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PessimisticFailure

PessimisticFailure

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Self-improvement is a meme.  Do you really think that middle schooler that got his first gf in seventh grade had to talk to a therapist while confidently lifting and getting his hair cut in the shower for years in order to get a gf?  FUCK NO.
 
it does take effort, you have to go up and say hi
 
[video=youtube]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iv-5Lwyh86E[/video]
 
Most people work on themselves to get a BETTER QUALITY woman, not A woman.
 
PessimisticFailure said:
Self-improvement is a meme. Do you really think that middle schooler that got his first gf in seventh grade had to talk to a therapist while confidently lifting and getting his hair cut in the shower for years in order to get a gf? FUCK NO.

Yeah this concept of mutual attraction seems so alien because we had never experienced it
 
legit, you either have it or you don't. It's supposed to happen naturally.
 
mega cope

an excuse to do nothing
 
CopingGymcel said:
Most people work on themselves to get a BETTER QUALITY woman, not A woman.

LOL, says who. Can you read minds?
 
reminds of the we major

Feeling better than some head on a Sunday afternoon
Better than a chick that say yes to soon
Until you have a daughter, that's what I call karma
And you pray to god she don't grow breasts too soon.
 
Retarded analogy.
Some people are born into hyper-wealthy families and therefore don't have to think about earning money for the rest of their life. Does that mean people who are born into poor families should just NEET and LDAR all day? Sure if you're born with <70IQ(<4/10 looks), you have a point, but for the majority of people that is not the case.
 
PessimisticFailure said:
Self-improvement is a meme. Do you really think that middle schooler that got his first gf in seventh grade had to talk to a therapist while confidently lifting and getting his hair cut in the shower for years in order to get a gf? FUCK NO.
completely right. self-improvement is subhumans' coping. humans don't work this way.
 
LeagueEuW said:
Retarded analogy.
Some people are born into hyper-wealthy families and therefore don't have to think about earning money for the rest of their life. Does that mean people who are born into poor families should just NEET and LDAR all day? Sure if you're born with <70IQ(<4/10 looks), you have a point, but for the majority of people that is not the case.

This.
 
LeagueEuW said:
Retarded analogy.
Some people are born into hyper-wealthy families and therefore don't have to think about earning money for the rest of their life. Does that mean people who are born into poor families should just NEET and LDAR all day? Sure if you're born with <70IQ(<4/10 looks), you have a point, but for the majority of people that is not the case.


You just responded to a "retarded" analogy with an even more retarded analogy.

People who are born into poor families are MUCH MORE likely to stay poor for the rest of their lives. Unless the kid is a genius prodigy, they're going to go to a shitty school, get shitty education and then get a shitty job and be poor.

Do you think those rich people stayed rich because of some "magic self-improvement" force? Fuck no, they went to wealthy high-class schools which they could afford and then got a great education. It has jackshit to do with self-improvement, it's about having better stuff at your disposal. Same goes for dating, if you're ugly/autistic you're by default in a DISADVANTAGE, you're going to be constantly fighting the system trying to catch up for not having the stable foundation you should have gotten as a child. And guess what? You'll NEVER catch up.
 
flowerful said:
it does take effort, you have to go up and say hi

Chad doesn't even need to do that, Stacy will acknowledge him first.
 
