Lv99_BixNood
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View: https://old.reddit.com/r/Healthygamergg/comments/xkeqxs/how_should_involuntarily_celibate_men_identify/
For the past few years, when making new friends or at parties, when discussions around sex and relationships have come up, I’ve typically identified myself as gay. I’m not gay (I’m mostly hetero), but it’s always effectively relegated this sphere of life to a non-factor, something abstract or distant as it were, and that’s been of huge benefit to my interpersonal relations with women, and actually, indirectly with men as well. I’ve gone from someone who, outside of my own circle of friends, always felt more or less socially excluded, to someone who has a much more active social life, being invited to parties and so on.
However - and this was the main question I addressed with my friend - there have been unintended consequences. Close female friends of mine have sent me compromising pictures of themselves (actually, so has this friend, even though she knows I’m not gay, but she’s just generally insane so that’s not really surprising), or engaged in other behaviours that I’m confident they wouldn’t have if they knew I was attracted to women.
Wouldn't surprise me at all if roasties actually treated ugly men better if they thought they're gay instead of straight