Serious genuine warm hugs are more important than carnal pleasures

[Zaphod2.0]

For some time now I have been noticing my lack of curiosity for sex being replaced by genuine physical contact genuine hugs.
I believe in a theory about incels who ascended aiming only at carnal pleasures are unhappy, because the secret lies in genuine contact; warm hugs...
I still can't accept blackpill fully, the thread of hope still remains. My grandmother is loyal to my grandfather, even after another decade of his death, and what little I could experience with my grandfather I know how happy they were they maintained physical contact daily.
Maybe I'm placing high expectations on what it's like to receive him

 

[JoeBruhcel]

I don't think I've gotten a hug ever in my life.
Maybe when I was a baby or some shit

 

[Cuckoja]

Yeah possibly, hugs make us feel safe. Many body gestures shows our fears and need for self soothing, kinda evidence we stay kids all life.

 

[JoeBruhcel]

Yeah possibly, hugs make us feel safe. Many body gestures shows our fears and need for self soothing, kinda evidence we stay kids all life.

 

[Cuckoja]

People mistake crossed arms for being on defense its not, its hugging yourself, holding your face in hands is not only despair, you are caressing you own face, also petting your hair and tapping your own shoulders, i do all of this especially holding my face in my hands because we need human touch, we need reassurance that it will be ok and that someone stands beside us. Its fucking sad, fuck everything.

 

[GhostedPhantom]

It's true. And then there's that Shit Tok video of a foid hugging incels just to make fun of their surprised reactions.

 

[JoeBruhcel]

People mistake crossed arms for being on defense its not, its hugging yourself, holding your face in hands is not only despair, you are caressing you own face, also petting your hair and tapping your own shoulders, i do all of this especially holding my face in my hands because we need human touch, we need reassurance that it will be ok and that someone stands beside us. Its fucking sad, fuck everything.

I just realized I do all the things you listed without even noticing it, I got so used to doing them all the time

 

[Zaphod2.0]

People mistake crossed arms for being on defense its not, its hugging yourself, holding your face in hands is not only despair, you are caressing you own face, also petting your hair and tapping your own shoulders, i do all of this especially holding my face in my hands because we need human touch, we need reassurance that it will be ok and that someone stands beside us. Its fucking sad, fuck everything.

No doubt, many times it is out of desperation that I catch myself touching my face imagining it is someone else's hands, or as is more common with pillows. human warmth.

 

[Cuckoja]

No doubt, many times it is out of desperation that I catch myself touching my face imagining it is someone else's hands, or as is more common with pillows. human warmth.

Humans are not made to be alone. no matter how looner and introverted you are.