"It doesn't take effort, just treat women like people bro" - chads
 
VLÖ said:
LeagueEuW said:
Retarded analogy.
Some people are born into hyper-wealthy families and therefore don't have to think about earning money for the rest of their life. Does that mean people who are born into poor families should just NEET and LDAR all day? Sure if you're born with <70IQ(<4/10 looks), you have a point, but for the majority of people that is not the case.
You just responded to a "retarded" analogy with an even more retarded analogy.
People who are born into poor families are MUCH MORE likely to stay poor for the rest of their lives. Unless the kid is a genius prodigy, they're going to go to a shitty school, get shitty education and then get a shitty job and be poor.
Do you think those rich people stayed rich because of some "magic self-improvement" force? Fuck no, they went to wealthy high-class schools which they could afford and then got a great education. It has jackshit to do with self-improvement, it's about having better stuff at your disposal. Same goes for dating, if you're ugly/autistic you're by default in a DISADVANTAGE, you're going to be constantly fighting the system trying to catch up for not having the stable foundation you should have gotten as a child. And guess what? You'll NEVER catch up.
this.
poor people without either exceptional intelligence or exceptional look should just LDAR. one with exceptional luck may live well, so those who don't LDAR are just trying their luck. and this fuels capitalists' power.
same is true for ugly people. ugly people without exceptional wealth or exceptional intelligence but didn't LDAR are trying their luck to betabux. and this fuels femoids' power.
 
VLÖ said:
People who are born into poor families are MUCH MORE likely to stay poor for the rest of their lives. Unless the kid is a genius prodigy, they're going to go to a shitty school, get shitty education and then get a shitty job and be poor.
I guess that's true in the eastern european shithole you're from, but in my country we have social mobility. Education is free and based on merit. 

Do you think those rich people stayed rich because of some "magic self-improvement" force? Fuck no, they went to wealthy high-class schools which they could afford and then got a great education. It has jackshit to do with self-improvement, it's about having better stuff at your disposal. Same goes for dating, if you're ugly/autistic you're by default in a DISADVANTAGE, you're going to be constantly fighting the system trying to catch up for not having the stable foundation you should have gotten as a child. And guess what? You'll NEVER catch up.
They generally stayed rich because they had high IQ, and their family were rich because of IQ. If they were stupid they'd just waste their money on drugs/party/hookers. IQ is one of the best predictors for wealth and success. Does that mean that if you have below-average to average IQ you should just give up and LDAR? No, you'll just have to work harder. Think the world is unfair?
Thats-a-Bingo.jpg

 
The only argument you can make for giving up is if you're dealt a really shit hand(<4/10, <80 IQ, autism).
But guess what, most incels are not hideous, legit autistic or stupid.


cthulhucel said:
this.
poor people without either exceptional intelligence or exceptional look should just LDAR. one with exceptional luck may live well, so those who don't LDAR are just trying their luck. and this fuels capitalists' power.
This place is so defeatist lmfao
 
it only takes efforts for normies and incels, chad doesnt need effort to acquire female.


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[video=youtube]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iv-5Lwyh86E[/video]
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LeagueEuW said:
cthulhucel said:
this.
poor people without either exceptional intelligence or exceptional look should just LDAR. one with exceptional luck may live well, so those who don't LDAR are just trying their luck. and this fuels capitalists' power.
This place is so defeatist lmfao
well, the real world doesn't permit defeatists to exist. there's more people who are forced to work like a slave just for food and rent and nothing else. i'm one of them.
 
LeagueEuW said:
I guess that's true in the eastern european shithole you're from, but in my country we have social mobility. Education is free and based on merit. 

Yeah, and your country is being assraped by migrants. Also that free education is going to be not as good anyway.

LeagueEuW said:
They generally stayed rich because they had high IQ, and their family were rich because of IQ. If they were stupid they'd just waste their money on drugs/party/hookers. IQ is one of the best predictors for wealth and success. Does that mean that if you have below-average to average IQ you should just give up and LDAR? No, you'll just have to work harder. Think the world is unfair?
Thats-a-Bingo.jpg

 
The only argument you can make for giving up is if you're dealt a really shit hand(<4/10, <80 IQ, autism).
But guess what, most incels are not hideous, legit autistic or stupid.


LOL @ this delusion.

It has nothing to do with IQ, they had access to good schools. It depends on your education and by lesser extend your genes.
People with low IQ generally went to shitty schools or have shitty genes. 

Does that mean that if you have below-average to average IQ you should just give up and LDAR? No, you'll just have to work harder. Think the world is unfair?


