Lv99_BixNood
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Cis gay men hate us. Cis lesbians hate us, even butches. Cis straight men want to rape and kill us while cis straight women laugh as we die. Meanwhile trans women and nonbinary people don't care about us unless we can do something for them. Our entire value in the trans and queer community is based on whether or not we can center our entire existences around servicing someone who "matters more," that often being cis people of whatever kind or trans women. We're literally told to our faces that we only matter if we're willing to die for trans women at any moment, and if we don't want to do that, for any reason, we're just transmisogynists. It really sets a precedent that our lives have no value if we can't be of service to someone else, it's not enough that we just exist, we need to "make ourselves useful" by either being sex slaves for cis people or by dying for trans women. We complain about any of this and we get called insane hysterical misogynist incels by everyone. We get told to shut up, that our problems don't matter and we actually don't have any at all. I could go on and on but I honestly just fail to see how we have any space in the trans or queer community at all when everyone so obviously hates us. Nobody gives a shit about us unless we allow ourselves to be punching bags or tokens that promote their own narrative. No wonder why the only trans men that are allowed to speak are ones that have privileged, easy lives--it promotes queer people's narratives that we're privileged even though you'd be lucky to even have two supportive family members
Daily reminder they did this to themselves and now they rope over it





