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We met on reddit and helped each other through a lot of shit.
I'm a white European male and she's a white American girl
We became friends and after more than a year of regular chatting and sharing secrets she want to cut me out of her life because my political views are "harmful"
We sometimes discussed some political stuff and it quickly became clear that she is far left (Antifa). She thinks that everything done by Antifa is great etc. I am middle, tending to right. I personally have bad experience with Antifa (they were attacking me and my friends bc they "mistook" our fraternity as a "racist unity" (they said it like that) She also multiple times called me a boot licker, bc I am a supporter for the blue line.
As she told me today that my social views are harmful and that I, as a white male, can neither be a victim of racial, domisitc or sexual abuse, through women or men.
She knows that I am a Female and Male equality supporter and Male rights supporter and she called latter ridiculous (she rephrased it but said something like that what I do has no use bc there shouldn't be such things or shit like that)
I want to keep her as a friend, bc she helped me out of depression and I have a no man left behind thinking, but what should I do?
Update: So I did what some of the people told me to do and send her this text:
Well mate, maybe you are right with the toxic masculinity, maybe I'm a biggot.
But it kinda ends for me here. I promised you to not abandon you. But you are doing it right now. You keep insulting me, you keep talking down on my political views or general views. You keep down playing everything I worry about.
And yes "reverse racism" doesn't fucking exist bc its still just fucking racism.
If you want to call me words? , fine, fucking do it. But don't expect me to just sit here and take it.
If you really have such big problems with my views then you should consider ghosting me, bc I'm not standing here, being the tramp.
I'll still care for you, hell, if I had the money I would come over and kick some ass. I just feel that I was your rug were you could scrape off the dirt underneath your boots and then walk away until you step in shit again.
So, please think about it yourself and if you come to the conclusion that you don't want me in your life anymore, then so fucking be it. I'm not leaving you, you are kicking me out
View: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/juv4ro/friend_f16_wants_to_cut_mem18_out_of_her_life_bc/