Right, because "working harder" will increase your IQ and fix your genetics. You know I'm starting to think you're the low-IQ person here. Most people don't LDAR because of low IQ, it's because no matter how hard they try NOTHING CHANGES. WORKING HARDER IS BULLSHIT. IT DOES NOT FUCKING WORK. You can delude yourself all your want "I'll just work harder! I'll just work harder! That will fix everything!" but nature doesn't give a shit. Your work is useless, everything is decided by what your childhood was like. You think those antelope who end up getting eaten by lions just "didn't work hard enough"? Just kys.

Poor people really don't give a shit about IQ anyway, they have other things they do (their parters, family, crimemaxxing).

The only argument you can make for giving up is if you're dealt a really shit hand(<4/10, <80 IQ, autism).

But guess what, most incels are not hideous, legit autistic or stupid.

And what did you base this on? The lookism fags? And you said yourself you're a "mentalcel", but you spew this garbage about "working harder"? Why do others have to do that and not yourself? 
inb4 "I'm a real autist! I have an excuse!" Eat your own pseudo-science before posting it here.
 
VLÖ said:
Yeah, and your country is being assraped by migrants. Also that free education is going to be not as good anyway.
Norway is not Sweden.
It has nothing to do with IQ, they had access to good schools. It depends on your education and by lesser extend your genes.
"Wealth having nothing to do with IQ"
LULULULULULULULUUL @ this retardation.

I cba to argue with this slavic mongoloid.
 
LeagueEuW said:
Norway is not Sweden.
"Wealth having nothing to do with IQ"
LULULULULULULULUUL @ this retardation.

I cba to argue with this slavic mongoloid.

I meant that IQ isn't something you just gain. They got wealthy because they either got lucky with ideas, went to prestigious schools and become lawyers, doctors etc or simply won the genetic lottery. You can't just decide "I'm going to increase my IQ!", it just doesn't work like that.

 Also Norway isn't doing that great either lmao, Oslo is a real shithole.
 
People who suffer for fruitless gains will be disappointed. At least I would be.
 
VLÖ said:
I meant that IQ isn't something you just gain. They got wealthy because they either got lucky with ideas, went to prestigious schools and become lawyers, doctors etc or simply won the genetic lottery. You can't just decide "I'm going to increase my IQ!", it just doesn't work like that.

 Also Norway isn't doing that great either lmao, Oslo is a real shithole.
JFL @ this strawman. When did i ever say anything about increasing IQ? I said you can work harder to compensate for lower IQ.

Oslo is a real shithole? Top fucking kek, boyo.
 
LeagueEuW said:
VLÖ said:
Yeah, and your country is being assraped by migrants. Also that free education is going to be not as good anyway.
Norway is not Sweden.
if i could live in a good welfared west europe country i would somewhat enjoy an incel life. how 'efforts' work is dependent on where you live.
i'm just unfortunate enough to born in a country where good looking or exceptional intelligence can certainly move people up to middle class but working harder definitely not. we've got a government that expertizes in suppressing hardworking average people.
 
LeagueEuW said:
JFL @ this strawman. When did i ever say anything about increasing IQ? I said you can work harder to compensate for lower IQ.

Oslo is a real shithole? Top fucking kek, boyo.

> work harder to compensate

See that's the point, you're not going to compensate shit lmao. You could work till your last drop of blood and you'd still be in the same shitty situation.

Also yeah, just like every other large western city.
 
Chads and normies are born, not made. Excellent post.
 
Self-improvement is masturbation. Now, self-destruction...
 
Chads and normies are born, not made. Excellent post.
 
Jockcel said:
Chads and normies are born, not made. Excellent post.

Site slow for you too?
 
