Oneitiscel
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Back in Europe, growing up as an Asian guy was rough. From high school through college, I was the the “typical Asian nerd geek” stereotype.
Skinny as hell, acne all over my face, zero confidence, a shitty haircut that made me look like I just rolled out of bed , no jawline and overall bad physical harmony indeed I had big head on a small, scrawny body.
You know that “Asian wimp skull” vibe?
Yeah, that was me. I blame a lot of it on racism, internalized racism, and constant rejection and people treated me like I was invisible or just a joke.
For the Girls I was the guy who’d get laughed at or ignored. It was horrible I remember the bullying, the whispers, the feeling like I didn’t belong anywhere.
So After high school, I moved to a big city for university, thinking things would get better. Nope. If anything, it got worse. I was Bullied for my looks the first day of university I was feeling that people was mocking me in classes and at parties I’d get called weird or creepy just for existing.
No girls wanted to hang out with me; Indeed I’d try to talk and end up friendzoned every single time.
Parties? I’d stand in the corner while everyone else had fun like the typical Chad just being himself and having all the girls
But I was too shy to emulate them indeed I thought, “They’re celebrities, not me.”
That changed when I dove deep into the forums. I lurked as a ghost on sites like incel.com, YouTube videos, and lookmax.com for about 2 years it was in 2021 - 2022 in theses video ,traumatic experiences and people around me I analyzed and I learned the hard truth: Beauty is almost everything in this world.
Look at Jeremy Meeks who the “hot felon” who was a criminal but blew up, got modeling gigs, fame, and money just because of his looks due to his celeb and emblematic mugshots I would call it More Mog shot ahah .
Or those viral thugs who go from jail to celebrity status overnight.
Society rewards attractiveness, period.
It doesn’t care about your “personality” if you can’t get past the first glance.
I’m a model now, traveling, meeting new people every day, eating at dope restaurants, hitting skybars with views that blow your mind.
For the girls part modestly I will say they’re obsessed and interested in me everywhere, even at my workplace.
As a model, my looks give me a huge advantage indeed agencies scoop me up, and I nail castings left and right.
Dating is effortless indeed I don’t even make the first move anymore. Plus girls add me on social media constantly, sliding into my DMs.
The dopamine hits from all these small things?
Insane. A smile from a stranger, getting prioritized in lines, people treating you like you’re somebody it all adds up and confirms: lookmaxxing is essential if you want to change your life.
If you’re reading this and thinking “nah, personality matters more” or some bluepill BS, you’re coping hard.
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