants a future with them back home to cuddle with after however awful their days were, yet I'm supposed to believe that being in a relationship changes nothing:feelswhat::feelshaha:.
 
I don’t even need or want a gf, just having a normal social life would be enough to give me the motivation to solve my problems. But now I’m in my final year of cuckllege and haven’t been to a single party in my entire scholastic life, LOL. Giga over
 
Exactly. We aren’t the heartless creatures that only want sex IT thinks we are. I want the love and companionship part just as much as I want sex. I’d take one loving long term gf over a new hookup every day all the time. I just want a woman to love me and to love back. I want someone to cuddle with while watching a movie. I want someone to lay in bed next to. I want someone to do fun stuff with
Same here,

And I don't just want extremely promiscuous, degenerate sex like IT probably thinks: I may be somewhat addicted to porn, but I also still deep-down have a desire to just have a normal, loving, sexual session where we just look each other in the eyes.

:feelsrope::feelsrope::feelsrope:
I've seen guys I know IRL, literally in front of me, talking with each other about how much having GFs had made their lives better, how it feels like they have no problems anymore because, no matter what happens, in the end they now have someone who loves and wants a future with them back home to cuddle with after however awful their days were, yet I'm supposed to believe that being in a relationship changes nothing:feelswhat::feelshaha:.
:blackpill::feelsbadman::yes:

It's not even about the sex, it's just someone there for you when you've had a shit day- which for me is almost daily.
 
heck, even just being able to ascend & fuck a foid would probably be enough.

Unironically, this would solve a lot of my issues: Contrary to what IT will have us think, many of our issues are actually caused or heavily tied into what we endure through Inceldom.

I would start to have more of an optimistic take on my life: My failures within this life don't just revolve around me being Inkwell, it also is tied into the failures I've had in other stuff. If I was to ascend, and see success in this pure humanistic-need metric, I would have confidence I may be able to be successful within the workplace, socially, etc.

I would still have a relativity pessimistic view of society as a whole, yet I perhaps would think I may be able to survive the coming "happenings" more adequately, due to again some form of positive reinforcement in a basic human need

I would have motivation to push myself to self-improve: Work, academics, socially, physically, etc. I would actually have a much stronger drive to do as such. I would feel as if I could finally pull myself outside of this slump, with a new outlook & view upon life as a whole. Again, this would only be possible if I finally have a basic, human necessity met.

Not to mention, I'm sure(well, I know) that Inceldom has not doubt caused my other issues of anxiety, depression, etc. to spiral & increase gradually overtime.
Even if i got the girlfriend of my dreams, I would be too brain damaged and fucked up from years of rotting, missing out on friendships, teen love to even live a 100% satisfying life, I will forever need an extraordinary amount of care, aid and support to even face the damage and scars of inceldom.
 
I've seen guys I know IRL, literally in front of me, talking with each other about how much having GFs had made their lives better, how it feels like they have no problems anymore because, no matter what happens, in the end they now have someone who loves and wants a future with them back home to cuddle with after however awful their days were, yet I'm supposed to believe that being in a relationship changes nothing:feelswhat::feelshaha:.
It would be a HUGE FUCKING AID for my motivation and drive at every level, its a level of motivation to even do things and achieve your goals, no aspiration to have a material cope can give you.
 
I mean... you should have everything else in your life set up and taken care of before thinking of whores tbh. If you've got it all worked out, then sure.. if the last thing you want / need is a foid, I get it, makes sense. Just know it won't last long even if you got the hoe... since men no longer own them as property, they can monkey branch whenever and however they want. The privilege of foidom.
 
bookmarking because normalfags always deny that getting a gf will do anything for guys like us
 
Agreed

Not even for someone to fuck, I mean also being able to just cuddle, have someone to talk with, etc.
a foid I can talk to about all my problems, trauma, vent to without judgement, and I get a big warm hug, as her mature, seductive voice, tells me that it will be okay. :cryfeels: :cryfeels: :cryfeels: :cryfeels:
 
Exactly. We aren’t the heartless creatures that only want sex IT thinks we are. I want the love and companionship part just as much as I want sex. I’d take one loving long term gf over a new hookup every day all the time. I just want a woman to love me and to love back. I want someone to cuddle with while watching a movie. I want someone to lay in bed next to. I want someone to do fun stuff with
100% Truth right here
 
You come home to an empty apartment, crack open a soda, and there’s no one to share the little things with. It’s like you're walking through life, but something’s missing, something important.