LeagueEuW said:
Retarded analogy.
Some people are born into hyper-wealthy families and therefore don't have to think about earning money for the rest of their life. Does that mean people who are born into poor families should just NEET and LDAR all day? Sure if you're born with <70IQ(<4/10 looks), you have a point, but for the majority of people that is not the case.

that is an even worse analogy. have fun trying to work your way into a better bone structure.
 
knajjd said:
have fun trying to work your way into a better bone structure.
Should be easy. Getting custom jaw implants this summer.
 
LeagueEuW said:
Should be easy. Getting custom jaw implants this summer.

i'm sure that you'll be banging victoria's secret models in no time, sport. i'd say that you should leave us big boys with the blackpill and go back to r/theredpill or whatever self improvement cesspool whence you come.

i have to ask, what's up with the "mentalcel" label on your signature if you require surgery? seems to me you'd just be a regular ugly fuck in that case.
 
knajjd said:
i'm sure that you'll be banging victoria's secret models in no time, sport. i'd say that you should leave us big boys with the blackpill and go back to r/theredpill or whatever self improvement cesspool whence you come.
Plastic surgery is frowned upon @ r/theredpill.
You're just mad there's no fixing 5'2, lmao.


knajjd said:
i have to ask, what's up with the "mentalcel" label on your signature if you require surgery? seems to me you'd just be a regular ugly fuck in that case.
Didn't know plastic surgery was exclusive to ugly people :)
 
LeagueEuW said:
Plastic surgery is frowned upon @ r/theredpill.
You're just mad there's no fixing 5'4, lmao.
Didn't know plastic surgery was exclusive to ugly people :)

looksmax.net, then.

why do you think a good looking person would get plastic surgery? good looking people don't even think of getting plastic surgery and in fact try to discourage ugly people that are thinking of getting it because most don't even know of lookism. it's an alien concept. you've been treated poorly due to your looks, which led you to want plastic surgery. think before you write this garbage.

ah, did that really make you angry? i'm sorry for damaging your fragile ego, pal, but mentalcels really don't exist (unless you literally never go outside to do anything at all due to severe brain damage). females aren't giving you any attention because of your God forsaken looks, not beause you stutter while talking to them or dislike eye contact. on a Chad, these are cute features. on a subhuman like you, it's repulsive and creepy. 

why is it so often that i have to lecture people on LOOKS THEORY, here of all places? why does this place have so many believers in personality theory? have they no mirrors? have they no eyes to gaze upon their own faces?
 
knajjd said:
looksmax.net, then.

ah, did that really make you angry? i'm sorry for damaging your fragile ego, pal, but mentalcels really don't exist (unless you literally never go outside to do anything at all due to severe brain damage). females aren't giving you any attention because of your God forsaken looks, not beause you stutter while talking to them or dislike eye contact. on a Chad, these are cute features. on a subhuman like you, it's repulsive and creepy. 

why is it so often that i have to lecture people on LOOKS THEORY, here of all places? why does this place have so many believers in personality theory? have they no mirrors? have they no eyes to gaze upon their own faces?

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LeagueEuW said:

damn you got destroyed then just reply with a gif. fuck off this site and back to r/foreveralone
 
an uneducated rich person is more likely to rich than an educated poor person

that's how socioeconomics determine class, not really that difficult to understand
 
LeagueEuW said:
I guess that's true in the eastern european shithole you're from, but in my country we have social mobility. Education is free and based on merit. 

They generally stayed rich because they had high IQ, and their family were rich because of IQ. If they were stupid they'd just waste their money on drugs/party/hookers. IQ is one of the best predictors for wealth and success. Does that mean that if you have below-average to average IQ you should just give up and LDAR? No, you'll just have to work harder. Think the world is unfair?
Thats-a-Bingo.jpg

 
The only argument you can make for giving up is if you're dealt a really shit hand(<4/10, <80 IQ, autism).
But guess what, most incels are not hideous, legit autistic or stupid.


This place is so defeatist lmfao



I worked harder and in return i got nothing. People at work who half assed their job got a promotion just because they were normie or chad looking lol. Working hard is cope, working smart is where its at but if you are not even smart then its over for you lol
 

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