This is because people's preferences in looks are so uniform that if you said looks were completely objective, you'd be more right than wrong. Wide jaws, high cheekbones, full heads of hair, clear skin, and 6ft+ height are universally preferred by holes, and the ones who say otherwise are either liars or extreme rarities and possibly mentally ill. Personality, on the other hand, is very subjective. Whether you're an introvert or an extrovert, whether you like football or LARPing, whether you like medical dramas or "adult animation", doesn't matter because there are holes occupying every niche. Only extreme social isolation will make a good-looking person incel. No good-looking person who engages with society will stay incel for long no matter how socially awkward he is or how abnormal his interests are. If you do put yourself out there, interact with others, and practice basic hygiene, the only thing that can make you incel is being ugly, which is something you're born with and you can only fix with surgery you can't afford.
