You wake up, eat your shitty food that you prepare for yourself cause the wife is empowered, and you go to work. You spend more than 9 hours there, busting your ass. You make more money than her (if she works at all), but you don't get to keep any of it, she decides how it is spent. You come home after this long and hard day, 9 hours working and 1 hour commuting, and you make yourself something to eat. She doesn't feel like having sex, so all you can do to unwind is play a video game. Then she starts nagging. She's been home for longer than you, but she didn't do shit around the house, so now she has some chores for you, some errands. Well, fuck that. You're tired. You go play some video games. She now starts badmouthing you to her relatives, your relatives, and all your friends. She divorces you after cheating on you with Chad cause he pays attention to her, and all you do is play video games. Damn that Fortnite!
At least that's how it is for non-incels.