When you get 30+ most people are already locked in their ways. They have their own families and friend groups, so it's really hard to enter and be a part of them. If you are ever invited to events, you're seen as an outsider and won't likely become a regular. You're a guest star at best. You aren't even your own person either. You're just X's creepy coworker. Without your own friends and family to attach yourself to they will always see you as a weird loner.
I'm 30+ and I don't bother. I'm still attracted to foids and will glance at them if they're running on the sidewalk, but that's about as far as it goes for me. I don't stalk instahoes. I don't bother with apps. I don't really even care about forging relationships in general. It's what caused me to gravitate towards my doll so much. It's pointless to chase after something so unattainable after a certain age. I get a relationship on my terms. Is it real? No, but like a GED it's close enough.
