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Serious Friends are irrelevant if you're Chad, and pointless if you're not

Wristlet 2

Wristlet 2

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I see many people in this forum complain they have no friends. That's a valid feeling don't get me wrong, loneliness sucks and I can totally see how someone would long for, if not romantic success or a relationship, at least a friend. However, if it helps, I believe it's pointless.

I have a few friends, and I'd really rather just vidya cope without a worry on a friday night, than wonder whether I should refuse to go out with my friends for the 100th time and have them stop calling me, or to go out with them and deal with suifuel of seeing couples, being ignored etc... Plus I'm not really close with anyone, and no one's best friend, since I'm not chad. Their lives are also a lot different than mine.

So the experience of having friends as incel isn't that good tbh.

As chad, I suppose it's a different story. But still. If you can wake up to lots of good morning messages literally by creating a tinder account, and go on dates with women who will love you, who tf cares about being friendless? I mean, I guess having friends to hang out with is better than not having them, specially if you're close to your friends, but no friendship can be as close as a romantic relationship anyway. I don't think a friendless chad would feel bad about it in the slightest.

So I guess my point is, one way or another, friends don't matter. If you're incel and have no friends, they wouldn't solve anything. If you're chad and have no friends, you probably wouldn't really give a fuck.

In this speech on The Wolf of Wall Street, the guy pretty much explains that money solves everything one way or another. Well, that's obviously betabuxx thinking and brainwashing to turn ugly males into motivated work drones, but the philosophy 100% applies to looks. Forget about making friends, all of your problems boil down to looks and can be solved by looksmaxxing, nothing else is really relevant (or if you're a trucel and can't looksmaxx, sorry but the only answer is the rope)

 
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I don't need friends. I need a hole to fuck.
 
I'd love to have a plutonic bro for life type of friend but that's impossible tbh, especially in the age of soy

Anyways, thread is high IQ. Having friends as a chad is pointless, having friends as an incel is a death sentence.
 
I'd love to have a plutonic bro for life type of friend but that's impossible tbh, especially in the age of soy

Anyways, thread is high IQ. Having friends as a chad is pointless, having friends as an incel is a death sentence.
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You'll always be the third wheel for them anyways.
 
Pretty much tbh, i discovered i didn't really need friends despite trying to make them at every corner i could. A gf though? different story.
 
yea that’s why I don’t rly desire normie friends
 
This is a pretty interesting take on friendship and its intrinsic relationship to looks. There is something in today's society that makes me agree with what you state; that is, everybody is out there for their own gain, meaning people will take any opportunity to use you as a means to an end instead of an end by itself. Now, all relationships are transactional. If you do not have something to offer to normies, they will just discard your value as a person and use you as their tool to achieve other things that only favors them, not you.
 
Tbh I'm not sure I believe in the just betabux theory, at least not in the direct way its often portrayed here.

Sure, I've met many foids who are ultra materialistic, but the truth is usually you can spot them for a mile away. You take one good peek at any one of them and you can tell whether she's "high maintenance" or not if you know what to look for.

On the other hand, kashish allows you to buy experiences, which are much more valued than money in and of itself. This allows you to lead an interesting life, social media maxx, mingle amongst different social groups, partake in various activities and meet people.

Clearly looks (face mostly) > everything, but cultivating an interesting persona is the by far the most viable of any pathways to ascension.
 
henlo frens we all frens here
 
friends lmao. nobody cares about anyone except their immediate family. pretending otherwise is cope. besides, not like talking to blue or at best redpilled normies leads anywhere. show me a guy that took the blackpill, the lolipill, the jpill, the neetpill and I'll be his friend
 
The word friend has lost its meaning in the modern era where we see everything as a mean to an end.
 
friends lmao. nobody cares about anyone except their immediate family. pretending otherwise is cope. besides, not like talking to blue or at best redpilled normies leads anywhere. show me a guy that took the blackpill, the lolipill, the jpill, the neetpill and I'll be his friend

lolipill? jpill?

