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Get a gf would drastically change my life for the better

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I have so many low points during the day thiers only like 30 minutes of the day I'm truly motivated/ have dopemine running through me, that I can get some work done only for me to feel extremely horny and look on the itnernet for porn 10 minutes later.
The vast majority of the day I'm depressed,
at least with a habing a gf, whenever I started feeling unmotivated, I'd have thoughts of cuddling/kissing/sexing her in the enar future, which would fill me with dopemine and so I'd have motivation to work on my projects
Thats in addition to the social connections that you get from having a gf
 
I would feel good only if i knew her good enough to trust her and to be relaxed around her, to be myself with her, without any anxiety. Which i know it doesnt exist. Relationship where i would fear that she would dump me if wind blows in another direction or cheat on me, where i need to constantly chase after her and pretend im someone im not is not worth it.
 
And it will turn worse after she leaves you for chad or a tallfag.
 
I'll never get a foid so i'm not even gonna envision what that would look like
 
And it will turn worse after she leaves you for chad or a tallfag.
unlikely to affect me I'm at rock bottom,
I just want more motivation so I can turn my life around
 
unlikely to affect me I'm at rock bottom,
I just want more motivation so I can turn my life around

Copium , Lets say you manage to attract a foid , Then what? Is not that she will say to you ganbare! the whole time after fucking.
 
I would feel good only if i knew her good enough to trust her and to be relaxed around her, to be myself with her, without any anxiety. Which i know it doesnt exist. Relationship where i would fear that she would dump me if wind blows in another direction or cheat on me, where i need to constantly chase after her and pretend im someone im not is not worth it.
 
I personally had longterm friendships with two guys that were incel into their mid 20s and were often depressed and once they got gfs/sex their personalities brightened up to the point it was almost a 180.
It was kind of obnoxious to see, really.
 
I would feel good only if i knew her good enough to trust her and to be relaxed around her, to be myself with her, without any anxiety. Which i know it doesnt exist. Relationship where i would fear that she would dump me if wind blows in another direction or cheat on me, where i need to constantly chase after her and pretend im someone im not is not worth it.
Well said
 

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