And then you think about having a wife, like all fucking days. Not just anyone, but someone who’s there for you, who really gets you. Like, imagine waking up next to someone who actually sees you. Someone who looks at you like you're enough...
at this point, we are not even living, we are simply existing, surviving, because this is no life anyone should live.
 
I've seen guys I know IRL, literally in front of me, talking with each other about how much having GFs had made their lives better, how it feels like they have no problems anymore because, no matter what happens, in the end they now have someone who loves and wants a future with them back home to cuddle with after however awful their days were, yet I'm supposed to believe that being in a relationship changes nothing:feelswhat::feelshaha:.
its like the mere fact that you were sexually selected, deemed worthy by a foid of even her time, will always be a boost to motivation, to self-esteem, it would be constant lifefuel no matter how shitty your life is, it would motivate you to achieve your goals and do shit, it will be massive discouragement from any risky, dangerous or irresponsible behavior as well, there is a reason most actual street racers are sub5s and ethnicels, why? because they got nothing to lose, absolutely NOTHING, in our state, where you got nothing to lose, the biggest threat will be yourself, since you will do ANYTHING to cope or if it means the slimmest chance of ascension.
 
Agreed

Not even for someone to fuck, I mean also being able to just cuddle, have someone to talk with, etc.
If an all powerful put me to choose between getting this Camaro

View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tsr7TKGnsos&t=382s
or the girlfriend of my dreams, i would always choose the latter, why? there is no cope that substitutes love, love cannot be bought nor negotiated for, if you dont have it, it will forever be a void that will consume you until your death
 
heck, even just being able to ascend & fuck a foid would probably be enough.

Unironically, this would solve a lot of my issues: Contrary to what IT will have us think, many of our issues are actually caused or heavily tied into what we endure through Inceldom.

I would start to have more of an optimistic take on my life: My failures within this life don't just revolve around me being Inkwell, it also is tied into the failures I've had in other stuff. If I was to ascend, and see success in this pure humanistic-need metric, I would have confidence I may be able to be successful within the workplace, socially, etc.

I would still have a relativity pessimistic view of society as a whole, yet I perhaps would think I may be able to survive the coming "happenings" more adequately, due to again some form of positive reinforcement in a basic human need

I would have motivation to push myself to self-improve: Work, academics, socially, physically, etc. I would actually have a much stronger drive to do as such. I would feel as if I could finally pull myself outside of this slump, with a new outlook & view upon life as a whole. Again, this would only be possible if I finally have a basic, human necessity met.

Not to mention, I'm sure(well, I know) that Inceldom has not doubt caused my other issues of anxiety, depression, etc. to spiral & increase gradually overtime.
Same. Loneliness has a severe impact on mental health.
 
Same here,

And I don't just want extremely promiscuous, degenerate sex like IT probably thinks: I may be somewhat addicted to porn, but I also still deep-down have a desire to just have a normal, loving, sexual session where we just look each other in the eyes.
Yep. I have some ridiculous fetishes, but I just want love too
:blackpill::feelsbadman::yes:

It's not even about the sex, it's just someone there for you when you've had a shit day- which for me is almost daily.
Exactly. Having a loving gf would make things less shit and give you a reason to try in life
 
I've seen guys I know IRL, literally in front of me, talking with each other about how much having GFs had made their lives better, how it feels like they have no problems anymore because, no matter what happens, in the end they now have someone who loves and wants a future with them back home to cuddle with after however awful their days were, yet I'm supposed to believe that being in a relationship changes nothing:feelswhat::feelshaha:.
Having a gf would just make everything better. I’m confident that a loving and somewhat cute gf would make my life 10x better.
 
It’s even getting hard for me to enjoy stuff like bike rides anymore because I see everyone with their GFs and I have none
You cant even cope anymore at this point.
 

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