btw in my case not even my immediate family
 
we ended on a good run and went separate ways. They probably wouldn’t recognize me now because I had acne back then and Short hair. I think friends are hard to fine and it sucks I’ll never have consistent friends in irl. This place is the only consistent social place I have. Can’t even get to personal with anyone
The word friend has lost its meaning in the modern era where we see everything as a mean to an end.
That explains how toxic people are in some places (twitch).
 
lolipill? jpill?

btw in my case not even my immediate family
lolipill means only pure lolis can be thought of as ltr material, all used foids are worthless vermin that should be forced into prostitution or recycled as worm feed.
jpill refers to semitic people and their shenanigans :feelsokman:

now try convincing a normie that his hard earned roastie gf treats him like shit and will inevitably cuck and divorce rape him or that netflix is basically a cuckold soft porn production company
 
friends lmao. nobody cares about anyone except their immediate family. pretending otherwise is cope. besides, not like talking to blue or at best redpilled normies leads anywhere. show me a guy that took the blackpill, the lolipill, the jpill, the neetpill and I'll be his friend

If by lolipill, you mean we should go back to marrying girls at puberty to responsible men, then I'm on board with that. Don't know what jpill is though? Jew pill?
 
lolipill means only pure lolis can be thought of as ltr material, all used foids are worthless vermin that should be forced into prostitution or recycled as worm feed.
jpill refers to semitic people and their shenanigans :feelsokman:

now try convincing a normie that his hard earned roastie gf treats him like shit and will inevitably cuck and divorce rape him or that netflix is basically a cuckold soft porn production company
i dont agree with the lolipill, it sounds like a cope

as to jpill, i think its unrelated to inceldom, and also, it could be mistaken with the term jewpill which means mental health meds/drugs
 
The idea of having "close friends" in modern society is a complete joke and meme. All friendships are simply a business exchange, and have always been. Why does Chad have more friends than us? Because normies know that he has more connections, and even they will use him to meet other normies. Even Chad is disillusioned in thinking that people truly care about him, foids only care about his face and dick, and normies only care about his status. If he didn't have any of these qualities, it'd be over for him.
 
Friends/associates/peers must have some value since niggers use them to gang up on people and win fights
 
i dont agree with the lolipill, it sounds like a cope

as to jpill, i think its unrelated to inceldom, and also, it could be mistaken with the term jewpill which means mental health meds/drugs
hey, at least you don't demonize me for stating the lolipill like a normie would. in fact if I had a job and told a colleague about the lolipill he'd do everything in his power to get me fired. why is it cope?
 
hey, at least you don't demonize me for stating the lolipill like a normie would. in fact if I had a job and told a colleague about the lolipill he'd do everything in his power to get me fired. why is it cope?
ofc i dont demonize you brocel, im not a sheep, i think for myself as we all do. i disagree but don't think you're some sort of monster for this just bc the media says so, bc you're not

i think its a cope though, bc its like subconsciously thinking "i cant have women my age so i'll pretend i dont want them in the first place"
Who the fuck actually watches those types of "Get Rich!" "Improve yourself in 5 easy steps!" videos.
Jfl.
copers i think lmao
 
The number of friends I have has been decreasing for many years. The friends I now have are so toxic that I just want to get rid of them. I trusted them and thought they were good people during my Bluepilled days. Now I realise that they were just parasites. They were always jealous(from not only me but to each other too) and were responsible for many of my failures. This is really toxic to be in.
 
i dont agree with the lolipill, it sounds like a cope

as to jpill, i think its unrelated to inceldom, and also, it could be mistaken with the term jewpill which means mental health meds/drugs

Lolipill is the ultimate truth.
 
I wanna get. my fucking. dick sucked.
 
Chad still needs friends, but specific friends aren't as relevant when you can easily make more just by existing.
 
Very true. As much as I get a dopamine rush from actually talking to people, I realize it's a time waste and a gamble and I'd be better off having less but more predictable, controllable fun coping. People can only offer you shit if you're a normie or better, as a subnormie you don't get a constant benefit from socializing so it's not worth being dedicated into even if you care about the people you know.
 

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